Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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kevm3 said:
3) Know how to pass a woman along
If you and your boy are out and both of you see a woman and you're really feeling her, but you see the woman is feeling your potna more, stay real, keep your emotions in cheque, realize that there will be tons more women that you will really like, and pass that woman his way like a football. Shortstopping the woman and trying to block her from getting to your friend is lame behavior. Send her his way, but on another token, never become that woman's little messenger. If she asks you about him, give your boy her number and let that be the end of that. Sometimes women will get real disrespectful if you are not careful and try to get you to go back and forth delivering messages to your boy. Don't fall into that role and always make sure a woman respects you. For example if she walks up to you and doesn't say hi or take the time to ask you about you but instead asks you, "How is your boy doing," tell her, "I know you got better manners than that. I'm not your messenger. You got his number so give him a ring."
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Yea yo,

One time me and my college friends met up in the city for a night out, we went to the bar first then the club after. One of my college friends who is a chick brought her friend along, who is a chick, this girl was soo bad, smart latina chick, sexy as hell. She was kind of the like the 3rd wheel of the group because she was the only one who didn't go to our school so I thought it'd be a good time to talk to her, so basically i was chatting her up at the bar and shyt, then we go to the club and we were dancing and chilling whatever, mind you everyone in my group is aware of what's going on. so then my boy who is like my brother who was trying to hook up with some other girl in our group at the bar, the girl i'm with seen him try to hook up with her and he was also dating some girl, anyways this dude is decided to try to @ holla the chick I was with the whole night, im like wtf my dude, so then i go to the bathroom and he's in there also and he's like 'its on for her', i'm like wtf? ya lame. (theres madd girls in this club, he's talking to girls already and he just happens to NEED this girl i'm trying to get at).. so anyways i leave this chick for a little for some reason and then i go back to try to get her number or go somewhere with her or whatever and she left because my boy was coming on too strong. smh.. yea nikkas just gotta know to pass a women along. all my other friends knew i was trying to get some but he was just trying to be on some next i have to have every girl shyt.
 
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kevm3 said:
Where a lot of guys lose is they want to choose the woman instead of having her choose him first. They go out and start to deal with some woman they like, but she doesn't necessarily like him. In that scenario, she has the advantage. You like her more than she likes you, and then you start working to get in her graces and try to make her like you. Just based off of that small information, how can you be considered the boss when you're the one doing the working? Like I said before, it requires emotional discipline. You will come across many women that you really like, but you have to learn to dismiss them if they don't really like you... otherwise you will put yourself in a losing position where you are trying to impress the woman and get in her graces... and you will end up never impressing her because women want BOSSES, not BUTLERS. When you start working for a woman, to impress her or start doing her all of these favors, when you become a common butler to her. You will never get the respect of a boss by doing such. Control your likes and refuse to deal with women that you like more than they like you. It's difficult, but once you get into a habit of doing it, it will save you a ton of trouble.
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:whoo: man I see this first hand..my boy like one of my good female friends and she dont feel him like that so she walks over him (was even messing with another dude behind his back) and I tried to tell him like dude just let the girl go mang but naaah dude still sticking around...the simping hurts me at times but I'm like u a grown man and he's not a bad looking guy I'm like theres many fish in the sea man why u stuck on this girl :dead:
 
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If you've had the opportunity to either build in this thread since the origin or simply read this thread from the beginning, you have been equipped with more than enough knowledge to understand this game.

One of the biggest problems that men have is adhering to the principles once they've found a woman. They will use all of these tools to get them a woman, but then they subconsciously revert back to their simp behaviors.

Getting a woman is not the goal or end-result. The goal is to be a "man of respect" at all times, and this requires discipline, constant growth and adherence to the principles.

Don't get lax because you think you've found a great woman. If you don't maintain your respect, she can easily turn into a user, abuser, or even worse. Never make a chick believe that she is more vital than the air you breathe. Yes, you may love her... but undoubtedly you can live without her and life goes on.

No woman is worth it!!!!!

Let me repeat that. No woman is worth it!!!!

No woman is worth you compromising your principles or disrespecting yourself. I hear many married men say "Well that's how women get once you're married." No, women get like that because you allow them to disrespect you. Never provide security, only incentive. Security means "no matter what", Incentive means "only if"

And make your word mean something. If you tell a woman you're not going to tolerate a behavior and she still does it, then stand behind your word and carry out the consequence, even if it means breaking up with her. The pain that you will feel will be minuscule in comparison to the headache and depression you will feel for allowing yourself to stay in a relationship where you are not respected in the manner that you should be.

You will be tested. Stay true to what you believe in.
 
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Turbulent said:
there's a difference between trying to buy loyalty and rewarding loyalty. only reward passed loyalty. never future potential loyalty. you can never own future loyalty so you'll just be playing yourself buying something you can't own because it doesn't exist yet (you're conning yourself).

sometimes you'll have to take risks (trust) and make gestures that may not be reciprocated. make sure it's always something you can afford to lose (and i'm not just talking about money here). there's a saying that goes "if you can't afford to lose then you can't afford to win". but it doesn't mean you should play everytime. only when you can afford to lose.
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"Only play when you can afford to lose"

You just hit a breh In the chest with that one :wow:
 
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His_Excellence_Reincar said:
Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD will be praised

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cathline comments on I've been considering becoming a "sugar baby"... Any advice?

JuliaChildszombie comments on Women who have cheated - tell me your stories
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I'm going through that whole thread thznk goodness I'm single.

All these chicks are blaming the guy why they stepped out, smh wt these whores

Dude B comes to visit. I tell him, "I'm seeing someone, so this is just friendly." The first night he sleeps on the couch. The next night he sleeps on the floor in my room. The next night he sleeps in my bed, and what do you know; the next night we have sex. Should I have resisted more? Yes. Should he not have kept pushing me? Yes. Should the other guy just have accepted the fact that I didn't love him and wasn't excited to be with him? Yes! I think there were three people at fault here

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