Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

All the complaints or frustrations I have, I have as a financially secure, tall, good lookin, smart, charismatic dude. That is not to say I am faultless; clearly I am. But it makes me wonder what its like for the "average" single guy out there some times.

Seems like its a bit harder to deal with black women as well. I be seeing white, indian and asian dudes in my network marry and get into relationships very easily with solid women but with black women it seems you get no leeway and have to be "HIM" at all times.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

All the complaints or frustrations I have, I have as a financially secure, tall, good lookin, smart, charismatic dude.

I’ve come to the conclusion that those positives don’t hold as much weight as we’d like to believe. I have a brand new crib, 6 figure job, in excellent shape, nice truck, decent savings and no previous relationship baggage. Still deal with the bullshyt. Even from women that having all those things 20 years ago you’d have to beat the women off you trying to get you to commit.

Now chicks ghost YOU like they’re the catch haha

 

[Ohene]

I’ve come to the conclusion that those positives don’t hold as much weight as we’d like to believe. I have a brand new crib, 6 figure job, in excellent shape, nice truck, decent savings and no previous relationship baggage. Still deal with the bullshyt. Even from women that having all those things 20 years ago you’d have to beat the women off you trying to get you to commit.

Now chicks ghost YOU like they’re the catch haha

Ive come to that conclusion as well

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Ive come to that conclusion as well

Women of today aren’t taught to value stability and peace.

Like you said a couple pages back. All they know and gravitate towards is chaos and toxicity.

I notice no difference between women that come from two parent households and ones that don’t. They all have the same M.O.

Matter of fact the last several chicks I’ve dealt with came from 2 parent households and have a good relationship with their fathers. Including the one that bushed me (a complete healthy relationship) to be alone and heal. Even has a background picture with her and her dad.

Hard to understand. It’s very shocking to the conscience.

 

[Ohene]

Women of today aren’t taught to value stability and peace.

Like you said a couple pages back. All they know and gravitate towards is chaos and toxicity.

I notice no difference between women that come from two parent households and ones that don’t. They all have the same M.O.

Matter of fact the last several chicks I’ve dealt with came from 2 parent households and have a good relationship with their fathers. Including the one that bushed me (a complete healthy relationship) to be alone and heal. Even has a background picture with her and her dad.

Hard to understand. It’s very shocking to the conscience.

I notice a difference personally but man

It’s extremely rare for me to meet a black woman who comes from a home where her parents are still alive and together. At best their mom remarried and they be having a step father

A solid 8 or 9/10 women i meet are from broken homes. Its fine for women meeting men because it means the man probably is used to being the man of the house or already has an appreciation for women because his mom is all he had. For women though, it usually means they didnt live with and thus dont appreciate the presence of a man in the home.

All these women are just broken. Like you said its shocking. Im tired breh haha

 

[RaspberryFitted]

went on a gym date. good time

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

All these women are just broken. Like you said its shocking. Im tired breh haha

Me too breh…me too.

 

[DJSmooth]

All the complaints or frustrations I have, I have as a financially secure, tall, good lookin, smart, charismatic dude. That is not to say I am faultless; clearly I am. But it makes me wonder what its like for the "average" single guy out there some times.

Seems like its a bit harder to deal with black women as well. I be seeing white, indian and asian dudes in my network marry and get into relationships very easily with solid women but with black women it seems you get no leeway and have to be "HIM" at all times.

Battling the culture. I remember last year at a corporate holiday party. We had a yapping white woman that works in the sales department at our party. I work in the tech department for corporate. She asked what I did and the previous places I worked. I briefly talked about what I did and the previous places I worked, didn't even scratch the surface of my resume.

The white girl eyes immediately started to light up like she just hit the jack pot. "I'm going to come back and find you to talk some more!"

If I tell a black woman all the things I got going on, i'm usually get dismissed. "You just a regular black man that works in tech", I've heard this line verbatim before. Meanwhile on my side of the department I'm the only black man that writes code. I'm usually only ever the black man that writes code most of the time. Where are all these black men in tech that you say are in abundance I never see them?

Black women usually only care if you a "Boss nikka". They don't care what kind of "Boss nikka" you are as long as it sounds good.

I've been thinking lately is the compromise getting a mixed girl then calling it a day.

Sorry for the rant.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Battling the culture. I remember last year at a corporate holiday party. We had a yapping white woman that works in the sales department at our party. I work in the tech department for corporate. She asked what I did and the previous places I worked. I briefly talked about what I did and the previous places I worked, didn't even scratch the surface of my resume.

The white girl eyes immediately started to light up like she just hit the jack pot. "I'm going to come back and find you to talk some more!"

If I tell a black woman all the things I got going on, i'm usually get dismissed. "You just a regular black man that works in tech", I've heard this line verbatim before. Meanwhile on my side of the department I'm the only black man that writes code. I'm usually only ever the black man that writes code most of the time. Where are all these black men in tech that you say are in abundance I never see them?

Black women usually only care if you a "Boss nikka". They don't care what kind of "Boss nikka" you are as long as it sounds good.

I've been thinking lately is the compromise getting a mixed girl then calling it a day.

Sorry for the rant.

You tell a black chick that. She'll be like "You don't own the company?"

 

[DJSmooth]

You tell a black chick that. She'll be like "You don't own the company?"

I wish that was trolling but it's true.

One of the last dates I was on, the girl wanted to know if I was 1099 or on a W-2 since I work corporate.

 

[Ohene]

Battling the culture. I remember last year at a corporate holiday party. We had a yapping white woman that works in the sales department at our party. I work in the tech department for corporate. She asked what I did and the previous places I worked. I briefly talked about what I did and the previous places I worked, didn't even scratch the surface of my resume.

The white girl eyes immediately started to light up like she just hit the jack pot. "I'm going to come back and find you to talk some more!"

If I tell a black woman all the things I got going on, i'm usually get dismissed. "You just a regular black man that works in tech", I've heard this line verbatim before. Meanwhile on my side of the department I'm the only black man that writes code. I'm usually only ever the black man that writes code most of the time. Where are all these black men in tech that you say are in abundance I never see them?

Black women usually only care if you a "Boss nikka". They don't care what kind of "Boss nikka" you are as long as it sounds good.

I've been thinking lately is the compromise getting a mixed girl then calling it a day.

Sorry for the rant.

I know how you feel. In my last job i was making about 350K a year lol. If I didnt get effed over it woulda been closer to 400K. I was the only black man in a like a 200 person investments division that included private equity, credit investing, infrastructure investing and other shyt. I am not entitled or egotistical enough to think that just because I have a good job that I am superior but i mean lets keep it real ... we kinda are. For goodness sake I have on at least two occassions had two women tell me that I am like a black superman due to my looks, build, demeanor, glasses and everything. But somehow it aint enough for these bytches bro. . They stay on code and try to keep us down/desperate and if you not secure enough you will fall for it.

Theres a serious issue in our community/culture man. Do these women know what it takes to make it as a software engineer at a good firm? How competitive it is. shyt's wild.

Is the question posed in this video even a question in most other cultures? lol


Granted they asking the lowest of the low but I have known professional women on the same shyt

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

@Ohene
Bro dating in ontario as a black men is the woat
Especially if your looking for black women

 

[Astroslik]

All the complaints or frustrations I have, I have as a financially secure, tall, good lookin, smart, charismatic dude. That is not to say I am faultless; clearly I am. But it makes me wonder what its like for the "average" single guy out there some times.

Seems like its a bit harder to deal with black women as well. I be seeing white, indian and asian dudes in my network marry and get into relationships very easily with solid women but with black women it seems you get no leeway and have to be "HIM" at all times.

I got a homie in the NFL and even he’s dealing with some bullshyt. It’s not safe out here for anyone lol.

 

[Ohene]

I got a homie in the NFL and even he’s dealing with some bullshyt. It’s not safe out here for anyone lol.

gyatdamn...you for real???

 

[Astroslik]

gyatdamn...you for real???

He’s not a well known starter or anything but even he’s showed me some of the bullshyt he’s dealing with. But then again, he’s also shooting at top tier elite ig hoes who have access to the dubai shiekh’s, drake’s and futures of the world. Even he gets humbled