Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[skyrunner1]

What a long fkn weekend, as it stands, I am now a single man

Long story short, my girl and I got back together, she stayed in VA and I am in Atlanta

I was so swamp with work that my communication was poor, she suspected that I was cheating on her with another woman, I wasn't, she thought it was my friend, every time we got together, we argued, I am feeling blind sided the whole damn time, November, we had a huge blow up, December again, same shyt

I told her I would propose to her earlier this year, I visit her for our anniversary, valentine day, before leaving my goal was to propose to her, the engagement ring was in DC..In february things started getting back to normal...

long story short, tons of cheating scenarios came about, then, today, I showed her my telegram and she thought I was talking to some white women on there, told her these were bots.So of course, I go to bed, we start talking she ask me if I have been cheating on her, I told her no, I have not.

So I had to leave early because she wanted to come to Atlanta for the rest of the time. She said she will always love me and blocks me from everything, all platforms, only way I could reach out to her was e-mail and her sister

I have not fukked one chick, haven't messed with one chick, I haven't been out with one chick . I did leave my Hinge deactivated but I had deleted all the women I am talking to but wanted to keep my 100 plus matches just in case shyt went south. Eventually I deleted it.

I don't have one hoe in my inbox, even stopped talking to female friends to appease her ass

Sucks to here especially when you not even in the streets like that. Always used to hear if they accusing you hard like that they might be projecting what they doing on their side and tryna justify their actions by accusing you. Actually played out like that for me once back in day exactly too

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

What a long fkn weekend, as it stands, I am now a single man

Long story short, my girl and I got back together, she stayed in VA and I am in Atlanta

Breh. Take it this unsolicited advice from an old man. Never go back.*

I read your post and she's projecting. Your ex probably smashed a breh or two while you were broken up. To not be the bad guy, she causes an argument with you.


You've dodged a bullet.

*Unless you have kids or strictly smashing

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Sucks to here especially when you not even in the streets like that. Always used to hear if they accusing you hard like that they might be projecting what they doing on their side and tryna justify their actions by accusing you. Actually played out like that for me once back in day exactly too

I honestly 100 percent sure she is not a cheater. That's one the biggest reasons why I would not cheat on her. She is very conscious about STDs so I am not trying to play that game. What a crazy weekend.

Breh. Take it this unsolicited advice from an old man. Never go back.*

I read your post and she's projecting. Your ex probably smashed a breh or two while you were broken up. To not be the bad guy, she causes an argument with you.


You've dodged a bullet.

*Unless you have kids or strictly smashing

During our break, I am the one who hooked up with other women, think she internalized it


lol 35 year old single man with no desire to get to know other women

 

[re'up]

She doesn't sound stable though. If you are healthy, you couldn't or wouldn't want to be around someone like that for one minute more.

 

[DJSmooth]

What a long fkn weekend, as it stands, I am now a single man

Long story short, my girl and I got back together, she stayed in VA and I am in Atlanta

I was so swamp with work that my communication was poor, she suspected that I was cheating on her with another woman, I wasn't, she thought it was my friend, every time we got together, we argued, I am feeling blind sided the whole damn time, November, we had a huge blow up, December again, same shyt

I told her I would propose to her earlier this year, I visit her for our anniversary, valentine day, before leaving my goal was to propose to her, the engagement ring was in DC..In february things started getting back to normal...

long story short, tons of cheating scenarios came about, then, today, I showed her my telegram and she thought I was talking to some white women on there, told her these were bots.So of course, I go to bed, we start talking she ask me if I have been cheating on her, I told her no, I have not.

So I had to leave early because she wanted to come to Atlanta for the rest of the time. She said she will always love me and blocks me from everything, all platforms, only way I could reach out to her was e-mail and her sister

I have not fukked one chick, haven't messed with one chick, I haven't been out with one chick . I did leave my Hinge deactivated but I had deleted all the women I am talking to but wanted to keep my 100 plus matches just in case shyt went south. Eventually I deleted it.

I don't have one hoe in my inbox, even stopped talking to female friends to appease her ass

This is your fault at this point. She will keep going back and forth with you over the years unless you decide to dead it.

In a few months from now you gonna be on here talking about she reached out and she said she made a mistake then you gonna start the process all over again.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

This is your fault at this point. She will keep going back and forth with you over the years unless you decide to dead it.

In a few months from now you gonna be on here talking about she reached out and she said she made a mistake then you gonna start the process all over again.

I use to be so cut throat with women but with her, we were best friends first...so thats what has made it hard for me. It's like a deeper bond but I think I am moving

 

[re'up]

Obviously outrage and scandal over cheating and infidelity goes back forever, but there is a deranged quality to the way people talk about it now. It's like The Crucible. People have fukking lost it. Poring over data and pics, coming up with insane conspiracy theories for celebrities and people in their own lives.

My personal belief is almost everybody, like 3/4 of people would be happier, if we collectively just lowered the bar on monogamy, lowered the temperature on it. Not end it, just relax it by like 30%. Like a deregulation.

 

[The Jewnited States]

Obviously outrage and scandal over cheating and infidelity goes back forever, but there is a deranged quality to the way people talk about it now. It's like The Crucible. People have fukking lost it. Poring over data and pics, coming up with insane conspiracy theories for celebrities and people in their own lives.

My personal belief is almost everybody, like 3/4 of people would be happier, if we collectively just lowered the bar on monogamy, lowered the temperature on it. Not end it, just relax it by like 30%.

But..but...but....MY EGO

How will I ever come to grips with the fact that I am not the only person someone would want to fukk? I am a delicate unique snowflake and no one should even LOOK at another person let alone fukk them

 

[DA_LURKA]

Obviously outrage and scandal over cheating and infidelity goes back forever, but there is a deranged quality to the way people talk about it now. It's like The Crucible. People have fukking lost it. Poring over data and pics, coming up with insane conspiracy theories for celebrities and people in their own lives.

My personal belief is almost everybody, like 3/4 of people would be happier, if we collectively just lowered the bar on monogamy, lowered the temperature on it. Not end it, just relax it by like 30%.

You would let your girl get some side pipe?

 

[Ohene]

To me this is real "GAME" being able to guide social interactions to your desired outcome while "smoothing out all the rough spots" for everyone involved..

yup

 

[Ohene]

This is your fault at this point. She will keep going back and forth with you over the years unless you decide to dead it.

In a few months from now you gonna be on here talking about she reached out and she said she made a mistake then you gonna start the process all over again.

like just propose her and get it over with (pay the pain later) or dead it and invest in new women. the fencing aint gonna work

 

[The ADD]

You would let your girl get some side pipe?

 

[Ahadi]

Always deactivate your hinge. Never delete in 2025.

Rookie move.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

hinge in south africa is like shooting fish im a barrel

Bagging in person is a bit tougher but man oh man its a lot of women here. Ive never been overwhelmed by the sheer amount of attractive women before…especially living in Toronto where a lot of the women arent black and many who are are overweight

But here the baddie per capita ratio is crazy especially cause the majority are black/colored

Cape Town?

If so what a beautiful city

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

It's like heaven it's like heaven on earth

People think America is bad

Toronto /ontario gotta be the worst place to date if you a brother