Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

idk i gotta delete the number out of my phone because if i see a name i'll be more inclined to respond whereas if it's just a number i can ignore it without thinking twice about it



but that's just me

That's what it comes down to. Doing what works in your context.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

In fact actually, I think I'm a firm believer that if you're not present in my life then I'll delete your number just because if you really mattered to me I'd hit you up or vice versa. That goes for both men and women

 

[T-K-G]

In fact actually, I think I'm a firm believer that if you're not present in my life then I'll delete your number just because if you really mattered to me I'd hit you up or vice versa. That goes for both men and women

Been on this


its always funny when people get mad tho

random person - " you deleted my number i thought we was tight"


me - " nikka i haven't talked to you in 5 months"

 

[MBwithadream]

I need y'all gimme me this work

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/98015-remember-girl-i-thinkin-about-giving-3page-letter.html

 

[kevm3]

I can understand where you are coming from with that philosophy. From my personal experience, I found I like to keep the numbers in my phone because while I may not have any need to hit them up now, it might be a year or two later that I decide to hit that person up and keep things pushing.

 

[kevm3]

I need y'all gimme me this work

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/98015-remember-girl-i-thinkin-about-giving-3page-letter.html

The only work you need to do is to keep it pushing and get on to the next woman.

 

[T-K-G]

Yall posting far right-wing political propaganda now?

im saying tho

 

[MBwithadream]

The only work you need to do is to keep it pushing and get on to the next woman.

True.

I just never thought she could be strippin or being a gold-digger.

thats what is messing with me really.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Been on this


its always funny when people get mad tho

random person - " you deleted my number i thought we was tight"


me - " nikka i haven't talked to you in 5 months"

forreal though, motherfukkers trying to hit you up when they down and out and shyt. Usually wanting something.

I can understand where you are coming from with that philosophy. From my personal experience, I found I like to keep the numbers in my phone because while I may not have any need to hit them up now, it might be a year or two later that I decide to hit that person up and keep things pushing.

Yeah but see that's what I don't understand, for women (at least for me) it's like I hit them up months later, and they don't want shyt to do with me anymore or they're upset or some shyt I don't know. Just figure since we basically going to be starting back over I might as well just not even start over and go meet someone else.

 

[T-K-G]

Yeah but see that's what I don't understand, for women (at least for me) it's like I hit them up months later, and they don't want shyt to do with me anymore or they're upset or some shyt I don't know. Just figure since we basically going to be starting back over I might as well just not even start over and go meet someone else.

exactly, and it becomes painfully obvious when you try to talk to someone after you fell off with them

it had a spark when it started but now its just garbage

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

Got to agree with you here, 662 is one of the best posters in here but that article is a bit much.

im saying tho

It kinda goes back to what NBW was saying about the nexus between white supremacy and patriarchy, and how they occupy the same space and use the same justifications to perpetual the status quo power structure. And then in turn paint any resistance against that status quo power structure in hyperbolic, alarmist terms, implying it's a signpost of societal collapse.

You could easily substitute "black" for "women" in many of these posts, and talk about how things were more "ordered" or "successful" in the days of white supremacy being unchecked.

Dude posted a link praising a racist far right-wing Pat Buchanan-type paleoconservative (google Aaron Clarey) because he agrees with what he says about feminism. Feminism is just one of the things he thinks is destroying America, along with diversity, "political correctness," socialism, poor people, Muslims, etc. When you're in ideological agreement with a dude like that, maybe you should reflect a little on your thought/emotional process.

Quote from the link...

The reason why liberal men are against competition is usually because they are uglier and weaker. Thus, it is in their best interests to have an egalitarian society where they don’t have to compete. Consequently, better looking and stronger men favor free market ideologies because they can leverage their strength, looks, and tenacity to improve their lives.

Black men are overwhelmingly more to the left on economic matters. He just essentially said most black men are ugly and weaker.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

exactly, and it becomes painfully obvious when you try to talk to someone after you fell off with them

it had a spark when it started but now its just garbage

yep, and they hold that in the form of a grudge because they had their dreams of being with you, but you felt as if they weren't the right ones so ditched them or whatever. It's just all a waste of time.

I'm stuck in a situation that I'm kinda confused about. Well not exactly stuck, but I'm wondering. My cousins girlfriend, he met his girlfriend back in the day when we were in high school, and I remember her bringing her sister along and I met her. Liked her ever since I met her. My cousin and his girl and her sister and her boyfriend ended up getting a house together, long story short the sister broke up with her boyfriend and he moved out and she stays up north cause of the military but comes back to visit. Now once I remember I told my cousin that I liked her and he ended up telling his girl, and so one night his girl confronted me while I was high (my cousin and her sister were outside smoking a cigarette) and I said that I did like her but I couldn't do that since I was somewhat cool with her ex boyfriend, even though I really felt like he was a loser in a since, and didn't want to better himself whatsoever. This weekend I stopped by my cousins house and visited with him and his girl and her sister was there and a few other people, and man it just feels so weird. I'm not sure if it's because I was high, but I'd look down then catch her looking at me, various times through the night. She's cool and all, and I'd like to mess with her, but for some reason her dating such a lame ass loser (although he's somewhat cool) really turns me off of her and he being my cousins friend (even though my cousin probably can't stand him anymore) makes me want to respect my cousin as a man and not even dibble dabble into some shyt that could ruin his friendship with this kid.

 

[T-K-G]

yep, and they hold that in the form of a grudge because they had their dreams of being with you, but you felt as if they weren't the right ones so ditched them or whatever. It's just all a waste of time.

I'm stuck in a situation that I'm kinda confused about. Well not exactly stuck, but I'm wondering. My cousins girlfriend, he met his girlfriend back in the day when we were in high school, and I remember her bringing her sister along and I met her. Liked her ever since I met her. My cousin and his girl and her sister and her boyfriend ended up getting a house together, long story short the sister broke up with her boyfriend and he moved out and she stays up north cause of the military but comes back to visit. Now once I remember I told my cousin that I liked her and he ended up telling his girl, and so one night his girl confronted me while I was high (my cousin and her sister were outside smoking a cigarette) and I said that I did like her but I couldn't do that since I was somewhat cool with her ex boyfriend, even though I really felt like he was a loser in a since, and didn't want to better himself whatsoever. This weekend I stopped by my cousins house and visited with him and his girl and her sister was there and a few other people, and man it just feels so weird. I'm not sure if it's because I was high, but I'd look down then catch her looking at me, various times through the night. She's cool and all, and I'd like to mess with her, but for some reason her dating such a lame ass loser (although he's somewhat cool) really turns me off of her and he being my cousins friend (even though my cousin probably can't stand him anymore) makes me want to respect my cousin as a man and not even dibble dabble into some shyt that could ruin his friendship with this kid.

i wouldn't even bother with all of that shyt breh


i can guarantee you that girl doesn't have anything that 50+ other women in your area dont have, you just aint met em yet


atleast that's how i look at things


i like staying drama/stress free at all times #LeisureLife

 

[Medio]

Whats your MO on saving/deleting numbers?

If it hasn't worked out or you don't vibe with her/him (n/h) then there's no need to even keep the number imo.

I think you should keep some numbers.

I met a girl one night and we just made out or whatever, I got her number for some reason but i didn't live anywhere close to her..

then like a year later randomly I hit her up because I was now living in the city she's from and I remembered, and SHE suggested to be friends with benefits . So keep that number imo.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

As for the number thing besides a close friend or family,if I have your # and you havent hit me up in over 4 months Im deleting the #. If its a female whose number I got and we never chilled or at least talk a short while on the phone.SHE gets deleted.Why waste Mega Bytes