Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:snoop: @ me reading this shyt like :ohhh: ima take all this into consideration


then utilizing none of it :sadbron:
 

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This might sound crazy, but never deal long term with a girl that is too smart/cunning. These are the type of women that will use the legal system to tear you apart if ya'll break up. Deion and Bosh escaped relatively unscathed because they didn't date these psychological/legal masterminds. If she's too into psychology, the legal system and other sorts of issues, you better beware. Screen her during her conversation on such matters in a round-about way. "What if you were married and your husband cheated? How would you handle that?" The answer she gives you will tell you exactly how she handles those sorts of situations. If she divorces you, even on her terms, she will squeeze your butt dry.
 

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If you the prize, if you are the boss, you can't just think "I'm the boss. I'm the prize..." All of your correlating thoughts and actions have to follow off of that. It will be how you deal with people and with how you deal with yourself. When you're dealing with females, you don't rush out there to have her in your life. You interview her to see if she belongs in YOUR life. You're the leader. You set the agenda. It's real easy when we see a female that we start thing about changing our program for her, but that is a WEAK move. Any woman is NEVER above the rules and principles we've discussed and she is never above your 'program', or in other words the form and fashion in which you choose to handle life situations. You simply must never allow any one woman's value to exceed what you are doing in your life.

Now check this. A lot of men look at women as a band-aid to fill in some void in their life. The REAL way to operate is that you need to enjoy your life way before you even start messing with your woman. You have to feel complete in yourself before you start trying to deal with and lead a woman. Two damaged parts isn't going to make a complete whole. It will make something even more dysfunctional. Get out there and make sure your business is handled and make sure you know how to enjoy the joys God has given you and the women will come... and you filter them out until you find the one that fits under your leadership.
 

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just like deboers has with engagement rings, the media and marketers have embedded into peoples minds that you need a gf or bf to be looked at as success.

Most men are just in relationships for sex, he'll when I think of my past exes I just think about sex, not the beautiful times we shared nah just sex
http://intellectualexpat.blogspot.com/2012/01/true-freedom-no-job-marriage-children.html?m=1

This guy basically says that society teaches men to desire things that enslave them for life.
Children, marriage, a job working for a company, and a mortgage. Society says if you don't grow up and have these things your life is empty or meaningless but all of them strip you of your freedom and control in life.
 

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A relationship is like a vase. Once its damaged and shatters it can never again be what it once was. It's better to replace it with a new one than to try and put the pieces back together again.
 

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Women are great at guilt tripping you and making them look like the victim in any situation even when they are wrong.

Never feel sorry, never apologize
 

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what do y'all do about so called male friends she was on the phone to a couple nikkas when i came over i had the :wtb: face the whole time i hope i dont share that girl
 

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what do y'all do about so called male friends she was on the phone to a couple nikkas when i came over i had the :wtb: face the whole time i hope i dont share that girl

You already know what must be done. Either you give her the ultimatum or you drop her.
The one thing to know is you can't control a woman. If you give her the ultimatum she's probably still gonna talk to them guys just be slick about it.

Another thing is there's no such thing as male friends those are vultures waiting for their chance to strike. If that's your serious girlfriend and she's talking to other guys she might not respect you. Out of respect she should drop that when yall get serious.

If she knew these guys before she met you there's really nothing you can do about it either or so says the general rule for friends of the opposite sex.
 

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“She was talking to Tom on the phone up until last week saying, ‘I love you,’ ” a source told People magazine.

“Her inner circle has been planning this and switching out cell phones since she was in China [in mid-June].

“When new cell phones arrived, then nobody could reach her. Her old best friends from last week don’t have her new number, no email. She’s unreachable.”



What do I always tell you folks on now women detach, plan breakups month in advance even up to the last minute will utter I love you then cut you out and never talk to you


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Eh again my best friend is a female but I've known her since I was like 6, in rare extremely rare situations a male and a female can be a friend. But that's the only one and she's more like a sister to me.

Besides that yeah right. Every guy is just waiting their turn for you to f up. Think of every girl you know once they start dating the texts and phone calls stop you never hear from them even try know they are not really your friend.


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bytch was calling him babe and shyt over the damn phone and arranging to meet up with him 2morow right the fuk in front of me :sitdown:

it sucks when you have invested so much finacially with these hoes that could be fukkin other dudes :noah:
 

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bytch was calling him babe and shyt over the damn phone and arranging to meet up with him 2morow right the fuk in front of me :sitdown:

it sucks when you have invested so much finacially with these hoes that could be fukkin other dudes :noah:
you can drag around the corpse of a dead relationship for months or years and at the end you'll still arrive at the same place which is it being over. women will let you do this and use you the whole way. like Reincar said women detach quick and once they do they'll mercilessly use you till the well runs dry.

it doesn't matter how much you've invested at some point you cut your losses and move on. better sooner than later.

if your girl is calling another man babe over the phone its more than likely over. investing financially in a woman is like willingly walking into quicksand.
 
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