Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turbulent]

that idealistic "love" you get when you're crushing hard on a girl, the type of feeling where you imagine scenarios where you'd sacrifice everything for the chick, it's like a high in the moment. embrace it in small doses but it should never be your permanent state. a girl will NEVER be able to reciprocate that type of love cause they're not hardwired that way. like someone else said, we (men) are actually the more "idealistic" lovers. love a chick like that constantly and she'll own your soul and shyt on it.

"And the only time you love them is when your dikk hard"

one of my fav. jay-z lines. don't be "deeply in love" with your woman 100% of the time. there are appropriate moments to show it to her and to feel it. even if it's a woman you have a serious commitment to. but at the same time i'm not saying to completely deny these feelings. you have to keep it real with yourself but control your emotions as well.

 

[Turbulent]

What's gonna happen when we all get gfs/married brehs? Simp life?

you can't fall asleep at the wheel. you can't think that "I've arrived, i can relax now..." focus on your goal and your woman is your co-pilot. you still have to be ready for her to not act right and to be able to deal with that shyt. Never let shyt go out of hand. check her early and be consistent. just because you're commited to someone doesn't mean you have to be a simp.

 

[nls743]

Dont know if this was posted.....he brings up a great point

 

[CrossBones]

you always have to push a hard line in life. whether you have a girl or not. even if you have a wifey/wife, shes not always going to make things easier. I know this personally. the thing is, if you settled with her, it only means that she understands you pretty well and what you wont tolerate.

the point being, now that youre in a deep commitment with more on the line, make sure that she knows it too. what youre holding up to make things work, means she has to be doing her part. youre still on your job, so make sure she is too.

and that line has to be there if youre with a woman or not. life outside of the home will be the same, so have your personal code in mind and never let up. make sure your boundaries with everybody is understood and you enforce it. no days off. it becomes second nature anyways.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Red Pill Wisdom From Patrice O’Neal

 

[Turbulent]

never go crazy over good p*ssy. bytches will sleep with you and bring their A game and then try to withhold the p*ssy when they see you're hooked. don't let yourself be p*ssy whipped.


It's only good p*ssy while you're fukking it. There's no such thing as good p*ssy while you're not fukking it. (and that goes for every woman from your wife of 25 years to the woman you just met and haven't even fukked yet)

EDIT: you can't lose what you don't have. And you never really "have" a woman.

 

[CrossBones]

Red Pill Wisdom From Patrice O’Neal

never go crazy over good p*ssy. bytches will sleep with you and bring their A game and then try to withhold the p*ssy when they see you're hooked. don't let yourself be p*ssy whipped.


It's only good p*ssy while you're fukking it. There's no such thing as good p*ssy while you're not fukking it. (and that goes for every woman from your wife of 25 years to the woman you just met and haven't even fukked yet)

EDIT: you can't lose what you don't have. And you never really "have" a woman.

all good points. and to quote the late great patrice and the article from 662662662

“You have to not be afraid to take a loss to get your point across. When she gives you that ultimatum, if you look like you’re sweating and you’re blinking and you’re nervous about her leaving, she will take advantage of that.”

“Stop trying to give her things to make her happy. You have to say, ‘Look sweetie, this is how it is.’ You have to be ready for her to walk out of your life. You ever see that movie Heat? Don’t get involved in something you can’t walk out on in less than 30 seconds.”

“One thing women need from you is emotions. [...]. If you [calmly deflect them]..." edit: Im not going to put all that out there like that. go click the link and peep game.

 

[Jahmal]

One of my coworkers went on a few dates with a girl last month before she hit him with a sob story that she was $400 short on rent for the month. He gave her the money and she said she would pay him back when she got her next check. That was the last time he heard from her. She's been ignoring all his calls and texts. SMH!

 

[sixsixtwo]

One of my coworkers went on a few dates with a girl last month before she hit him with a sob story that she was $400 short on rent for the month. He gave her the money and she said she would pay him back when she got her next check. That was the last time he heard from her. She's been ignoring all his calls and texts. SMH!

She hit that nikka with the "Po-mouth" & he fell right for it..

I wouldn't even "loan" a woman $40, let alone $400..

 

[MikelArteta]

Had to toss the girl from the bus in the bushes rules are rules

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[CrossBones]

as soon as the money problem talk comes in, Im out. never entertain that shyt. but if I was, or anybody else was going to be about that, the only sensable way to approach it would be to get everything in writing.

see typically with guys youd be able to fukk them up or punch em in the mouth if they owe you and then try to dodge you. but eventually, you catch up to them. and they know that. so there a little more reservation, or maybe honor you could say with that situation. but with a girl, what? they know they can get away with mooching and "borrowing" money while looking like the victim. and then after you loan the dough out and never hear from them, you get the dumb cliche "well, you should have never loaned out money then." easy come easy go

bottomline, dont fukking give out your money. if you want to, buy things. and you cant buy p*ssy. you only rent it. so dont just go around spending your cash and throwing it out to whatever. be smart with that.... invest wisely.

 

[Malikthegod]

SET BOUNDARIES

A woman has to know where she stands with you. She must know without a doubt in her mind what you will and will NOT tolerate. Make a long story short I was having a ton of problems with my girl due to me not taking the lead in my relationship. I recognized this and decided I needed to work on myself so I called it quits. We ended up getting back together and we had a date set up, which she flaked on at first, but said she's not far and it won't take her long to link up with me.

Now in the past I would've been mad for awhile but still would have agreed to see her, but I totally flipped the script on her. Told her that there was no point even hooking up because I told her to meet me at a set time and she didn't show up. To which she responded "Sorry for F'in up your plans"

I responded back like excuse me and she corrected herself. I said that's the last time you are ever gonna curse at me first of all, and keep your lil back handed apology. She tried her hardest to get me to meet up with her but I stood my ground and was like nah baby, that's now how it's gonna go down. You don't show up when we agree, you don't get rewarded for that. Didn't talk to her for the rest of the day and she was super pissy about it.

Next day we got into a he argument and I basically put my foot all the way down and said, look in the past I tolerated that mess, but I'm not going to put up with it any longer. You either get right or get LEFT. She said she was gonna bounce and told me to have a nice life. I said you do the same. She was HEEEEATED and went off on me. In the past I would've argued back with her, but now I just hit her with a simple "Ok"

You MUST let these chicks know that you won't put up with their bad behavior NOT EVEN FOR AN INSTANCE. They gotta know that you're ready to walk away at any moment if they don't stay within the boundaries YOU set up. I was letting her take the lead in our relationship, and like my man kevm3 alway says if you follow a woman, she'll only bring you towards calamity.

 

[sixsixtwo]

I [23/F] can't choose between my husband [26/m] and my long-time love [25/m]. Am I being selfish? : relationships

 

[Two Stacks]

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[Liquid]

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