Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
lol very smart
okay well let me ask you thisSeen this chick at a bar tonite that i used to talk to like fresh out of highschool type shyt. I had the biggest crush on her back in the day man. havent seen her since like 2011 maybe.
We kept making eye contact all night so i had to walk up to her.
"Hey excuse me what's your name?"
"Jai" ( Her name is Jainice")
"You look like someone i used to be cool with."
"nah you dont know me."
Where you from cus you look hella familiar im ngl"
"im with my gf right now you tripping"
Dyke bytch in a yankee hat and a leather jacket sitting next to her looking at me crazy.
Im like "iight my bad. i guess i thought you was somebody else."
I walk back to my seat and tell my cuz who i was with what happened.
Cant even lie that shyt hurt my feelings
i used to chill with this broad at her MOTHERS house in Irvington bruh. Pulling up to her crib risking my life. bytch wanna act like she dont know me cus she "gay" now.
Her so called gf was taunting me for the rest of the night too like i wouldnt choke her tf out in the parking lot.
Chick was fine as ever too smh. I guess its for the best cus if i had it my way i'da tried to get her pregnant tonite.
Cant win them all brehs, or maybe even any at all. Idk.
if you know the girl, why are you frontin like you dont and giving her the ability to play you? thats passive aggressive female shyt homie
why not be direct and say, "hey your name is Jainice right?"
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trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
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Not even sure why he would even have to ask that question.... if you chilled with her at her mother's house why are you even asking questions?.... That should be a straight up "Hey Jainice! Girl long time no see. how are you?"..
doublecheese
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I’ll be honest it has been over like 10 years since the last time I saw her. I was a little unsure at first and that’s why I went about it like that. I wasn’t expecting that reaction and it kind of threw me off.
When she hit me with the whole “I’m with my gf line” I just took that as my queue to keep it moving. Wasn’t gonna try and force a conversation if you acting like you don’t know me at all.
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
queue to keep it moving or queue to see if you are well adjusted?.... all in the perspective. Could've easily been welcoming with a "Oh that's your gf?.... Nice! I'm Doublecheese".... amd just converse about life and plant the seed.
Unless you one of the folks on this site who are scared that if they touch somebody who's gay's hand they will instantly burst into a plume of rainbows and glitter with a limp wrist....
Hahaha. There's variables about people's mood and context, but a lot is in the delivery. Social grace and conversational skills can be sharpened. Her social skills aren't great either, but you can't control other people.
Good entry lines and good exit lines.
We ran into this girl from high school a month ago, like 2nd tier outside our social circle, but she knows everybody. It sounds too cocky, but she wanted me to go further and I was just having fun connecting with someone from high school. She told me about her marriages and divorce her kids, she's a major real estate player now, we talked about her friends, my friends, everyone we knew. But that's genuine. That's the homie, even if we haven't seen each other in 10 years. We come from the same place. I came over, we talked for 2 minutes, and then I was like I'm going to sit back down, but it was nice seeing you, tell Paulina you saw me, and I asked about her. Then she and her friends went to the bathroom, and just stuck to us for the rest of the night.
I am not saying you "fukked up" or this or that, but if you truly had that connection, just let her know what's up. Say I just wanted to say HI and go back to whatever you were doing.
Good entry lines and good exit lines.
We ran into this girl from high school a month ago, like 2nd tier outside our social circle, but she knows everybody. It sounds too cocky, but she wanted me to go further and I was just having fun connecting with someone from high school. She told me about her marriages and divorce her kids, she's a major real estate player now, we talked about her friends, my friends, everyone we knew. But that's genuine. That's the homie, even if we haven't seen each other in 10 years. We come from the same place. I came over, we talked for 2 minutes, and then I was like I'm going to sit back down, but it was nice seeing you, tell Paulina you saw me, and I asked about her. Then she and her friends went to the bathroom, and just stuck to us for the rest of the night.
I am not saying you "fukked up" or this or that, but if you truly had that connection, just let her know what's up. Say I just wanted to say HI and go back to whatever you were doing.
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A lot of social norms are changing, but social grace, is usually taught and indoctrinated in the upper classes. Not everyone gets that lesson. But, small stuff goes a long way. Obviously a lot people lack all that shyt, but even the ones that do, will notice your style, if they can see straight from the coke and drinks.
They learn how to transition conversation, make an exit, and an entrance
They learn how to introduce themselves,
They learn how to status signal/status flag
They learn how to pivot from uncomfortable subjects
They learn how to shake hands to convey strength
It's all about smoothing out the rough spots in social interactions. You don't have to talk like a formal fukking black tie in London event, but:
"Sorry, I have to get back to my friends, it was really nice seeing you".
"I don't mean to interrupt, just wanted to say HI, I'll let you get back to your friends".
"I'm just going to get a drink, can I get you something?"
One of my older homies/mentors is pure Ivy League, but he's cool, and he told me that asking questions, let's you control the conversation. So you control the interaction, briefly, and then yield control, as it ends. Make people feel important, even if they aren't. Only ask questions that you give a fukk about.
They learn how to transition conversation, make an exit, and an entrance
They learn how to introduce themselves,
They learn how to status signal/status flag
They learn how to pivot from uncomfortable subjects
They learn how to shake hands to convey strength
It's all about smoothing out the rough spots in social interactions. You don't have to talk like a formal fukking black tie in London event, but:
"Sorry, I have to get back to my friends, it was really nice seeing you".
"I don't mean to interrupt, just wanted to say HI, I'll let you get back to your friends".
"I'm just going to get a drink, can I get you something?"
One of my older homies/mentors is pure Ivy League, but he's cool, and he told me that asking questions, let's you control the conversation. So you control the interaction, briefly, and then yield control, as it ends. Make people feel important, even if they aren't. Only ask questions that you give a fukk about.
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skyrunner1
Superstar
To me this is real "GAME" being able to guide social interactions to your desired outcome while "smoothing out all the rough spots" for everyone involved..
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
This is what creating "aura" is..... agreed
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
What a long fkn weekend, as it stands, I am now a single man 
Long story short, my girl and I got back together, she stayed in VA and I am in Atlanta
I was so swamp with work that my communication was poor, she suspected that I was cheating on her with another woman, I wasn't, she thought it was my friend, every time we got together, we argued, I am feeling blind sided the whole damn time, November, we had a huge blow up, December again, same shyt
I told her I would propose to her earlier this year, I visit her for our anniversary, valentine day, before leaving my goal was to propose to her, the engagement ring was in DC..In february things started getting back to normal...
long story short, tons of cheating scenarios came about, then, today, I showed her my telegram and she thought I was talking to some white women on there, told her these were bots.So of course, I go to bed, we start talking she ask me if I have been cheating on her, I told her no, I have not.
So I had to leave early because she wanted to come to Atlanta for the rest of the time. She said she will always love me and blocks me from everything, all platforms, only way I could reach out to her was e-mail and her sister
I have not fukked one chick, haven't messed with one chick, I haven't been out with one chick
. I did leave my Hinge deactivated but I had deleted all the women I am talking to but wanted to keep my 100 plus matches just in case shyt went south. Eventually I deleted it.
I don't have one hoe in my inbox, even stopped talking to female friends to appease her ass
Long story short, my girl and I got back together, she stayed in VA and I am in Atlanta
I was so swamp with work that my communication was poor, she suspected that I was cheating on her with another woman, I wasn't, she thought it was my friend, every time we got together, we argued, I am feeling blind sided the whole damn time, November, we had a huge blow up, December again, same shyt
I told her I would propose to her earlier this year, I visit her for our anniversary, valentine day, before leaving my goal was to propose to her, the engagement ring was in DC..In february things started getting back to normal...
long story short, tons of cheating scenarios came about, then, today, I showed her my telegram and she thought I was talking to some white women on there, told her these were bots.So of course, I go to bed, we start talking she ask me if I have been cheating on her, I told her no, I have not.
So I had to leave early because she wanted to come to Atlanta for the rest of the time. She said she will always love me and blocks me from everything, all platforms, only way I could reach out to her was e-mail and her sister
I have not fukked one chick, haven't messed with one chick, I haven't been out with one chick
. I did leave my Hinge deactivated but I had deleted all the women I am talking to but wanted to keep my 100 plus matches just in case shyt went south. Eventually I deleted it.I don't have one hoe in my inbox, even stopped talking to female friends to appease her ass
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
that one dream you had last year was the determining factor brehWhat a long fkn weekend, as it stands, I am now a single man
Long story short, my girl and I got back together, she stayed in VA and I am in Atlanta
I was so swamp with work that my communication was poor, she suspected that I was cheating on her with another woman, I wasn't, she thought it was my friend, every time we got together, we argued, I am feeling blind sided the whole damn time, November, we had a huge blow up, December again, same shyt
I told her I would propose to her earlier this year, I visit her for our anniversary, valentine day, before leaving my goal was to propose to her, the engagement ring was in DC..In february things started getting back to normal...
long story short, tons of cheating scenarios came about, then, today, I showed her my telegram and she thought I was talking to some white women on there, told her these were bots.So of course, I go to bed, we start talking she ask me if I have been cheating on her, I told her no, I have not.
So I had to leave early because she wanted to come to Atlanta for the rest of the time. She said she will always love me and blocks me from everything, all platforms, only way I could reach out to her was e-mail and her sister
I have not fukked one chick, haven't messed with one chick, I haven't been out with one chick
I don't have one hoe in my inbox, even stopped talking to female friends to appease her ass
should of stayed loyal in your sleepbut seriously that sucks man. Oh well, there’s was no trust on her end so there’s nothing you could of done