Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Some good posts these last few pages

It's true what you're all saying. I realized years ago how messed up it truly is. Majority of these women just aren't worth it at all.

They will tell you about an ex how he did this and that and you ask how long you were together.....

Then you might date them and a few months in its blowing up

They want drama, altercations etc.

Let them rot!!


Women don't realize time is ticking. Before you know you're 35 plus and trying to settle down before a geriatric pregnancy .

 

[MikelArteta]

And then when these women meet a mentally stable good guy they run for the hills. They get involved with a dude for several months and feelings get involved THEN they want to end things to focus on themselves and “heal”. I just went through that myself. It’s weird because you think to yourself like you met me, it’s healthy (at least on my end), and everything’s going great so NOW you choose to sit down somewhere and fix yourself AFTER feelings get involved. Makes me think back to that other thread of brehs talking about giving up on love. Me personally I’m not going to give up but if you’re not strongly centered mentally and emotionally healthy every time you get with a new woman and things are going great you’ll be waiting for the bottom to drop out from under you.

Yup

Date the azzhole, the abuser, the cheater, being a side chick for years giving chance after chance, but the good stable guy after a few months or week poof.

Let em rot !!!



What I can say to anyone is just live your life. I won't say I gave up on love but I wasn't expecting anything and just doing me and then I met my wife and got married at 39. Turning 40 this year and expecting my first child in June.

You never know what's around the corner but yeah it's like the avengers when dr strange is that 1 possibility to ironman that's how it is out here.

Most of these chicks are time wasters, damaged, or just want to play around.

Before I met wife I went out with this chick like six times, but I was always the one messaging or calling setting up a date was like a job interview . Then on vacation I met my wife and I just knew it that she was special, like a scout seeing a young Bron you just knew yeah this is it. Didn't have to run through hoops, didn't have to do this or that.

Even my last relationship before my wife @Ohene knows that girl chick got mad because my mom was unwell at that time and I couldn't spend as much time with her like she wanted so it ended.


Now with my wife my dad came to Uganda and rh day before our wedding he was really unwell, my wife went to the hospital with us and spent the whole day there even though there were major preps for our wedding .

 

[MikelArteta]

Also got humble in shape women ready for you brehs