Not named Aubrey
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Yes sir
Did 5 nights in Cape town and 2 nights in Johannesburg
Met a couple girls from Durban in both cities. Told one she gotta show me her ends next time I am back
Cape Town is a legit 10/10 city; might be the best place I have ever visited - that or London
Johannesburg has badder bytches and probably nightlife but Cape Town has better weather, food, the beach and the aesthetics
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I was thinking to myself that now i know why @Apollo Creed , @Astroslik and @trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In and @MikelArteta are on the time theyre on
Going to South Africa theres no way I will tolerate any of these Toronto girls foolishness anymore lol: I’m sure kenya similar
I spent over a month in SA, all i will say is dont go there thinking these women are “better” all women are the same. Overseas is like 10-20 yrs behind, all countries are headed to the same direction, the thing is when you are an “outsider” women tone done the delusion/vitriol. These chicks are good for dating but dont confuse it with marriage material, its a reason these chicks are single and dating you and getting smashed with no strings attached
Offcourse all women are the same
But a 4 in Toronto thinks she’s 8
I believe it and especially agree with the bold. This is what I always tell my boys when I/we travel but I can say these chicks seem more down to earth than Latin American women, Carribean women and Europeans. Canadian women always rave about American men for instance. I dont know what it is but women just love foreign men...shyt strange. Call it the grass is greener syndrome or whatever
With South Africa, one thing I can say though is it seems the men dont take them serious at all lol.
Exactly. Meanwhile out here, a legit 10 will give you zero problems...be down to link, DTF, communicate easily and all that
It seems like even the local brehs feast out here, they just dont get into serious relationships/settle down with them.
Its a case of supply and demand I guess. To the brehs here, these girls are regular and they treat them as such - whereas in cities like Toronto we let these girls get away with too much and gas them up feeding into their delusions.
EVer notice how white dudes have less issue...its cause theres so many white ppl in general. But as a black person, when the population downtown is probably liek 5-10%...its rare you find an attractive women so you get the oneitis if you not disciplined.
Thats my theory at least
Women aside though, Cape Town is a really nice city. If it was closer to North America I think a lot more people would go.
The aesthetic is A+
The food is A+
Infrastructure is decent
City is clean
The cost of living is great
The safety isnt too bad outside of the hoods
I once asked a South African chick in Toronto why I rarely meet South Africans in the city and she said its "because we like our country." I get what she meant. Compared to Ghana and Nigeria, South Africa is simply better and more modern. She was also considering moving back home despite graduating from Universtiy of Toronto and having a good job.
The aesthetic is A+
The food is A+
Infrastructure is decent
City is clean
The cost of living is great
The safety isnt too bad outside of the hoods
I once asked a South African chick in Toronto why I rarely meet South Africans in the city and she said its "because we like our country." I get what she meant. Compared to Ghana and Nigeria, South Africa is simply better and more modern. She was also considering moving back home despite graduating from Universtiy of Toronto and having a good job.
More thinking of the structure, like a pyramid. At the top is the marriage/exclusive relationship, but the rules usually apply from the top to almost the bottom. I hear people today, who have known each other for a month, or 70 days, whatever, already talking like they are in a years long marriage, all these rules and structure, and harsh sanctions for violations.
What I am saying is relax the rules for everyone, so it's just slightly less important to perform that kind of thing.
It’s just simple mathematics
More women who are your type
More people that look like you etc
Meanwhile you go to black venues in Toronto and it’s 80 dudes and 15 women
Meanwhile in Nairobi you go to any establishment , almost every dude has a women lol ..
Hadn't thought of it that way. Like they are practicing for marriage. Sure. All the grand drama of like historical relationships, operas, and plays, and that kind of thing, it was usually over longer term or more passionate situations.
Currently, I hear people talk about cheating, and they don't even seem to want the person that much. Haven't even slept together! They just need to condemn the action of cheating, even as loosely defined as a text, or a kiss. Or 'talking' to someone else.
I think it all plays into the hyper morality of social media, and our current culture.