Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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if you want something from someone and it's a situation where you've decided for yourself that if they don't give you what you want, you walk, do it while your value is high.

i know it sounds very basic but i think we all mess up on that one from time to time.
 

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I forgot why I don't get seriously involved with a woman with kids until yesterday...was talking with this one chick on the phone and all I heard was her arguing with her 3 yr old the whole time. I just hung up the phone and ignored her call back.
 

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I'm confused about this...

Why are women so concerned with what you have and what you don't have? I was thinking about it the other day ago, but if I'm talking to you it isn't because of what you have, but because of what you are. As men I think we're looking for more of a companion while women on the other hand are looking for status. Like Reincar for example, he met a woman on the bus and knowing that she didn't have a car he still placed that fact aside and said something along the lines of "as long as she can get to our date, then I don't care" now a woman on the other hand would have labeled us men as "scrubs". Now how does that work? What I'm confused about is why are you so interested in what I am, rather than who I am, when you won't be getting any of it. If we're married yes we can share, but when first getting to know someone material items should be the last thing that you should care about, it should be getting to know the person, then progression.

I'm confuzzled.
 

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I'm confused about this...

Why are women so concerned with what you have and what you don't have? I was thinking about it the other day ago, but if I'm talking to you it isn't because of what you have, but because of what you are. As men I think we're looking for more of a companion while women on the other hand are looking for status. Like Reincar for example, he met a woman on the bus and knowing that she didn't have a car he still placed that fact aside and said something along the lines of "as long as she can get to our date, then I don't care" now a woman on the other hand would have labeled us men as "scrubs". Now how does that work? What I'm confused about is why are you so interested in what I am, rather than who I am, when you won't be getting any of it. If we're married yes we can share, but when first getting to know someone material items should be the last thing that you should care about, it should be getting to know the person, then progression.

I'm confuzzled.
a woman could care about what you have because she could be plotting to game you into giving her your ressources. but a lot of times it's because she feels like you having things is a side effect of your ambition. to some extent she wants the status and the fact that you have something to show, if she associates herself to you then the status goes to her a little bit as well. She gets more "respect" for it because she was chosen by someone who everyone knows (because of the display of ressources) has a lot and had many options yet chose her.

but smarter women know that just because a man doesn't have much to show when she meets him, doesn't necessarily means he's a loser. They just have a sixth sense for that drive. they see it in your eyes. hear it in your voice, see it in your body language etc. they see the diamond in the rough.
 

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After all the BS and problems some of y'all have been through with females.. y'all don't find it hard to Be faithful or believe in love

I'll never cheat, women don't love like men do.

I only love God and my family.

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I'm confused about this...

Why are women so concerned with what you have and what you don't have? I was thinking about it the other day ago, but if I'm talking to you it isn't because of what you have, but because of what you are. As men I think we're looking for more of a companion while women on the other hand are looking for status. Like Reincar for example, he met a woman on the bus and knowing that she didn't have a car he still placed that fact aside and said something along the lines of "as long as she can get to our date, then I don't care" now a woman on the other hand would have labeled us men as "scrubs". Now how does that work? What I'm confused about is why are you so interested in what I am, rather than who I am, when you won't be getting any of it. If we're married yes we can share, but when first getting to know someone material items should be the last thing that you should care about, it should be getting to know the person, then progression.

I'm confuzzled.

Women like to brag to their friends.

One f the first thing a chicks friends will ask is what does he do?

What kind of car does he drive?

It's all about status

As for a male with my male friends No homo, what she look like, no kids?
Damn you won.

What she drives, what she does for A living no one cares

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a woman could care about what you have because she could be plotting to game you into giving her your ressources. but a lot of times it's because she feels like you having things is a side effect of your ambition. to some extent she wants the status and the fact that you have something to show, if she associates herself to you then the status goes to her a little bit as well. She gets more "respect" for it because she was chosen by someone who everyone knows (because of the display of ressources) has a lot and had many options yet chose her.

but smarter women know that just because a man doesn't have much to show when she meets him, doesn't necessarily means he's a loser. They just have a sixth sense for that drive. they see it in your eyes. hear it in your voice, see it in your body language etc. they see the diamond in the rough.

That makes a lot of sense, which goes back to the point that someone else was making, most women want something right now rather than putting in the effort and getting something out. :beli:
 

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If you're in a relationship and you're unfaithful then for 1 you don't respect yourself, being in a relationship and being unfaithful is like going on a diet but still eating fastfood, it doesn't make any sense. 2. You're weak minded if you can't resist temptation, same people cheating on their girlfriends/boyfriends are the same people who are miserable and constant basket cases, upset with themselves drama queens, and a man or woman who cheats consistently has personal issues. In this thread we're encouraging men through empowerment, and being a cheater does not make you powerful, it makes you a coward.

Not simple as that breh, but if a breh is cheating on a good girl thats holding him down, his a foooooool:pacspit:
 

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Not simple as that breh, but if a breh is cheating on a good girl thats holding him down, his a foooooool:pacspit:

If she's not holding you down and your inclined to cheat dump her, she's not for you.

As someone who has been cheated on that is the worse thing you can do to a man or a woman.



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:snoop: :dwillhuh: :snoop: :snoop: :smh:

Reincar you were right about the hilarity in these dating profiles. I am dying right now at some of the things I'm seeing.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=40625208

^You peep the message this broad put at the end of her profile?

about not giving her any "BS"(we all kno what she means by that) when contacting her?

but check out that 3rd picture on the top where she is getting her top undressed like she is getting ready to Put up a Backpage escort ad....

and then look at that other pic in her ton of pictures that only shows a picture of her "lips".....close up......

So basically this girl puts up a picture of her getting half undressed and a closeup of her thick juicy lips....and tells horny red blooded males not to give any BS...

and these chicks wonder why they are not taken seriously at all.
 

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Women like to brag to their friends.

One f the first thing a chicks friends will ask is what does he do?

What kind of car does he drive?

It's all about status

As for a male with my male friends No homo, what she look like, no kids?
Damn you won.

What she drives, what she does for A living no one cares

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damn, that's true. You know breh, after I dropped my ex off bc of her bullshyt, I can't lie I've come to realize love as a mutual feeling is a hard thing to find and so is finding a decent woman. The funny thing is women love to be nice, volunteer, help out, and be looked at as this good girl, but that's just all an image to empower them. I need me a mother Theresea type, not one of these bytches that are interested in their self image. A nun :devil:
 

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:snoop: :dwillhuh: :snoop: :snoop: :smh:

Reincar you were right about the hilarity in these dating profiles. I am dying right now at some of the things I'm seeing.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=40625208

^You peep the message this broad put at the end of her profile?

about not giving her any "BS"(we all kno what she means by that) when contacting her?

but check out that 3rd picture on the top where she is getting her top undressed like she is getting ready to Put up a Backpage escort ad....

and then look at that other pic in her ton of pictures that only shows a picture of her "lips".....close up......

So basically this girl puts up a picture of her getting half undressed and a closeup of her thick juicy lips....and tells horny red blooded males not to give any BS...

and these chicks wonder why they are not taken seriously at all.

Pof is garbage, come back 5 years later shorty will sill be on Pof.

Sometimes when I'm bored ill do a search In my area, and see some chicks who I smashed like 3 years ago still on there.

Chicks who blew me in their car the second time I met em in Dave and busters parking lot, talking about they want a good man, and there not looking for sex etc yea right.



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