Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Some good posts these last few pages

It's true what you're all saying. I realized years ago how messed up it truly is. Majority of these women just aren't worth it at all.

They will tell you about an ex how he did this and that and you ask how long you were together.....

Then you might date them and a few months in its blowing up

They want drama, altercations etc.

Let them rot!!


Women don't realize time is ticking. Before you know you're 35 plus and trying to settle down before a geriatric pregnancy .

 

[MikelArteta]

And then when these women meet a mentally stable good guy they run for the hills. They get involved with a dude for several months and feelings get involved THEN they want to end things to focus on themselves and “heal”. I just went through that myself. It’s weird because you think to yourself like you met me, it’s healthy (at least on my end), and everything’s going great so NOW you choose to sit down somewhere and fix yourself AFTER feelings get involved. Makes me think back to that other thread of brehs talking about giving up on love. Me personally I’m not going to give up but if you’re not strongly centered mentally and emotionally healthy every time you get with a new woman and things are going great you’ll be waiting for the bottom to drop out from under you.

Yup

Date the azzhole, the abuser, the cheater, being a side chick for years giving chance after chance, but the good stable guy after a few months or week poof.

Let em rot !!!



What I can say to anyone is just live your life. I won't say I gave up on love but I wasn't expecting anything and just doing me and then I met my wife and got married at 39. Turning 40 this year and expecting my first child in June.

You never know what's around the corner but yeah it's like the avengers when dr strange is that 1 possibility to ironman that's how it is out here.

Most of these chicks are time wasters, damaged, or just want to play around.

Before I met wife I went out with this chick like six times, but I was always the one messaging or calling setting up a date was like a job interview . Then on vacation I met my wife and I just knew it that she was special, like a scout seeing a young Bron you just knew yeah this is it. Didn't have to run through hoops, didn't have to do this or that.

Even my last relationship before my wife @Ohene knows that girl chick got mad because my mom was unwell at that time and I couldn't spend as much time with her like she wanted so it ended.


Now with my wife my dad came to Uganda and rh day before our wedding he was really unwell, my wife went to the hospital with us and spent the whole day there even though there were major preps for our wedding .

 

[MikelArteta]

Also got humble in shape women ready for you brehs

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Yup

Date the azzhole, the abuser, the cheater, being a side chick for years giving chance after chance, but the good stable guy after a few months or week poof.

This is what I can’t wrap my head around. I’m struggling to understand it.

Referencing the girl in my post, everything was VERY smooth for 4 months. Hell she wanted me to meet her family which I did during the Christmas holidays. Hell even brought me a bunch of stuff for Christmas. Brought my son a video game for Christmas. Last weekend she said “she is struggling mentally and can’t give me what I deserve due to past trauma. That she loves and cares about me but not all in like she wants to be” when the weekend before that we spent all weekend together and Monday night. Very strange.

So it’s like ok so you can commit and stay with the men who abused you mentally and maybe physically but you finally get a stable situation and you bolt. It’s wild man. I’m just taking it day by day smh.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is what I can’t wrap my head around. I’m struggling to understand it.

Referencing the girl in my post, everything was VERY smooth for 4 months. Hell she wanted me to meet her family which I did during the Christmas holidays. Hell even brought me a bunch of stuff for Christmas. Brought my son a video game for Christmas. Last weekend she said “she is struggling mentally and can’t give me what I deserve due to past trauma. That she loves and cares about me but not all in like she wants to be” when the weekend before that we spent all weekend together and Monday night. Very strange.

So it’s like ok so you can commit and stay with the men who abused you mentally and maybe physically but you finally get a stable situation and you bolt. It’s wild man. I’m just taking it day by day smh.

Yup been there as well but in the end like I said all failures led me to my wife


But yeah is crazy. I remember I dated this pawg and her ex was abusive, cheated, gave her a std etc.

We dated but didn't even last long I was young and dumb back then

Well she ended up marrying that dude

Last I saw on FB last time I checked awhile ago single mom with 4 kids for him dude left her for another woman

Chicks will give 100 chances to a future tyoe nukka and waste years of their prime but we need to talk to the good man type breh after 2 months

 

[The ADD]

This is what I can’t wrap my head around. I’m struggling to understand it.

Referencing the girl in my post, everything was VERY smooth for 4 months. Hell she wanted me to meet her family which I did during the Christmas holidays. Hell even brought me a bunch of stuff for Christmas. Brought my son a video game for Christmas. Last weekend she said “she is struggling mentally and can’t give me what I deserve due to past trauma. That she loves and cares about me but not all in like she wants to be” when the weekend before that we spent all weekend together and Monday night. Very strange.

So it’s like ok so you can commit and stay with the men who abused you mentally and maybe physically but you finally get a stable situation and you bolt. It’s wild man. I’m just taking it day by day smh.

Did you a favor

 

[Ohene]

Yup

Date the azzhole, the abuser, the cheater, being a side chick for years giving chance after chance, but the good stable guy after a few months or week poof.

Let em rot !!!



What I can say to anyone is just live your life. I won't say I gave up on love but I wasn't expecting anything and just doing me and then I met my wife and got married at 39. Turning 40 this year and expecting my first child in June.

You never know what's around the corner but yeah it's like the avengers when dr strange is that 1 possibility to ironman that's how it is out here.

Most of these chicks are time wasters, damaged, or just want to play around.

Before I met wife I went out with this chick like six times, but I was always the one messaging or calling setting up a date was like a job interview . Then on vacation I met my wife and I just knew it that she was special, like a scout seeing a young Bron you just knew yeah this is it. Didn't have to run through hoops, didn't have to do this or that.

Even my last relationship before my wife @Ohene knows that girl chick got mad because my mom was unwell at that time and I couldn't spend as much time with her like she wanted so it ended.


Now with my wife my dad came to Uganda and rh day before our wedding he was really unwell, my wife went to the hospital with us and spent the whole day there even though there were major preps for our wedding .

Congrats on the upcoming child

 

[Ohene]

This is what I can’t wrap my head around. I’m struggling to understand it.

Referencing the girl in my post, everything was VERY smooth for 4 months. Hell she wanted me to meet her family which I did during the Christmas holidays. Hell even brought me a bunch of stuff for Christmas. Brought my son a video game for Christmas. Last weekend she said “she is struggling mentally and can’t give me what I deserve due to past trauma. That she loves and cares about me but not all in like she wants to be” when the weekend before that we spent all weekend together and Monday night. Very strange.

So it’s like ok so you can commit and stay with the men who abused you mentally and maybe physically but you finally get a stable situation and you bolt. It’s wild man. I’m just taking it day by day smh.

That’s what happens when somebody has a low sense of self worth and has normalized all the fukkery in their lives - they self sabotage anything good that happens to them

Like homie said she did you a favor

 

[The ADD]

Yup

Date the azzhole, the abuser, the cheater, being a side chick for years giving chance after chance, but the good stable guy after a few months or week poof.

Let em rot !!!



What I can say to anyone is just live your life. I won't say I gave up on love but I wasn't expecting anything and just doing me and then I met my wife and got married at 39. Turning 40 this year and expecting my first child in June.

You never know what's around the corner but yeah it's like the avengers when dr strange is that 1 possibility to ironman that's how it is out here.

Most of these chicks are time wasters, damaged, or just want to play around.

Before I met wife I went out with this chick like six times, but I was always the one messaging or calling setting up a date was like a job interview . Then on vacation I met my wife and I just knew it that she was special, like a scout seeing a young Bron you just knew yeah this is it. Didn't have to run through hoops, didn't have to do this or that.

Even my last relationship before my wife @Ohene knows that girl chick got mad because my mom was unwell at that time and I couldn't spend as much time with her like she wanted so it ended.


Now with my wife my dad came to Uganda and rh day before our wedding he was really unwell, my wife went to the hospital with us and spent the whole day there even though there were major preps for our wedding .

Mini-Scarf

Mans married and about to be a father

Did not see this coming

 

[MikelArteta]

Mini-Scarf

Mans married and about to be a father

Did not see this coming

God is good

Mini scarfette

 

[The ADD]

God is good

Mini scarfette

 

[Shadow King]

God is good

Mini scarfette

I accept your station as GMB General of the Army

 

[Redwood]

Yup

Date the azzhole, the abuser, the cheater, being a side chick for years giving chance after chance, but the good stable guy after a few months or week poof.

Let em rot !!!



What I can say to anyone is just live your life. I won't say I gave up on love but I wasn't expecting anything and just doing me and then I met my wife and got married at 39. Turning 40 this year and expecting my first child in June.

You never know what's around the corner but yeah it's like the avengers when dr strange is that 1 possibility to ironman that's how it is out here.

Most of these chicks are time wasters, damaged, or just want to play around.

Before I met wife I went out with this chick like six times, but I was always the one messaging or calling setting up a date was like a job interview . Then on vacation I met my wife and I just knew it that she was special, like a scout seeing a young Bron you just knew yeah this is it. Didn't have to run through hoops, didn't have to do this or that.

Even my last relationship before my wife @Ohene knows that girl chick got mad because my mom was unwell at that time and I couldn't spend as much time with her like she wanted so it ended.


Now with my wife my dad came to Uganda and rh day before our wedding he was really unwell, my wife went to the hospital with us and spent the whole day there even though there were major preps for our wedding .

Congrats on the new kid coming breh

 

[MikelArteta]

Congrats on the new kid coming breh

Thnx boss

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

When they just send laughing emoji back makes me not even want to text back even after we went out once. Just seems low effort or am I tripping? What am I suppose to say back to some laughing emojis? I could do a second date if I wanted not sure I do.