Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Btw nothing is wrong with being single, the status quo doesn't like it though. Marketers want people to have families and therefore bigger houses, bigger cars, and endless stuff.

You may be reading this begging to be in a relationship or to find someone just stop.

As a single man I find countless single women who are happy being single under the age of 25 and almost no single women who are happy being sidle over 30, women are happy with singlehood as long as they have options, unfortunately for most women these options have an expiry date.

Happiness for a women lasts as long as the gifts and attention flow in, the older women who are unhappy are usually the ones who had this cut off at some point. They were certain they had many minds years in them and when proved wrong they become depressed with their now limited options.
 

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Damn n1ggas is dropping spirit bombs in this thread.

Anyway right now I'm at the point where I want to have the starting 5 and bench players on my roster. I'm single and I have the potential to get what I want but I really been on some p*ssy sh1t not spitting game to women at obvious times.
 

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Damn n1ggas is dropping spirit bombs in this thread.

Anyway right now I'm at the point where I want to have the starting 5 and bench players on my roster. I'm single and I have the potential to get what I want but I really been on some p*ssy sh1t not spitting game to women at obvious times.



What's the worse they can say? No?
 

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Reincar, can you post your online dating template again. I want to use it to eat off OK Cupid.

Where to start........I have always been told I'm upfront, confident with a twinge of humbleness mixed into one.

I love to travel (at 15 countries and counting), read (mainly non fiction), write (mainly poetry ), and photography (yeah I'll take your picture).

If you like what you see ( and you should) *feel free to send a message ( I don't discriminate), I mean guys don't have to send the first message right*



Or


mm where to begin....

I love to travel, read, write (I'm working on a book ever so slowly), blog, play scrabble, and rambling excessively.

My music/movie/book tastes are all over the place as I dabble in any genre.

So if your interested send me a msg.

Or


Ah where to Start?* Hello?

I guess this is where you say how amazing you are, one of a kind bla bla, and what your looking for.* Well I am here to just literally browse, talk to some cool people and see how it goes from there if anything. I'm a quiet person, mostly observant but outgoing when needs be.

I don't follow trends or any labels, I'm educated not a thug don't stereotype me, employed in my field of study and constantly upgrading myself.*

My interests consist of photography, traveling, reading, writing and shopping.* Feel free to send a MSG, I mean its not a rule a man has to MSG a female first right?
 

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another one which probably has already been mentioned.

let them tell on themselves. and save all the info. not to throw it back in their face for revenge or anything (that's kind of feminine when you think about it), do it just to take her out of your cypher.


Yup just be patient I always laugh how it goes from oh I took a can home to a few months later it was remember that night it was so late my friend drove me
 

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Btw nothing is wrong with being single, the status quo doesn't like it though. Marketers want people to have families and therefore bigger houses, bigger cars, and endless stuff.

You may be reading this begging to be in a relationship or to find someone just stop.

As a single man I find countless single women who are happy being single under the age of 25 and almost no single women who are happy being sidle over 30, women are happy with singlehood as long as they have options, unfortunately for most women these options have an expiry date.

Happiness for a women lasts as long as the gifts and attention flow in, the older women who are unhappy are usually the ones who had this cut off at some point. They were certain they had many minds years in them and when proved wrong they become depressed with their now limited options.

as a man you should desire to be single. if you're single you have no responsibilities or obligations to anyone else. you'll have more of your own money because you won't be spending it on a girlfriend. you'll have the freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want however you want answering to nobody but yourself.

when you look at the perks of being single as a man why wouldn't you want to be that way?
 

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Where to start........I have always been told I'm upfront, confident with a twinge of humbleness mixed into one.

I love to travel (at 15 countries and counting), read (mainly non fiction), write (mainly poetry ), and photography (yeah I'll take your picture).

If you like what you see ( and you should) *feel free to send a message ( I don't discriminate), I mean guys don't have to send the first message right*



Or


mm where to begin....

I love to travel, read, write (I'm working on a book ever so slowly), blog, play scrabble, and rambling excessively.

My music/movie/book tastes are all over the place as I dabble in any genre.

So if your interested send me a msg.

Or


Ah where to Start?* Hello?

I guess this is where you say how amazing you are, one of a kind bla bla, and what your looking for.* Well I am here to just literally browse, talk to some cool people and see how it goes from there if anything. I'm a quiet person, mostly observant but outgoing when needs be.

I don't follow trends or any labels, I'm educated not a thug don't stereotype me, employed in my field of study and constantly upgrading myself.*

My interests consist of photography, traveling, reading, writing and shopping.* Feel free to send a MSG, I mean its not a rule a man has to MSG a female first right?
:whoo:
 
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For cats looking to have a stable or team of breezies....

....it's easier than you think. Keep it 300 with them. Be up front about them not being the only one you're dealing with. No need to broadcast it. If they ask, tell them. If they dont - women are intuitive enough to get the message they're not the only one. You might be suprised that women like you so much that they dont care you kick it will several women. That makes them want to be the bosshog, number 1 on your team. She wants that top spot.

Thing is deep down she doesnt like it, but her desire to be with a thorough dude makes her push any possible insecurities about it to the wayside. Women want a thorough dude all to themselves, if they have to share, it may be a bitter pill to swallow but at least she has a piece of the pie. Because lets face it, its a lot of raggedy, low life, hoe cake ass nikkas out here. lol

They'll accept it, but many dont actually want to see the other women. And rightfully so! Out of sight, out of mind. Trust. Sometimes they cant handle seeing pics & messages on FB or Twitter of you and another broad. Often times, women can handle seeing it, others cant - just depends on the female. A few I've had lovee seeing me with other women. What woman wants a man that isnt love by other women? Women are highly competitive.

Be on the lookout for the slickness... Some females will try to claim you on the sneak sneak; inch by inch and next thing you know you're in a relationship - according to them. "Can I just leave my panties over here?" lol Dont be suprised if you see a pink toothbrush laying around or a random bra in your laundry...by "accident" lol It's all in the game though.




Real shyt my nikka

HONESTY IS the key with dealing with a team. If you let these chicks assume shyt about the nature of their relationship with you, theyll manipulate that shyt into a real relationship. Like my nikka said, with the "slickness". If a chick cant handle being up front and honesty, shes either too young and scheming so kick them chicks to the curb
 

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as a man you should desire to be single. if you're single you have no responsibilities or obligations to anyone else. you'll have more of your own money because you won't be spending it on a girlfriend. you'll have the freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want however you want answering to nobody but yourself.

when you look at the perks of being single as a man why wouldn't you want to be that way?

just like deboers has with engagement rings, the media and marketers have embedded into peoples minds that you need a gf or bf to be looked at as success.

Most men are just in relationships for sex, he'll when I think of my past exes I just think about sex, not the beautiful times we shared nah just sex
 

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Like WinB said, enjoy being single. A lot of cats are brainwashed in that they absolutely must have the attention of a female or they feel something is missing. They are kind of like those women who can never go without a man. The key is to accept only QUALITY attention.

Honestly, a lot of times these days it's better not to have dealings with most of these women because they simply are not bringing enough to the table. YOUR ATTENTION is worth more than that. How in the world is she expecting a romance novel negro but she's just an around the way girl? You feel me? These women want a negro that just got it all going on, but what are they bringing to the table other than problems and drama? If she ain't going to bring loyalty, respect and such traits, cut her from your presence. If she's flaky, bye bye. When you start clearing your life from disrespectful people nor do you feel the necessity for someone's attention, your life will become much more peaceful and you will actually increase your own value. You will also be much more privy to QUALITY attention.
 

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Like WinB said, enjoy being single. A lot of cats are brainwashed in that they absolutely must have the attention of a female or they feel something is missing. They are kind of like those women who can never go without a man. The key is to accept only QUALITY attention.

Honestly, a lot of times these days it's better not to have dealings with most of these women because they simply are not bringing enough to the table. YOUR ATTENTION is worth more than that. How in the world is she expecting a romance novel negro but she's just an around the way girl? You feel me? These women want a negro that just got it all going on, but what are they bringing to the table other than problems and drama? If she ain't going to bring loyalty, respect and such traits, cut her from your presence. If she's flaky, bye bye. When you start clearing your life from disrespectful people nor do you feel the necessity for someone's attention, your life will become much more peaceful and you will actually increase your own value. You will also be much more privy to QUALITY attention.

Quoted and repped.
We'd be doing our sons a disservice, if we don't pass this knowledge down to our seeds, it's really beautiful :wow:
 
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