Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Interesting this about hinge. Linked with this slim thick yoga joint who was in the standout section. We chillin and talkin about the app, I ask her “can I see what your app looks like?”

Bruh that shyt had 800 likes



I’m like “how did you find me out of 800 likes & 200 unread matches?”

She’s like “it’s timing” like you happened to be on, look good and i wanted to connect.

It made me think like, joints aren’t really rejecting like that, they just see who they see because of the overwhelming responses lol.

And yeah somewhat I remember when I used tinder and had tinder goldand i had like 2500 matches, all the messages, all teh swipes you had to go through etc. it is somewhat about timing

now the crazy thing is a fat ugly azz broad is also getting that much attention like that slim thick yoga joint

 

[Ahadi]

This is why dating apps in a metropolis western city is dumb

Too many thirsty men

In south africa that shyt aint an issue
You can like, match and meet up with a chick in the same day. Maybe fukk too if you wanna

It’s interesting in SA & @MikelArteta you can speak to this too.

Are the women into one night stand situations? Or is it more long term relationship / life partner focus?”

I see a lot of baddies on here with what they’re looking for & its “long term / life partner”

 

[MikelArteta]

This is why dating apps in a metropolis western city is dumb

Too many thirsty men

In south africa that shyt aint an issue
You can like, match and meet up with a chick in the same day. Maybe fukk too if you wanna

yeah for any girl on a dating app its like that pop the balloon type show for them they got a bunch of choices and you as a man it seems gotta do everything

 

[Ahadi]

And yeah somewhat I remember when I used tinder and had tinder goldand i had like 2500 matches, all the messages, all teh swipes you had to go through etc. it is somewhat about timing

now the crazy thing is a fat ugly azz broad is also getting that much attention like that slim thick yoga joint

Yep & this is why the whole women ranking system is all over the place. Women used to know where they ranked amongst obtaining certain men.

 

[MikelArteta]

It’s interesting in SA & @MikelArteta you can speak to this too.

Are the women into one night stand situations? Or is it more long term relationship / life partner focus?”

I see a lot of baddies on here with what they’re looking for & its “long term / life partner”

its the same anywhere I think, I've met girls even in Toronto first date and they told me how they waiting for marriage, haven't slept with anyone in 5 years bla bla and we end up back at their spot first night. I just think it goes to if a woman is feeling you then all of her rules etc. go out the window

As well once a woman reaches a certain age she flips into that long term / life partner ish

However in Uganda, its mainly young women who are more into the one night stand, you'll see them with mzungus (white guys on vacation) spreading their legs for money or whatever, also wanting teh high life so they do whatever to get it.


But as well alot of people are way more religious than over in North America. And as well being known as a whore, or having kids out of wedlock brings shame if you are brought up right.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep & this is why the whole women ranking system is all over the place. Women used to know where they ranked amongst obtaining certain men.

yep but now even the trey songz ass nikka is in a avg girl dm or msg on a dating app calling her beautiful and sexy, but like I said before time flies. I'm almost 40 in a few months married and a kid on the way, a few years ago I was travelling to different countries and canoodling and cavorting with chicks all over the place. And you know what? I'm more happier now even though I can't travel all over but I'm more happier now with my wife than I was before.

All dem broads you see posting photos all over the world. travelling etc. they'd give it all up for a man who loves them and a baby its biological its nature.

 

[The ADD]

Interesting this about hinge. Linked with this slim thick yoga joint who was in the standout section. I don’t normally throw roses, but I’m like fukk it. We talk, I get her off the app & we back at my spot. We chillin, smoking and talkin about the app, I ask her “can I see what your app looks like?”

Bruh that shyt had 800 likes



I’m like “how did you find me out of 800 likes & 200 unread matches?”

She’s like “it’s timing” like you happened to be on, look good and i wanted to connect.

It made me think like, joints aren’t really rejecting like that, they just see who they see because of the overwhelming responses lol. Guys shouldn’t put too much stock into apps.

Yep. One of my good female friends had Several hundred messages and got paralyzed with trying to sift through them all. Good chick too.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep. One of my good female friends had Several hundred messages and got paralyzed with trying to sift through them all. Good chick too.

and people wonder why dating is so messed up for many folks. If you aint mr perfect curt henning theywill just be like next

 

[AStrangeName]

Yep & this is why the whole women ranking system is all over the place. Women used to know where they ranked amongst obtaining certain men.

They still do, it usually takes them being a smash and pass to those certain men to come back to reality, but it comes with anger in return.

 

[Ahadi]

yep but now even the trey songz ass nikka is in a avg girl dm or msg on a dating app calling her beautiful and sexy, but like I said before time flies. I'm almost 40 in a few months married and a kid on the way, a few years ago I was travelling to different countries and canoodling and cavorting with chicks all over the place. And you know what? I'm more happier now even though I can't travel all over but I'm more happier now with my wife than I was before.

All dem broads you see posting photos all over the world. travelling etc. they'd give it all up for a man who loves them and a baby its biological its nature.

1000%

 

[Ahadi]

They still do, it usually takes them being a smash and pass to those certain men to come back to reality, but it comes with anger in return.

Right, they bump their heads a few times until they realize “I can’t obtain or get this man to commit”

6”6 becomes 6”0 to “he has to be atleast 5”10” to “as long as he’s taller than me” lol.

Usually atleast 5”10 is when the wall approaches

 

[Ohene]

Right, they bump their heads a few times until they realize “I can’t obtain or get this man to commit”

6”6 becomes 6”0 to atleast 5”10 to “as long as he’s taller than me lol.

But in the back of their mind they’ll still long for the dude who dashed them and think they can pull him

They will feel like they are settling for the newer guy and that she above him

 

[doublecheese]

Seen this chick at a bar tonite that i used to talk to like fresh out of highschool type shyt. I had the biggest crush on her back in the day man. havent seen her since like 2011 maybe.

We kept making eye contact all night so i had to walk up to her.

"Hey excuse me what's your name?"

"Jai" ( Her name is Jainice")

"You look like someone i used to be cool with."

"nah you dont know me."

Where you from cus you look hella familiar im ngl"

"im with my gf right now you tripping"

Dyke bytch in a yankee hat and a leather jacket sitting next to her looking at me crazy.

Im like "iight my bad. i guess i thought you was somebody else."

I walk back to my seat and tell my cuz who i was with what happened.

Cant even lie that shyt hurt my feelings

i used to chill with this broad at her MOTHERS house in Irvington bruh. Pulling up to her crib risking my life. bytch wanna act like she dont know me cus she "gay" now.

Her so called gf was taunting me for the rest of the night too like i wouldnt choke her tf out in the parking lot.

Chick was fine as ever too smh. I guess its for the best cus if i had it my way i'da tried to get her pregnant tonite.

Cant win them all brehs, or maybe even any at all. Idk.

 

[The ADD]

Seen this chick at a bar tonite that i used to talk to like fresh out of highschool type shyt. I had the biggest crush on her back in the day man. havent seen her since like 2011 maybe.

We kept making eye contact all night so i had to walk up to her.

"Hey excuse me what's your name?"

"Jai" ( Her name is Jainice")

"You look like someone i used to be cool with."

"nah you dont know me."

Where you from cus you look hella familiar im ngl"

"im with my gf right now you tripping"

Dyke bytch in a yankee hat and a leather jacket sitting next to her looking at me crazy.

Im like "iight my bad. i guess i thought you was somebody else."

I walk back to my seat and tell my cuz who i was with what happened.

Cant even lie that shyt hurt my feelings

i used to chill with this broad at her MOTHERS house in Irvington bruh. Pulling up to her crib risking my life. bytch wanna act like she dont know me cus she "gay" now.

Her so called gf was taunting me for the rest of the night too like i wouldnt choke her tf out in the parking lot.

Chick was fine as ever too smh. I guess its for the best cus if i had it my way i'da tried to get her pregnant tonite.

Cant win them all brehs, or maybe even any at all. Idk.

 

[Ahadi]

Seen this chick at a bar tonite that i used to talk to like fresh out of highschool type shyt. I had the biggest crush on her back in the day man. havent seen her since like 2011 maybe.

We kept making eye contact all night so i had to walk up to her.

"Hey excuse me what's your name?"

"Jai" ( Her name is Jainice")

"You look like someone i used to be cool with."

"nah you dont know me."

Where you from cus you look hella familiar im ngl"

"im with my gf right now you tripping"

Dyke bytch in a yankee hat and a leather jacket sitting next to her looking at me crazy.

Im like "iight my bad. i guess i thought you was somebody else."

I walk back to my seat and tell my cuz who i was with what happened.

Cant even lie that shyt hurt my feelings

i used to chill with this broad at her MOTHERS house in Irvington bruh. Pulling up to her crib risking my life. bytch wanna act like she dont know me cus she "gay" now.

Her so called gf was taunting me for the rest of the night too like i wouldnt choke her tf out in the parking lot.

Chick was fine as ever too smh. I guess its for the best cus if i had it my way i'da tried to get her pregnant tonite.

Cant win them all brehs, or maybe even any at all. Idk.

Should’ve just been straight up.