Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Easy to say for us, but when you have the $$$ and easier access its hard not to. I was looking through his DM’s one day and IG is basically like an old school Sears thot catalogue for these guys. If they’re not getting the Elite+ shorties, they’re easily obtaining shorties right under that tier. But athletes have egos so they want the best of the best. Even the bench players lol
It doesn't matter
Women will leave the doctor husband for the mail man.
Or will leave the guy who has it all for her pos ex
The thing how women think is mind boggling can date five dudes in a row all trear em like garbage etc..can date one guy who treats them well and they get
A: scared
B: think that oh I can find numerous guys who will treat me well now
It is
I keep saying it time and time again
And take it from a guy who was avg like 3 dates a week with diff black women at one point
Battling the culture. I remember last year at a corporate holiday party. We had a yapping white woman that works in the sales department at our party. I work in the tech department for corporate. She asked what I did and the previous places I worked. I briefly talked about what I did and the previous places I worked, didn't even scratch the surface of my resume.
The white girl eyes immediately started to light up like she just hit the jack pot. "I'm going to come back and find you to talk some more!"
If I tell a black woman all the things I got going on, i'm usually get dismissed. "You just a regular black man that works in tech", I've heard this line verbatim before. Meanwhile on my side of the department I'm the only black man that writes code. I'm usually only ever the black man that writes code most of the time. Where are all these black men in tech that you say are in abundance I never see them?
Black women usually only care if you a "Boss nikka". They don't care what kind of "Boss nikka" you are as long as it sounds good.
I've been thinking lately is the compromise getting a mixed girl then calling it a day.
Sorry for the rant.
I remember when I got a new job and was making substantial more than the one I had before but the title wasn't anything sexy.
I remember the girl I was dating st the time this Nigerian was like disgusted with the title.
Even though she didn't even have a job at that time but had her masters.
I said back in the day nikkas was wasting time rushing to go.on dates with weirdos lmfao.
Dudes need to drop this fumble the ball mentality and understand its a numbers game faster you get ride of the weirdos the better. You shouldn't even want to meet someone in person who can't carry elementary level Convo via text/phone
Tommy Lee Jones
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How do you vet who to go on a date with? I can usually tell by there profile but what questions do you ask before you decide
I just went and based on the date
People look and a tottally different in real life. All this editing of photos etc. Sometimes they looked worse than photos sometimes better. If I didn't like their teeth or what they were wearing. Or if I didn't like their tone Never met up again.
Did cheap things like go for a walk etc.
I ain't wasting time being a text buddy etc. let me see you asap.
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If you can't have human Convo why would go out with someone? Why does everything have to be a formula? Do.you not see the problem In this?
africngiant
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me when i post on this thread. u noticed i just stopped saying anything lmaoIt's tough man. The best way I can explain my personal experience is:
I will meet a girl, we will go out a few times, there will be clear attraction and a chemistry. However, despite all that they insist on keeping you at an arms length. Either A) I eventually smash and while things are going well the girl starts creating unecessary conflict or B) I become impatient due to poor communication, constant shyt tests or games, which eventually cause me to fumble the prospect and she hits me with some "You're a great guy but..." nonsense.
A is usually with the girls I am attracted to but dont see long term potential
B is unforunately usually with the girls I am most attracted to and see long term potential '
- Examples of A can be anything from a girl misreading a text to a girl thinking I got her pregnant and refusing to take a pregancy test.
- Examples of B can be due to the shyt we been talking about the last couple of pages, the "ick" as @Malcolmxxx_23 said or the fact a chick hasnt gotten past who she already smashing / one of her exes.
shyt honestly becomes exhausting. And I personally think that as a man, what makes it worse is that no matter the situation you are always considered to be at fault. "You blew it", "Why did you say that", "You should have called her instead", "Dont call, thats creepy", "You shouldve invited her over". "You invited her over too soon", "Apply pressure", "Don't chase". You're always doing too much or not doing enough.
I can go on and on. No matter the case...it is always YOU who dropped the ball and fukked up.At this point I am prolly gonna stop discussing my escapades with friends altogether. shyt makes you feel like something is wrong with you
Tommy Lee Jones
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Sometimes they got a dry profile doesn’t say much about them.
Tommy Lee Jones
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Any bytch that likes to golf or loves sports team is bushes. I don’t like sports but even if I did still don’t want someone who loves sports.
Glad you only speaking for yourself.
Cutting down on a slim recruitment pool
