Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

you did good man. as long as you don't do it like a manipulation or a game it's good. honestly, there's no way to know what she was thinking. you can only have possibilities, never certitudes. maybe she was trying to give you a sign she's feeling you, maybe she's attention-whoring, maybe she's just being friendly, or maybe a mixture of all of the above. either way, if you don't feel like talking to her, you don't. you were cool with her and gave her back some energy after she gave you some (replied to her waving). if one day she wants to take it further, she will. if you want to make a gesture first one day you will. but if that happens, don't do it feeling like you have to. do it cause you genuinely feel like it regardless of what you could get back from it.

trying to know for sure what they are thinking will fukk up your mindset and will make your conscious try to calculate moves, and play games. best game is no game. do you, watch who gives you the type of energy you want and reciprocate to whoever you're feeling without expecting more in the future. she will either turn it up or cool it down in the future and it could be for a million reasons that you'll never know and that may or may not have anything to do with you. take what she gives and don't give energy you can't spare. don't chase them, replace them.

Good advice thanks. I think the thing that I want to work on the most is setting my phone down, reading, exploring places, doing things on my own, and just embracing my world. I want to find inner peace this break, I want to become more spiritual (with or without religion) and with my world, I want it to be MY world. I want it to be like a snow globe, I see everything, I hear everything? Things I don't hear, things I don't see, are things that I've chosen not to hear or see. Anyone in my snow globe of a world, a world where fate and destiny is in my palms, if the world stops, it's because I stop it. Like I've said in previous posts EVERYTHING is meaningless until I give it meaning, and I can make something as meaningless as I can meaningful.
When you enter my world it's because I've allowed you to and have chosen to share my world with you.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

dont set yourself up to take the L bruh....



and to keep it all the way real.... if she was really interested she woulda been hittin you up more often


you already showing her that she can text you whenever she wants and you'll be right there regardless of how long she takes, no female gonna respect that breh


i'd just start flirting with other women in the gym, you should have options anyway and if you're really stuck on this one chick, if she sees you getting attention from other bytches she'll come

I was going to say. fukk that shyt lmao

 

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I must really be jaded or somethin because fukk THAT whole situation

lol i know bruh..
shyt idk what i'll be getting into if i even get into anything but that's just what happened..

she was giving me the eye od and made it pretty obvious she wanted me to talk to her so I did, maybe she needs to boost her ego which i doubt it but we'll see in due time.. again i just met her

she's a real pretty girl and maybe all those nikkas are friendzoned dudes, idk

anyways ima go with it and see what happens. and yes i'll be taking to other girls if i present myself with some opportunities

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Fellas. What would be a nice break is if I could take a week break from hip hop, listen to Jazz and just cleanse my mind from all of this bullshyt music. What you think?

 

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Fellas. What would be a nice break is if I could take a week break from hip hop, listen to Jazz and just cleanse my mind from all of this bullshyt music. What you think?

just do it

 

[T-K-G]

that's why im not hitting her up right now

how is not hitting me up everyday not being interested? since the first meet up after i initially approached her, after i asked her out she has texted me first everyday .. so far

i aint stuck on her cuz i just met her, i've been just starting to get my confidence up with girls lately and learning the ins and outs

when i read it i thought you were saying she goes almost a full day before replying to one text

when a bytch likes you the majority of the time she's gonna text you all day or find some other way to communicate with you daily that's why i said that


and competing with a bunch of other nikkas is NOT the way to learn the ins and outs of women breh

 

[Medio]

when i read it i thought you were saying she goes almost a full day before replying to one text

when a bytch likes you the majority of the time she's gonna text you all day or find some other way to communicate with you daily that's why i said that


and competing with a bunch of other nikkas is NOT the way to learn the ins and outs of women breh

when i say learn the ins and outs, talk to different types of girls and just learn from mistakes, that's how you learn. and she has been in a 4 year relationship so i'ma give her the benefit of the doubt of she prolly just friendzones nikkas on the daily

the girl i talked to before was a really good girl, type of a girl i would wife no question but unfortunately it didn't work out with her

 

[T-K-G]

Fellas. What would be a nice break is if I could take a week break from hip hop, listen to Jazz and just cleanse my mind from all of this bullshyt music. What you think?

you didn't already listen to multiple genres?


you got infinite amounts of music online to go through breh dont limit yourself to rap to the point where you feel like you gotta take a "break" from it


i got trapback 2 in the same playlist as amy winehouse and king krule

when i say learn the ins and outs, talk to different types of girls and just learn from mistakes, that's how you learn. and she has been in a 4 year relationship so i'ma give her the benefit of the doubt of she prolly just friendzones nikkas on the daily

the girl i talked to before was a really good girl, type of a girl i would wife no question but unfortunately i didn't work out with her

and you think you're immune to that friendzone?


i already look at women who friendzone nikkas funny cuz that tells me they wont be upfront with you about shyt if they think you wont like it

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

when i say learn the ins and outs, talk to different types of girls and just learn from mistakes, that's how you learn. and she has been in a 4 year relationship so i'ma give her the benefit of the doubt of she prolly just friendzones nikkas on the daily

the girl i talked to before was a really good girl, type of a girl i would wife no question but unfortunately it didn't work out with her

Once you start making excuses for these girls you know you've already lost man. Just drop her out.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

you didn't already listen to multiple genres?


you got infinite amounts of music online to go through breh dont limit yourself to rap to the point where you feel like you gotta take a "break" from it


i got trapback 2 in the same playlist as amy winehouse and king krule

Lol huh. I listen to everything. I'm choosing jazz because it's one of the purest forms of music.

 

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seeing the effort some of you are puttin in with chicks make me realize unmotivated I've become

I'm jaded brehs. When I see a chick, I also see the word "SETBACK" in bold letters across her forehead.

 

[T-K-G]

Lol huh. I listen to everything. I'm choosing jazz because it's one of the purest forms of music.

oh you made it seem like you was trying jazz out for the first time or something




i can't understand nikkas who go their entire lives only listening to rap

 

[Medio]

Once you start making excuses for these girls you know you've already lost man. Just drop her out.

if you don't mind me asking how old are you?

i'm just saying man. if you approach a Good looking girl, especially in a university. are you gonna be suprised that nikkas say hi to her?

so you gonna find a girl who no nikkas say hi to ?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

oh you made it seem like you was trying jazz out for the first time or something




i can't understand nikkas who go their entire lives only listening to rap

Lol trust me, that's not even the case. In fact I share music with friends a lot. I'm a music guy.

Well, you answered your own question, they're nikkas and not black men.

 

[T-K-G]

if you don't mind me asking how old are you?

i'm just saying man. if you approach a Good looking girl, especially in a university. are you gonna be suprised that nikkas say hi to her?

so you gonna find a girl who no nikkas say hi to ?

a good looking shy girl with no friends is >>>>>>> a good looking popular girl every single time and it's not even close breh