Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[phcitywarrior]

I let her know I ended up staying in Houston for few more days and I let her know the reason. I was expecting her to respond back so I can parlay that into asking her out dolo but she doesn't respond back (or hasn’t as of yet).

Should have just asked her to link in one fell swoop, especially if you feel the vibe was good. The worst thing is she says no, but so what, you're still living your life. No need to overthink it.

 

[JealousOnesEn_V]

Should have just asked her to link in one fell swoop, especially if you feel the vibe was good. The worst thing is she says no, but so what, you're still living your life. No need to overthink it.

Yeah I thought about that but figured the vibe was so good that it didn’t even matter. Everybody that was out that night kept pointing it out to me too. Oh well you’re right bro no need to overthink.

 

[re'up]

Met one of my cousin’s friends (baddie) at a kick back a couple months back and we’ve always vibed since we met but I've never pressed the issue. Fast forward to this past Saturday and a few of the cousins go out. My cousin invites her friend and she pulls up late after she gets off work. We immediately start vibing. Good convo, laughing, asking the right questions and we end up getting cozy at the strip club later that night.

I end up getting her number when we were all leaving and she texts me that she made it home and it was really good seeing me again. I tell her the same and we need to run it back soon. I end up texting her again today asking how her week has been going so far and she let me know today has been super busy for her with work. She also asks how I've been doing and if I made it back to Austin since I was back home in Houston. I let her know I ended up staying in Houston for few more days and I let her know the reason. I was expecting her to respond back so I can parlay that into asking her out dolo but she doesn't respond back (or hasn’t as of yet).

What yall boys think? Should I cut my losses or just see how it plays out. I’m not really with games but maybe I’m overreacting lol.

Just hit her direct with an invite... Just ask for what you both want. I understand the formalities of small talk, but it's really just about reassurance. Just put yourself out there and take the hit, if she ghosts or whatever.

You know her, and I don't, but if it was me, I'd pick the most expensive hotel in Houston and invite her to the bar, and leave the option if you want to eat. Expensive hotels always have a dope, exclusive lounge area with some solid (cheaper) enough food options, and a high end restaurant, if that can be worked in. Say I want to check this spot out. Come with me.

St Regis Houston. Done. edit: 4 Seasons looks better.

 

[DJSmooth]

Met one of my cousin’s friends (baddie) at a kick back a couple months back and we’ve always vibed since we met but I've never pressed the issue. Fast forward to this past Saturday and a few of the cousins go out. My cousin invites her friend and she pulls up late after she gets off work. We immediately start vibing. Good convo, laughing, asking the right questions and we end up getting cozy at the strip club later that night.

I end up getting her number when we were all leaving and she texts me that she made it home and it was really good seeing me again. I tell her the same and we need to run it back soon. I end up texting her again today asking how her week has been going so far and she let me know today has been super busy for her with work. She also asks how I've been doing and if I made it back to Austin since I was back home in Houston. I let her know I ended up staying in Houston for few more days and I let her know the reason. I was expecting her to respond back so I can parlay that into asking her out dolo but she doesn't respond back (or hasn’t as of yet).

What yall boys think? Should I cut my losses or just see how it plays out. I’m not really with games but maybe I’m overreacting lol.

You beating around the bush. Ask her out directly.