Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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“We grew apart, our goals didn’t align for the future”

Their ex is always the best for some reason

:mjlol:

Hate when women carry over whatever feelings they had for their ex to the next relationship….and that includes the negative aspects of an ex as well. I’ve been the punching bag on both aspects so I know the feeling
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Quick question how do y’all feel about people who hop into another relationship, or end up back on dating apps as soon as they end things off with a person? I personally think it’s a recipe for disaster especially if you dated that person for a long time, and in my opinion means you aren’t truly comfortable to be by yourself, but I’m tryna see y’all opinions.
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Quick question how do y’all feel about people who hop into another relationship, or end up back on dating apps as soon as they end things off with a person? I personally think it’s a recipe for disaster especially if you dated that person for a long time, and in my opinion means you aren’t truly comfortable to be by yourself, but I’m tryna see y’all opinions.
:jbhmm:
I've always viewed people who hop from relationship to relationship as unstable. You have no time to detox or heal from the relationship that ended and end up bleeding into the next.

Jumping on dating apps immediately, I see that as just being bored or lonely.
 

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Quick question how do y’all feel about people who hop into another relationship, or end up back on dating apps as soon as they end things off with a person? I personally think it’s a recipe for disaster especially if you dated that person for a long time, and in my opinion means you aren’t truly comfortable to be by yourself, but I’m tryna see y’all opinions.
:jbhmm:
“Relationship” is a wide ranging term. In some cases it may have not have been so deep that you need much time between partners.
 

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hinge in south africa is like shooting fish im a barrel

Bagging in person is a bit tougher but man oh man its a lot of women here. Ive never been overwhelmed by the sheer amount of attractive women before…especially living in Toronto where a lot of the women arent black and many who are are overweight

But here the baddie per capita ratio is crazy especially cause the majority are black/colored
 

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hinge in south africa is like shooting fish im a barrel

Bagging in person is a bit tougher but man oh man its a lot of women here. Ive never been overwhelmed by the sheer amount of attractive women before…especially living in Toronto where a lot of the women arent black and many who are are overweight

But here the baddie per capita ratio is crazy especially cause the majority are black/colored


It's like heaven it's like heaven on earth :mjlit:
 

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Quick question how do y’all feel about people who hop into another relationship, or end up back on dating apps as soon as they end things off with a person? I personally think it’s a recipe for disaster especially if you dated that person for a long time, and in my opinion means you aren’t truly comfortable to be by yourself, but I’m tryna see y’all opinions.
:jbhmm:


There are two sides to the coin, many people already detach before ending a relationship.

The last relationship I had before getting married, I already knew a breakup was coming and didn’t have strong feelings for her anyway. So when she said she wasn’t happy and wanted to end things, I was just like, “Alright,” and I was back to going out on dates the following week
 

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Quick question how do y’all feel about people who hop into another relationship, or end up back on dating apps as soon as they end things off with a person? I personally think it’s a recipe for disaster especially if you dated that person for a long time, and in my opinion means you aren’t truly comfortable to be by yourself, but I’m tryna see y’all opinions.
:jbhmm:
Ive seen it on both side. On one its usually the women is really needy and anxious, type that needs someone there to help keep them sane kind of. They are locked in until they can find someone else to handle their bullshyt. And I know a few who were just the type that they were rarely single and always had suitors, stayed in long term relationships and had dudes lined up to propose marriage types. They used to have other women TIIIIIGHT :lolbron:Its kinda hard to put into words the difference but I say it leaves clues in other areas of their lives also, you got to evaluate with a real discerning eye to peep the difference. Though the second was much more rare. like a 75/25 maybe even less.

Also most women have multiple people tryna get at them, especially highly attractive. Like mentioned some might be in long term situation and they mentally checked out months ago and were planning their exit on some quiet quitting type shyt
 

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What’s the move to get them to FaceTime before meeting up? I rather FaceTime before meeting up to see what they look like and sound like. Get the number to setup the date then say I’m busy next few days let’s FaceTime?
 

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What’s the move to get them to FaceTime before meeting up? I rather FaceTime before meeting up to see what they look like and sound like. Get the number to setup the date then say I’m busy next few days let’s FaceTime?

I usually just say I’m not really a big texter, let’s FT. Simple as that.
 

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hinge in south africa is like shooting fish im a barrel

Bagging in person is a bit tougher but man oh man its a lot of women here. Ive never been overwhelmed by the sheer amount of attractive women before…especially living in Toronto where a lot of the women arent black and many who are are overweight

But here the baddie per capita ratio is crazy especially cause the majority are black/colored

I’m on here right now. It is ridiculous. So many baddies.

Idk what Auston / KG were talking about.
 

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hinge in south africa is like shooting fish im a barrel

Bagging in person is a bit tougher but man oh man its a lot of women here. Ive never been overwhelmed by the sheer amount of attractive women before…especially living in Toronto where a lot of the women arent black and many who are are overweight

But here the baddie per capita ratio is crazy especially cause the majority are black/colored
I have to emphasize this

The best way I can illustrate is this. These women are so easy going and attractive, and the dollar goes so far that you will almost feel like youre exploiting them. Thats how brainwashed living in North America might have you/me. But the reality is that this is probably the way its actually supposed to be

As gentlemen have said, “Go where you are wanted; not tolerated.”
 

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I have to emphasize this

The best way I can illustrate is this. These women are so easy going and attractive, and the dollar goes so far that you will almost feel like youre exploiting them. Thats how brainwashed living in North America might have you/me. But the reality is that this is probably the way its actually supposed to be

As gentlemen have said, “Go where you are wanted; not tolerated.”
Yep…..

You bringing something back
 
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