Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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eshbabez .......

^You peep the message this broad put at the end of her profile?

about not giving her any "BS"(we all kno what she means by that) when contacting her?

but check out that 3rd picture on the top where she is getting her top undressed like she is getting ready to Put up a Backpage escort ad....

and then look at that other pic in her ton of pictures that only shows a picture of her "lips".....close up......

So basically this girl puts up a picture of her getting half undressed and a closeup of her thick juicy lips....and tells horny red blooded males not to give any BS...

and these chicks wonder why they are not taken seriously at all.

we have to understand that many women are stuck on that basic shyt where if they are looking and acting like a hooker, then they KNOW it will attract them a man who will spend some time and money on them. or at least get her a goon to come by some nights and fukk her :steviej:

but when women mostly rely on their looks and sex appeal to get a man, they seem to have a lot less to offer you in other terms. no conversations with real substance, little in the way of manners, and never any moral support. you see that in all of her insecurity, its only about her and how much that she puts her looks over everything. on top of that, if their looks are getting them something today, and it can get them something else tommorow, of course theyll be jumping on that next ride. those are the shallow females that have little valuable substance to them, so what they do is they go around playing this "gimme" game on all the sucker ass tricks who're stuck on their looks. females with little substance seek men with little substance.

you know the types, the pretty girls who cant fukk, the girl who is on the phone all the time flirting with men for favors, the ones who expect to be spoiled and do shyt, the females who need a lot of people to pay attention to her photos, etc


:krs:

that pof profile reminded me, I used that website long ago. I remember getting only two or three responses in a week, where I would shoot out 35-40. it got tiring because I wasnt even using generic messages to holla at them :dead:

anyways, I switched it up about a month later. for some reason I thought being articulate, mannered, and appealing to their interests mentioned would get these internet females to respond. it wasnt simping (borderline), but I was making the mistake of coming off as nice and polite. :umad:

anyways, I didnt get it at first. so I changed it up and I treated it like a job interview. you know how they looking for "buzz words" and shyt that matches up with their job description?

I completely threw away my old school, tailor made messages for each girl, and went into vh1 mode. I wrote shyt like "Im a man who is not with the drama" "Im brutally honest with my friends" "Im down to earth" "I like to make people laugh" "so if youre not serious, dont reply" and shyt like that, just taking whatever cliches that was on their profiles and repackaged it back at em. to catch their attention, I started using their own language on them. :jawalrus:

just like that, I got WAY better responses. even from women I was only testing it on, as well as some of the others :shaq2:

problem is, when you successfully speak chickenhead ... youre dealing with a chickenhead :damn:

changing my lingo to get these ho asses wasnt worth it. had me all up and down the city with these broke, thirsty bytches from different parts of town. so many of them put on a big front. damn bruh what a fool I was. I fronted to get with women who were in turn fronting. so fukk all that.

but anyways, if you see youre dealing with a simpleton, then you have to speak simpleton to play them/reach them. but think about that, and whats really going on. thats all Im saying.

the other option is to take it back to basics, and keep it simple. tell her what youre looking for, and she'll either respect it or ignore it. you dont have to play games like that and go in circles to get to where you want to be.

women are so deep into their own games, and being about that bullshyt, that they resent whenever they think theyre seeing a man trying to work his game on them to get to what he wants. they think its them being played, when a lot of times its just courtship and making an impression. well, so be it. I suggest that you never go out your way to be like that. dont play idle games with them or try to impress them. you have to be yourself. and if you dont think thats good enough, then work on that until youre comfortable and happy with your whole shyt to be like that.

see if theyre real, then theyd prefer you to be upfront and real as well. a-alike, b(e) alike, c(see) alike.
 

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Status means everything to a woman. I remember a young woman who Mom hooked us up (thru text but thas another story).The woman's mother described me to her. In these exact words "Tall,light skin,educated" the mom showed me moe love then the daughter :leon:. The woman replied back "What does he do". Women love Status not the actual MAN. You may get a small % who does,but status is everything to a woman and there friends influence them more then anything.
 

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we have to understand that many women are stuck on that basic shyt where if they are looking and acting like a hooker, then they KNOW it will attract them a man who will spend some time and money on them. or at least get her a goon to come by some nights and fukk her :steviej:

but when women mostly rely on their looks and sex appeal to get a man, they seem to have a lot less to offer you in other terms. no conversations with real substance, little in the way of manners, and never any moral support. you see that in all of her insecurity, its only about her and how much that she puts her looks over everything. on top of that, if their looks are getting them something today, and it can get them something else tommorow, of course theyll be jumping on that next ride. those are the shallow females that have little valuable substance to them, so what they do is they go around playing this "gimme" game on all the sucker ass tricks who're stuck on their looks. females with little substance seek men with little substance.

you know the types, the pretty girls who cant fukk, the girl who is on the phone all the time flirting with men for favors, the ones who expect to be spoiled and do shyt, the females who need a lot of people to pay attention to her photos, etc


:krs:

that pof profile reminded me, I used that website long ago. I remember getting only two or three responses in a week, where I would shoot out 35-40. it got tiring because I wasnt even using generic messages to holla at them :dead:

anyways, I switched it up about a month later. for some reason I thought being articulate, mannered, and appealing to their interests mentioned would get these internet females to respond. it wasnt simping (borderline), but I was making the mistake of coming off as nice and polite. :umad:

anyways, I didnt get it at first. so I changed it up and I treated it like a job interview. you know how they looking for "buzz words" and shyt that matches up with their job description?

I completely threw away my old school, tailor made messages for each girl, and went into vh1 mode. I wrote shyt like "Im a man who is not with the drama" "Im brutally honest with my friends" "Im down to earth" "I like to make people laugh" "so if youre not serious, dont reply" and shyt like that, just taking whatever cliches that was on their profiles and repackaged it back at em. to catch their attention, I started using their own language on them. :jawalrus:

just like that, I got WAY better responses. even from women I was only testing it on, as well as some of the others :shaq2:

problem is, when you successfully speak chickenhead ... youre dealing with a chickenhead :damn:

changing my lingo to get these ho asses wasnt worth it. had me all up and down the city with these broke, thirsty bytches from different parts of town. so many of them put on a big front. damn bruh what a fool I was. I fronted to get with women who were in turn fronting. so fukk all that.

but anyways, if you see youre dealing with a simpleton, then you have to speak simpleton to play them/reach them. but think about that, and whats really going on. thats all Im saying.

the other option is to take it back to basics, and keep it simple. tell her what youre looking for, and she'll either respect it or ignore it. you dont have to play games like that and go in circles to get to where you want to be.

women are so deep into their own games, and being about that bullshyt, that they resent whenever they think theyre seeing a man trying to work his game on them to get to what he wants. they think its them being played, when a lot of times its just courtship and making an impression. well, so be it. I suggest that you never go out your way to be like that. dont play idle games with them or try to impress them. you have to be yourself. and if you dont think thats good enough, then work on that until youre comfortable and happy with your whole shyt to be like that.

see if theyre real, then theyd prefer you to be upfront and real as well. a-alike, b(e) alike, c(see) alike.
cosign. i find that when i think too much about "the game" and try to strategize and calculate stuff is when i end up slipping.

i don't even play the waiting game anymore. i just try my best to keep my mental hygiene on point, keep a good positive mindset, live a balance lifestyle, keep your mind a little busy and be sincere with my intentions. don't even pay too much attention to their games, go with what you want and don't play yourself by giving more than you can afford to spare. You just can't lose when it comes to women with that mentality. You can't lose cause you're not even playing...
 

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What's gonna happen when we all get gfs/married brehs? Simp life? :(

i have to say its hard when you start dating again and those former simp tendencies come back in your forehead, falling in lust, and she short a little rent money for hte month.

Cell phone gonna be cut off, "how we gonna talk monsieur fox", "i thought you loved me":

the key is to be firm, thankfully ive never falling back into the simp life since i became the new me.

Remember in your mind the first few months are the honeymoon period and everything will go great, remember what you previously learned in relationships and apply them.

Remember the less you say the less you can mess up, i remember after my ex fiance getting back in the dating game. I would tell women i was previous engage and what happaned error number 1, and id get the "id never hurt you like that reincar" :childplease:

The moment you put down your guard they will strike. Like this broad im talking to, shes like so desribe yourself.


a few years ago i would have said , im kind, gentle, a heart for others, goal orientated, loyal faithful


all i said is im a mystery



another example back in the day when girls would be like

all i dated were a$$holes, ive never been treated good in a relationship, id be like :cape:, dont worry i'd never cheat on you, those men are dogs im a great guy

now?
i just think about how many good guys she screwed over.
 
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I'm confused about this...

Why are women so concerned with what you have and what you don't have? I was thinking about it the other day ago, but if I'm talking to you it isn't because of what you have, but because of what you are. As men I think we're looking for more of a companion while women on the other hand are looking for status. Like Reincar for example, he met a woman on the bus and knowing that she didn't have a car he still placed that fact aside and said something along the lines of "as long as she can get to our date, then I don't care" now a woman on the other hand would have labeled us men as "scrubs". Now how does that work? What I'm confused about is why are you so interested in what I am, rather than who I am, when you won't be getting any of it. If we're married yes we can share, but when first getting to know someone material items should be the last thing that you should care about, it should be getting to know the person, then progression.

I'm confuzzled.


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i have to say its hard when you start dating again and those former simp tendencies come back in your forehead, falling in lust, and she short a little rent money for hte month.

Cell phone gonna be cut off, "how we gonna talk monsieur fox", "i thought you loved me":

the key is to be firm, thankfully ive never falling back into the simp life since i became the new me.

Remember in your mind the first few months are the honeymoon period and everything will go great, remember what you previously learned in relationships and apply them.

Remember the less you say the less you can mess up, i remember after my ex fiance getting back in the dating game. I would tell women i was previous engage and what happaned error number 1, and id get the "id never hurt you like that reincar" :childplease:

The moment you put down your guard they will strike. Like this broad im talking to, shes like so desribe yourself.


a few years ago i would have said , im kind, gentle, a heart for others, goal orientated, loyal faithful


all i said is im a mystery



another example back in the day when girls would be like

all i dated were a$$holes, ive never been treated good in a relationship, id be like :cape:, dont worry i'd never cheat on you, those men are dogs im a great guy

now?
i just think about how many good guys she screwed over.

I'm gonna use this...Thank you
 
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