Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mike809]

bytch trying have me compete with her bytch.

 

[Ohene]

Right, I am pretty much 40. I just turned 39. These are mostly people I have known for years. And they are mostly my age. I know a few 24 year olds, but did not include them. I understand social norms, but I am also, at the forefront of watching them shift under my feet.

This is why the "data" is so confusing/all over the place, because one of the women who answers more than anyone is 30. Another who didn't answer is 51! That's the outlier, because we just met.

Now, people text to ASK if they can call. How many gate keepers/qualifiers are needed to just talk? I do get why a lot prefer text as far as online dating or even meeting in person, is one of women I met recently was kinda sexy on text, and when we talked on the phone, a lot of that was lost. She was so all over the place, kinda dumb, chaotic, unsure of herself.

yup. i have literally asked a chick if she down to facetime/chat twice in the last month
i feel like a herb doing it but one has to adapt lol

ppl spend a lot of time online these days. we at a point where some young women will look at you like youre a lunatic/leper just for approaching them on the street. as a result a lot of people lack social skills that were once considered basic and often misinterpret genuine interest/proactiveness as being a creep or thirsty

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

We went on our date to a bar last night. I honestly had a great time. We were there talking and laughing damn near 4 hours. We have another date set up for next week.

Only thing is I couldn’t get a good grasp on what her body looked like. She looked a little bigger than her pics but she was wearing baggy clothes so idk.

find out fast what the body looks like...

you dont wanna start really liking this chick and find out you not physically attracted to her....

i have tried to give women a shot that im not that attracted to.....eventually i had to cut it off....i have to by physically into it

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

yup. i have literally asked a chick if she down to facetime/chat twice in the last month
i feel like a herb doing it but one has to adapt lol

ppl spend a lot of time online these days. we at a point where some young women will look at you like youre a lunatic/leper just for approaching them on the street. as a result a lot of people lack social skills that were once considered basic and often misinterpret genuine interest/proactiveness as being a creep or thirsty

It’s sounds crazy in 2025..but there was a time when you are driving and see attractive women and just holla at her

And not get called creepy or weird

Or it’s 3am at a food spot outside the club and you meet a women end up walking together to her house if you vibe well

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Right, I am pretty much 40. I just turned 39. These are mostly people I have known for years. And they are mostly my age. I know a few 24 year olds, but did not include them. I understand social norms, but I am also, at the forefront of watching them shift under my feet.

This is why the "data" is so confusing/all over the place, because one of the women who answers more than anyone is 30. Another who didn't answer is 51! That's the outlier, because we just met.

Now, people text to ASK if they can call. How many gate keepers/qualifiers are needed to just talk? I do get why a lot prefer text as far as online dating or even meeting in person, one of women I met recently was kinda sexy on text, and when we talked on the phone, a lot of that was lost. She was so all over the place, kinda dumb, chaotic, unsure of herself.

I wonder if folks still have phone sex lol

 

[skyrunner1]

I wonder if folks still have phone sex lol

They just send videos or probably facetime now