Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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yup. i have literally asked a chick if she down to facetime/chat twice in the last month
i feel like a herb doing it but one has to adapt lol
ppl spend a lot of time online these days. we at a point where some young women will look at you like youre a lunatic/leper just for approaching them on the street. as a result a lot of people lack social skills that were once considered basic and often misinterpret genuine interest/proactiveness as being a creep or thirsty
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
find out fast what the body looks like...We went on our date to a bar last night. I honestly had a great time. We were there talking and laughing damn near 4 hours. We have another date set up for next week.
Only thing is I couldn’t get a good grasp on what her body looked like. She looked a little bigger than her pics but she was wearing baggy clothes so idk.
you dont wanna start really liking this chick and find out you not physically attracted to her....
i have tried to give women a shot that im not that attracted to.....eventually i had to cut it off....i have to by physically into it
It’s sounds crazy in 2025..but there was a time when you are driving and see attractive women and just holla at her
And not get called creepy or weird
Or it’s 3am at a food spot outside the club and you meet a women end up walking together to her house if you vibe well
I wonder if folks still have phone sex lol
skyrunner1
Superstar
They just send videos or probably facetime now
We went on our date to a bar last night. I honestly had a great time. We were there talking and laughing damn near 4 hours. We have another date set up for next week.
Only thing is I couldn’t get a good grasp on what her body looked like. She looked a little bigger than her pics but she was wearing baggy clothes so idk.
Very happy for you and I hope it works out.
Only criticism I would express (and I hope it's constructive) is that four hours is a long time for a date.
Keep it short, keep her wanting more, and silently communicate to her how valuable your time is.
I read a word yesterday that I didn't know, asynchronous, which means not happening at the same time. As in most communication now is like that.
On that subject, texts are hot, but hearing someone's actual voice is much hotter.
If I can't get a girl on the phone or FT then it's on to the next for me. If you can't talk on the phone then how you going to talk in person lol.
Also, I don't ask to call or FT. I'll send a few texts and say call me when you get home or I'll call you when I'm off of work. I've always used it as way to filter out who's really with it to be honest.
Also, I don't ask to call or FT. I'll send a few texts and say call me when you get home or I'll call you when I'm off of work. I've always used it as way to filter out who's really with it to be honest.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
lol asynchronous classes during COVID were amazing. No lectures — simply have all assignments due the next Sunday
ya'll definitely some older dudes lol. the way I see it,
it's women who simply dont like talking on the phone
it's women who prefer talking on the phone rather than texting
it's women who dont like either and are still great in person
I personally dont really care...I am okay with any mode of communication and often dont wanna talk on the phone because it limits my ability to do other stuff (e.g., work, eat, cook, walk outside, exercise, watch tv, text other ppl etc.) Even when dudes call me, if we aint talking about something important, a lot of the time I just wanna get off the phone and do some other, more productive shyt. Talking on the phone requires too much of my undivided attention
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Yep, I send a chick a voice message and its usually a wrap.
It's a good stand in for a full blown phone convo.
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JealousOnesEn_V
HTX Certified
Met one of my cousin’s friends (baddie) at a kick back a couple months back and we’ve always vibed since we met but I've never pressed the issue. Fast forward to this past Saturday and a few of the cousins go out. My cousin invites her friend and she pulls up late after she gets off work. We immediately start vibing. Good convo, laughing, asking the right questions and we end up getting cozy at the strip club later that night.
I end up getting her number when we were all leaving and she texts me that she made it home and it was really good seeing me again. I tell her the same and we need to run it back soon. I end up texting her again today asking how her week has been going so far and she let me know today has been super busy for her with work. She also asks how I've been doing and if I made it back to Austin since I was back home in Houston. I let her know I ended up staying in Houston for few more days and I let her know the reason. I was expecting her to respond back so I can parlay that into asking her out dolo but she doesn't respond back (or hasn’t as of yet).
What yall boys think? Should I cut my losses or just see how it plays out. I’m not really with games but maybe I’m overreacting lol.
I end up getting her number when we were all leaving and she texts me that she made it home and it was really good seeing me again. I tell her the same and we need to run it back soon. I end up texting her again today asking how her week has been going so far and she let me know today has been super busy for her with work. She also asks how I've been doing and if I made it back to Austin since I was back home in Houston. I let her know I ended up staying in Houston for few more days and I let her know the reason. I was expecting her to respond back so I can parlay that into asking her out dolo but she doesn't respond back (or hasn’t as of yet).
What yall boys think? Should I cut my losses or just see how it plays out. I’m not really with games but maybe I’m overreacting lol.