Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Yeah - it took me a while to learn, but eventually I did. I'm much happier now without this burden in my life, and I'm more focused on things than before. She was like a dead weight that I couldn't shake.

The past month my mindstate has just been like

Next time I'll have to much more careful who I let into my life in this intimate way.

Man trust me, I know how you felt. shyts ridiculous.

So after messaging "fine with me", I should then, after a while, try to propose another time to hang out? To me this comes across as trying the same thing twice, even when it didn't work the first time.

I figured that my message would let her know I wasn't going to propose date after date to her, and she wanted to meet up she had to show me that she wanted to.

Yeah exactly, say fine with me, then don't hit her ass up anymore. You already suggested something, she didn't want it. No need to chase.

Had the same thing happen to me, she said maybe she'll hmu this weekend, it ain't happen so now I delete her number

 

[George Gooney]

What should you do when a woman say she can't make a meeting?

Last week I got a number from a girl. We get along great, lots of jokes, though her body language was kind of mixed, so perhaps she only gave me a number to give me a little play. So we send a message back and forth about meeting up.

This weekend I said let's meet up sometime, though she responded a few hours later saying that she's with her friends seeing off a friend who's moving outta town, and that we should meet up another day.

I responded back saying that I'll leave it with her and if she wants to meet up sometime this week to drop me a message, and then I'll see if I'm free.

Was that a strong response? It's difficult to gauge when a woman is timewasting or is genuinely sincere in meeting up.

"Ok cool" *Proceed to delete number so you won't cave in and text her again*

 

[MikelArteta]

what are your opinions of women who casually bring up an ex in a conversation?

still have feelings for em in one way or another.

im indifferent back in teh days i used to not know the game and would say yeah she cheated, yeah she did so and so

now whenever the topic of exes are brought up i just say it didn't work out its in the past.

 

[MikelArteta]

Brehs, a couple of you are familiar with an episode that happened to me a while ago. Let me fill all of you in on what happened with this harlot...

She flew out to see me, and we spent a good while together which had a lot of strong experiences. Two months later she flew out to see me again. This time I discovered after a few days that she had been lying in my face about something that happened in this last two months (go figure). She tried to keep it from me until the very end, and even when I had cold hard proof on my computer of her lies, she was still trying. Then I had to drop that ether and show her the screen.

Straight away I threw all of her stuff in the suitcase and drove her to the station. Wiped my hands clean just like that. She called me from the airport a few times, but I said that it's definitely over. After she arrived back home, she sent me a text telling me her regrets. I said I was moving on with my life, and so should she, and that I was blocking her number.

Since then she's messaged and called from different numbers, but I know when it's a foreign number so haven't spoken to her. She's sent emails, short messages, long letters. And from me? Nada.

Basically I had wilfully ignored all the signs that were staring me in the face and sold myself short. But in the way I kicked her to the curb, I feel I've reclaimed the dignity and self-respect that was robbed of me in the first place.

The amount of red lines this girl would cross was like and in the end I had to back up the warnings I'd given her with actions.

you did well many a weak man would have gone back, btw its amazing even with proof how women will still lie, i remember when i caught an ex cheating on me had proof from my keylogger print screened and showed it, and she denied. "sara thought it would be funny if we just talked sexual to brad":

one thing i learned even with the ether they deny, next time i got cheated on and had my proof i gave no reason when i ended it.

 

[MikelArteta]

"aight coo"

then if she wants to kick it with you another time, she'll hit you up.

the less you say to a women the less chance you have of messing up

 

[kevm3]

Bringing up an ex when dealing with a new person is disrespectful. If she really dug you, the ex would never come up. Women don't ever want to give the impression to a guy she is really feeling that there is some other suitor on the horizon. I would avoid taking babygirl too seriously.

 

[kevm3]

the less you say to a women the less chance you have of messing up

Even in general conversation, not saying too much plays off for your better. Does anyone think the street cats that a lot of these women are so into are hitting them with philosophical treatises? With most women, a playful, flirty type conversation is what really has them going crazy over you.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Whats your MO on saving/deleting numbers?

If it hasn't worked out or you don't vibe with her/him (n/h) then there's no need to even keep the number imo.

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

because 12384629842907329 other nikkas have already tried to make the same points that you were tryna make and it didn't change anything, that's' why you dont see me in here doing what you're doing, nikkas are in here talking about what works for them, not asking if other nikkas think that it's the right thing to do

that would just turn this thread into one big argument that's why people stopped doing it breh

I mean what's the point of posting on a message board if it's just a circle jerk of nikkas patting each other on the back and affirming each other's opinion? No Bammer Weed is like a dude walking into a branch davidian cult meeting and telling them David Koresh is full of shyt and the world isn't about to end in this thread. I applaud his patience. But he's not going to change these dudes' minds.

 

[T-K-G]

I mean what's the point of posting on a message board if it's just a circle jerk of nikkas patting each other on the back and affirming each other's opinion? No Bammer Weed is like a dude walking into a branch davidian cult meeting and telling them David Koresh is full of shyt and the world isn't about to end in this thread. I applaud his patience. But he's not going to change these dudes' minds.

that's basically all i was trying to say, shyt's a waste of time imo

 

[kevm3]

Whats your MO on saving/deleting numbers?

If it hasn't worked out or you don't vibe with her/him (n/h) then there's no need to even keep the number imo.

I usually just leave it in my phone, unless the numbers start getting cluttered or it was some real bad energy. Sometimes you never know when you might need a number.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Enjoy The American Decline

 

[T-K-G]

I usually just leave it in my phone, unless the numbers start getting cluttered or it was some real bad energy. Sometimes you never know when you might need a number.

idk i gotta delete the number out of my phone because if i see a name i'll be more inclined to respond whereas if it's just a number i can ignore it without thinking twice about it



but that's just me

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

Enjoy The American Decline

Yall posting far right-wing political propaganda now?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I usually just leave it in my phone, unless the numbers start getting cluttered or it was some real bad energy. Sometimes you never know when you might need a number.

idk i gotta delete the number out of my phone because if i see a name i'll be more inclined to respond whereas if it's just a number i can ignore it without thinking twice about it



but that's just me

Yeah that's what I say, if we haven't spoke in a while fukk it.