Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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you gotta understand breh im in the south we dont got asians running around here like that i've had yellow fever for years :wow:




wife her up for me breh :noah:

Lol huh, come up to the northwest. There's handful of em man.
 

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Aight so I got one for you guys... So I broke up with my PYT recently because I wasn't ready for the long term shyt she was looking for. Plus my heart wasnt always there. So I figured I did her a favor. Of course there's the emotional aspect, but I DID HER A FAVOR instead of dragging her along like I'd usually do.

Anyway I run into her at church a couple months later. I call her name out to try to make amends since I would at least like to be cordial in public. This chick speeds up, walks right past me gets in her car, stops for a split second to make eye contact, then proceeds to drive off.

The whole time I was like :dwillhuh: Not gonna lie I was pissed cuz that shyt was childish as hell. Thoughts? Not gonna lie, I'm a little sad because I don't deal well with "breaking girl's hearts" but wtf kinda shyt is that? I've never had a bad breakup before either
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Aight so I got one for you guys... So I broke up with my PYT recently because I wasn't ready for the long term shyt she was looking for. Plus my heart wasnt always there. So I figured I did her a favor. Of course there's the emotional aspect, but I DID HER A FAVOR instead of dragging her along like I'd usually do.

Anyway I run into her at church a couple months later. I call her name out to try to make amends since I would at least like to be cordial in public. This chick speeds up, walks right past me gets in her car, stops for a split second to make eye contact, then proceeds to drive off.

The whole time I was like :dwillhuh: Not gonna lie I was pissed cuz that shyt was childish as hell. Thoughts? Not gonna lie, I'm a little sad because I don't deal well with "breaking girl's hearts" but wtf kinda shyt is that? I've never had a bad breakup before either
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You should have said nothing to her and let her make the first move
 
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Aight so I got one for you guys... So I broke up with my PYT recently because I wasn't ready for the long term shyt she was looking for. Plus my heart wasnt always there. So I figured I did her a favor. Of course there's the emotional aspect, but I DID HER A FAVOR instead of dragging her along like I'd usually do.

Anyway I run into her at church a couple months later. I call her name out to try to make amends since I would at least like to be cordial in public. This chick speeds up, walks right past me gets in her car, stops for a split second to make eye contact, then proceeds to drive off.

The whole time I was like :dwillhuh: Not gonna lie I was pissed cuz that shyt was childish as hell. Thoughts? Not gonna lie, I'm a little sad because I don't deal well with "breaking girl's hearts" but wtf kinda shyt is that? I've never had a bad breakup before either
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I'll give you the honest truth

If roles were reversed and a girl you were into dumped you, and then months later she's trying to holler at you, what would you do?

The best thing you can do when breaking up with someone is leaving them alone.



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Aight so I got one for you guys... So I broke up with my PYT recently because I wasn't ready for the long term shyt she was looking for. Plus my heart wasnt always there. So I figured I did her a favor. Of course there's the emotional aspect, but I DID HER A FAVOR instead of dragging her along like I'd usually do.

Anyway I run into her at church a couple months later. I call her name out to try to make amends since I would at least like to be cordial in public. This chick speeds up, walks right past me gets in her car, stops for a split second to make eye contact, then proceeds to drive off.

The whole time I was like :dwillhuh: Not gonna lie I was pissed cuz that shyt was childish as hell. Thoughts? Not gonna lie, I'm a little sad because I don't deal well with "breaking girl's hearts" but wtf kinda shyt is that? I've never had a bad breakup before either
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yeah what did u expect her to do? run up and give u a hug? when u broke up with her do u know whether or not she spent days crying herself to sleep? and here u come on some "hey baby" type skeez and u expect a warm response?
 
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yeah what did u expect her to do? run up and give u a hug? when u broke up with her do u know whether or not she spent days crying herself to sleep? and here u come on some "hey baby" type skeez and u expect a warm response?

I ain't wanna say nothing. What kind of response was he expecting???:what:
 

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you gotta understand breh im in the south we dont got asians running around here like that i've had yellow fever for years :wow:




wife her up for me breh :noah:



A southern belle >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> submissive oriental woman from the motherland.


But i think its one of those aspects in life where, "You want what you can't have." And you don't run into many down souf charms here in the emerald.


I guess i'm a bit biased cuz i like my women physically more astute/voluptuous (eka: thick) with a penchant for home style/soul food-esque cooking. And that thick southern accent is enough to make a fellas have a nervous breakdown.


:PikDatAzz:


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Aight so I got one for you guys... So I broke up with my PYT recently because I wasn't ready for the long term shyt she was looking for. Plus my heart wasnt always there. So I figured I did her a favor. Of course there's the emotional aspect, but I DID HER A FAVOR instead of dragging her along like I'd usually do.

Anyway I run into her at church a couple months later. I call her name out to try to make amends since I would at least like to be cordial in public. This chick speeds up, walks right past me gets in her car, stops for a split second to make eye contact, then proceeds to drive off.

The whole time I was like :dwillhuh: Not gonna lie I was pissed cuz that shyt was childish as hell. Thoughts? Not gonna lie, I'm a little sad because I don't deal well with "breaking girl's hearts" but wtf kinda shyt is that? I've never had a bad breakup before either
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Dude, it's natural for her to feel salty about it. You may or may not have felt justified, but her heart was still broken nonetheless. I'm just surprised that you're surprised.
 
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Anyways I'm thinking of finally cutting off my godson mom

Should I go the whole your toxic, scandalous, manipulative, and unappreciative

Ot should I just keep quiet, ignore etc

Sent from royalty using Tapatalk breh
 

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Anyways I'm thinking of finally cutting off my godson mom

Should I go the whole your toxic, scandalous, manipulative, and unappreciative

Ot should I just keep quiet, ignore etc

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let her know the reason.. it might make a better woman out of her.
 

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Anyways I'm thinking of finally cutting off my godson mom

Should I go the whole your toxic, scandalous, manipulative, and unappreciative

Ot should I just keep quiet, ignore etc

Sent from royalty using Tapatalk breh

I would tell her as little as possible. if she asks, then let her know that her living is too toxic and its not what you want in your life. the more you pour out, the more youre leaving yourself open to a reply. you dont want that. you want to move past the shyt.
 

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let her know the reason.. it might make a better woman out of her.

I would tell her as little as possible. if she asks, then let her know that her living is too toxic and its not what you want in your life. the more you pour out, the more youre leaving yourself open to a reply. you dont want that. you want to move past the shyt.

the thing that finally pushed me to this point, my godson needed diapers so i went and bought, only to find out that same night she went clubbing.

how you have no money for diapers, no car but can make it downtown get dressed up and go clubbing
 
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