Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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2 weird things happened to me tonight.

So my friend told me about a hotel party tonight yesterday and I said id go. He ends up hitting me up saying I can't go bc they don't want me there or whatever but he was with his girl and sister. So I hit up another another friend and he tells me that he's going to a gay event/club with friends and that I'm invited. So on my way there the other friend that was with his girl and sister tells me they're at Shari's and that I can meet them so I did stopped by and had coffee. Sad thing was that he and his girl argued all night and he almost fought some dude in the restaurant cause the dude was watching him and his girl argue. Lol he even went as far to say he wishes he was single (in front of his girl) and I was like damn. Felt bad cause his girl knows I'm a good guy etc always calm and all that while my friend and her always argue (mainly bc of her). So I dipped met my friend at the gay club (they're not gay just went out cause their girl friend asked I guess) and it was a ball. Felt no pressure to talk to chicks although I got my dikk grabbed once and gay dudes were hitting on me left and right LOL. But I ended up meeting a chick as she was coming onto me while we were in the line for the bathroom (she was with friends as well) and she asked if I was gay I said no ofc and she was surprised like "oh most gay guys are good really cute so I just assumed you were, plus we're in a gay club". I spoke to her then went to piss. Come out the bathroom and her gay friend is like "she loves you!" LOL me being a frequenter in this thread I just laughed it off. End of the night and I'm outside. She comes out we start talking again and my friends come out and I ended up asking for her #. I'm 21 and she can tell and she's like 27 so she's all asking how young I am. And that I can't have it cause I'm too young. So I flipped the script and I'm like how about this, I'll give you my number and you can text me if you want. Ended up giving her my number and her friends are all telling my friends to take care of me (loool) chick must of liked me.

Anyway what I learned was that I'm too young to be with someone, fukk that, never tie myself down too much stress after seeing my friend and his girl. You might get p*ssy whenever but that arguing shyt<<<

Second thing was girls are girls no matter how old they are, if they like you but reject you or w/e it's not bc they don't like you but rather bc you didn't present shyt in a manner that they'll feel comfortable in. Instead of taking the girls number, I gave her mine therefore I don't have to stress and on top of that she can hit me up if she wants to take things further and if not I'm still going to handle my business and get at other chicks and work on improving myself and my game.
 

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the girl i was dating before was a quiet girl, the exact kind of girl you're talking about. she is very beautiful, smart,study bug didn't drink party or any of that shyt, she had a fatty too . i approached her solely on her looks and that she was giving me signals, and found out all this stuff and was amazed cause it seemed too good to be true. and it was lol.

it always is:sadcam:
at first i thought my girl was the quiet nerdy type that keeps her self to herself but she turned out to be just like any other chick from the hood.i still stick around tho cause i know her potential its just i despise the company she keeps and the street slang she uses now :scusthov:
 

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i met this girl and we hit it off pretty well, i asked her out after a few days and she agreed to go out next weekend. (we are on spring break) , she said she can't wait and isso excited ..so we've been texting and stuff sometimes and chiled once in school for a little (i did this so i could ask her out in person)

anyways i didn't text her for 2 days after break started then she texted me one day in the afternoon , so i respnded back and she didn't respond back til the next morning.. so i was being dumb here i responded back like nothing happened and she asked me something an hour later, so i responded back and she didnt' respond back til like 12 hours later and semi left the message on a cliff hanger. i just ignored this for now cause i feel like if i text her back she gonna take mad long again, and to kind of give her a taste of her own medecine type shyt, idk if she's just playing games or is legit doing other shyt during the day. was this the right move? if she double text me u think she's interested. i understand she has a life beyond me so i dont want to catch feelings yet, even when we haven't gone out yet, which is why i'll probably hit her up tomorrow , and latest monday so she knows. by ignoring her you seem like a bytch and you also seem like you don't take shyt at the same time, it's weird.

and btw i think in the future i'm resort to just calling girls from now on, i aint got time for this texting ish

Next time when you first talking to a woman call her, text messaging is for people who know each other for a while
 

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recently i've been noticing that i'm a bit stale at picking girls in the club.... i seem to be more interesting during the day that in the club...my friends have much more success than me in the club scene...

at my normal day spots (workplace, restaurants, while traveling) girls are WAY more responsive to me, and I generally spark a conversation quite easily, get their numbers and shyt.... but you cant play with statistics: there are alot more girls in the club than at the day-to-day spots, so the chances of meeting girls is much higher in the club...

so how the fukk do i change my club presence, cause most of the things i've been doing don't seem to work, and when you leave a club with your dikk hard, and rejected by 5-6 girls it gets kinda depressing
 

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yo i see mad girls checkin me out but i dont approach them because i dont know what to talk to them about. should i just go in there with the i think ur cute can i have ur number or what?

most definitely but don't say you think they're cute/pretty/beautiful/etc..

if they are checking you out (assuming its not something in her eye) just go up to her and introduce yourself calm, something like 'ive noticed you , i'd like to introduce myself..' then everything else should just flow, ask her where she's from, what she's do, be interested also, ask follow up questions .. and then just ask for her number
 

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Next time when you first talking to a woman call her, text messaging is for people who know each other for a while

yea true i will just to try it, but i mean text messaging does work a lot though if you know what you're doing. ive texted with girls initially and it does work, just as long as you make an effort to meet up in person

i feel a lot of people who say call are of the older generation
 

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yea true i will just to try it, but i mean text messaging does work a lot though if you know what you're doing. ive texted with girls initially and it does work, just as long as you make an effort to meet up in person

i feel a lot of people who say call are of the older generation
there is no right answer. some people are better with texting. some are better with calling. some girls are more responsive to one over the other as well. it really depends how much she feels you. if she's really into you, you could send her pigeons with little pieces of paper that say "--__---__-" and she'll MAKE that effort to learn morse code.
 

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there is no right answer. some people are better with texting. some are better with calling. some girls are more responsive to one over the other as well. it really depends how much she feels you. if she's really into you, you could send her pigeons with little pieces of paper that say "--__---__-" and she'll MAKE that effort to learn morse code.

Yup I'm usually the type to just text I can control it better. Think before I respond, psychology

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Yup I'm usually the type to just text I can control it better. Think before I respond, psychology

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i like having more time to think and express what i want to say better as well, i definitely feel you. certain types of interactions i'd rather have by phone though at times (setting up a date, getting her horny, talking about how she feels, etc.) cause i need some of her non-verbal to know what she's truly saying in those cases.

but yeah in general i'd rather text sometimes cause i spend less energy that way also.
 

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Girl #1: Claimed 7 partners. Actual number: 100 partners plus (confirmed by age 21)(worst one).
Girl #2: Claimed 5 partners. Actual number: 20 partners (confirmed by age 20) (college)
Girl #3: Claimed 3 partners. Actual number: 13 partners (confirmed by age 21)
Girl #4: Claimed 2 partners. Actual number: 5 partners (confirmed by age 18)
Girl #5: Claimed 4 partners. Actual number: 8 partners (confirmed by age 19)
Girl #6: Claimed 3 partners: Actual number: 7 partners (confirmed by age 22)
Girl #7 Claimed 5 partners: Actual number: 24 partners (confirmed by age 22) (college)
Girl #8 Claimed 10 partners: Actual number: 40 partners (confirmed by age 24)(college)

Disgusting. :pacspit:
 

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Yup I'm usually the type to just text I can control it better. Think before I respond, psychology

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see i'd rather just freestyle a convo and be me, feeding off the energy of the moment


over-thinking texts and shyt like that can fukk you up so it never appealed to me, i CAN do it but it's never as perfect as when i just come up with something off the dome in a face to face convo



no :flabbynsick:... im 20
 
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