Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Since we sharing stories I got one. Had a doctor appt yesterday and on my way home I met a chick yesterday at 9AM and was at her place by 7PM. Nigerian shorty with some nice big titties

I asked her if she was down to do drinks this weekend or even that night since I was free. She said we can do the weekend cause shes doing some cooking but asked if I was down to come through instead. Shorty came down to her lobby in a dress with the cleavage out...knew what time it was. But it turned out she was on her reds. Managed to get the mouth though and we going out this wknd.

Moral of the story: as many men have said in here, when you meet a chick don't waste time. If she giving you the run around just move on to the next one. Text her for one-two days max and try to set up a rendezvous. If she balks...forget about it. Cut through all the cat and mouse bullshyt
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Since we sharing stories I got one. Had a doctor appt yesterday and on my way home I met a chick yesterday at 9AM and was at her place by 7PM. Nigerian shorty with some nice big titties

I asked her if she was down to do drinks this weekend or even that night since I was free. She said we can do the weekend cause shes doing some cooking but asked if I was down to come through instead. Shorty came down to her lobby in a dress with the cleavage out...knew what time it was. But it turned out she was on her reds. Managed to get the mouth though and we going out this wknd.

Moral of the story: as many men have said in here, when you meet a chick don't waste time. If she giving you the run around just move on to the next one. Text her for one-two days max and try to set up a rendezvous. If she balks...forget about it. Cut through all the cat and mouse bullshyt
I agree I met my wife online talked briefly but couldn’t get a setup to meet cuz she was a single mom work or whatever so I was like fukk this on to the next one so I stopped talking to her for like a month more or less if did talk to very rarely can’t remember but anyways i went on dates with other females :russ:
Month later get a message outta blue bout what I’m doing and down to meet up for a movie
I was like sure met up with her date went well except the damn movie she picked i dont know why she picked the movie precious :dahell: :snoop:
Anyways from there been together 15 years
Oh I hit it within less of week
So like you said and others say not feeling u on to the next one
Rare occasion it can be revisited and turn into something or nothing or fukk buddy or hit and quit etc….
 

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Double texting isn't a real thing. That's some made up shyt. You are starting a new conversation. Texting the same shyt over again is double texting, like she didn't get it.

That's super rigid, social media shyt. Like if I don't get a goodnight, or a thumbs up or whatever, we are done. Who gives a fukk? Not saying make a fool of yourself in someone's IMessage, but to act like this is some national stage of embarrassment to send a text is wild, how we have all been conditioned to feel like that.
 

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Double texting isn't a real thing. That's some made up shyt. You are starting a new conversation. Texting the same shyt over again is double texting, like she didn't get it.

That's super rigid, social media shyt. Like if I don't get a goodnight, or a thumbs up or whatever, we are done. Who gives a fukk? Not saying make a fool of yourself in someone's IMessage, but to act like this is some national stage of embarrassment to send a text is wild, how we have all been conditioned to feel like that.
I agree with you which is why i do it anyways. But still, nowadays it’s considered weird unattractive behavior

I didn’t more double texting was a thing until the coli mentioned it. Even starting a new conversation though, more often than not it gets ignored or the woman looks at you like you’re thirsty. Women are weirdos…it is what it is
 

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I agree with you which is why i do it anyways. But still, nowadays it’s considered weird unattractive behavior

I didn’t more double texting was a thing until the coli mentioned it. Even starting a new conversation though, more often than not it gets ignored or the woman looks at you like you’re thirsty. Women are weirdos…it is what it is

Someone you already met in person, and had a connection with, it's worth the 'risk', which is nothing. Looking dumb on someone's IMessage, how much value should that really have? Once you make a good faith invite, you are free to move on.

but that hyper micro focused tit for tat, it's all about ego and image. And you should carry yourself with respect, but conforming to what others, bizarre standards of that are, is not that.

and also, I say this a lot but have you SEEN some people's push notifications? The ones I see are like an anxiety attack to me. There's dozens and dozens and dozens. I've seen women with like 87 + messages/DM's, whatever they are, shyt I don't even know. In less than hour. No one could keep up with all that.
 

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Double texting isn't a real thing. That's some made up shyt. You are starting a new conversation. Texting the same shyt over again is double texting, like she didn't get it.

That's super rigid, social media shyt. Like if I don't get a goodnight, or a thumbs up or whatever, we are done. Who gives a fukk? Not saying make a fool of yourself in someone's IMessage, but to act like this is some national stage of embarrassment to send a text is wild, how we have all been conditioned to feel like that.
Not double texting but same rules apply if she like you it don’t matter

 

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and also, I say this a lot but have you SEEN some people's push notifications? The ones I see are like an anxiety attack to me. There's dozens and dozens and dozens. I've seen women with like 87 + messages/DM's, whatever they are, shyt I don't even know. In less than hour. No one could keep up with all that.
yea i've seen that shyt. self inflicted in my opinion...plus some of it due to group chats

if i see a message, i open it and respond to it. I dont let it build up. My unread msgs are never going past double digits
 

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Not double texting but same rules apply if she like you it don’t matter


pretty much

but point blank... if a girl is that dumb and immature I'm good on her anyways lol. Gimme the girl who is keen and shows interest > the one who gets weirded out by a man showing interest and then wonders why she is still single. Cause at the end of the day if she is interested and aligned with you then itll pop. If you have to act like somebody else in order to keep her interest, itll just fizzle out anyways in the long run.

saddest part is that is its an unattractive women spewing this rhetoric
 

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I'm in Uganda again and you brehs are missing out perfect weather every day, nothing but black folks .

Beautiful woman with big booties everywhere..and because they take in the most refugees tons of Eritreans, Ethiopians, Congolese, Sudanese , rwandese vast selection

You'll see a drop dead gorgeous chick with a onlyfans type body and shes just cutting matooke at the side of the road

Pearl of Africa :blessed;

My wife and I are living in a 3bdrm house and paying 250 Canadian a month , we had a guy who came and mopped all of our floors, swept, took out the garbage, did laundry washed the dishes and it cost 20,000 Ugandan shillings which is like 6 Canadian or like 4 usd
 

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I'm in Uganda again and you brehs are missing out perfect weather every day, nothing but black folks .

Beautiful woman with big booties everywhere..and because they take in the most refugees tons of Eritreans, Ethiopians, Congolese, Sudanese , rwandese vast selection

You'll see a drop dead gorgeous chick with a onlyfans type body and shes just cutting matooke at the side of the road

Pearl of Africa :blessed;

My wife and I are living in a 3bdrm house and paying 250 Canadian a month , we had a guy who came and mopped all of our floors, swept, took out the garbage, did laundry washed the dishes and it cost 20,000 Ugandan shillings which is like 6 Canadian or like 4 usd
Bro how long you there
I been looking at Kenya and Tanzania for a vacation soon. Might have to throw Uganda in
 

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Since we sharing stories I got one. Had a doctor appt yesterday and on my way home I met a chick yesterday at 9AM and was at her place by 7PM. Nigerian shorty with some nice big titties

I asked her if she was down to do drinks this weekend or even that night since I was free. She said we can do the weekend cause shes doing some cooking but asked if I was down to come through instead. Shorty came down to her lobby in a dress with the cleavage out...knew what time it was. But it turned out she was on her reds. Managed to get the mouth though and we going out this wknd.

Moral of the story: as many men have said in here, when you meet a chick don't waste time. If she giving you the run around just move on to the next one. Text her for one-two days max and try to set up a rendezvous. If she balks...forget about it. Cut through all the cat and mouse bullshyt
Flaky starts if you wait to long
 

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I'm in Uganda again and you brehs are missing out perfect weather every day, nothing but black folks .

Beautiful woman with big booties everywhere..and because they take in the most refugees tons of Eritreans, Ethiopians, Congolese, Sudanese , rwandese vast selection

You'll see a drop dead gorgeous chick with a onlyfans type body and shes just cutting matooke at the side of the road

Pearl of Africa :blessed;

My wife and I are living in a 3bdrm house and paying 250 Canadian a month , we had a guy who came and mopped all of our floors, swept, took out the garbage, did laundry washed the dishes and it cost 20,000 Ugandan shillings which is like 6 Canadian or like 4 usd

I’m still shocked the amount of attractive normal baddies in Nairobi
It’s like. Whole different world
lol
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Cutting down the traps, I met a girl on Hinge. She got all the signs, so I'm like, ok, let me see if I can wipe my dikk across her face. Her first move is to ask for my Instagram. :dahell: Not a date but my IG. I asked why since we could meet and go from there. She says your IG tells me who you are. I'm like, if you don't get your wooden-headed ass out of here with that bullshyt female logic:why: She says it's that or nothing. I said ok. I sent her my nephews IG link and she came back and said you look different from your profile on IG. :birdman: I said that's not me, that 's my lil nephrew. Go play games with a kid. bytch.:mjlol:
Great respond, breh.
 

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Since we sharing stories I got one. Had a doctor appt yesterday and on my way home I met a chick yesterday at 9AM and was at her place by 7PM. Nigerian shorty with some nice big titties

I asked her if she was down to do drinks this weekend or even that night since I was free. She said we can do the weekend cause shes doing some cooking but asked if I was down to come through instead. Shorty came down to her lobby in a dress with the cleavage out...knew what time it was. But it turned out she was on her reds. Managed to get the mouth though and we going out this wknd.

Moral of the story: as many men have said in here, when you meet a chick don't waste time. If she giving you the run around just move on to the next one. Text her for one-two days max and try to set up a rendezvous. If she balks...forget about it. Cut through all the cat and mouse bullshyt
This. Worst ones are the hoes 45 and up. Like they begging to die with that ol used up p*ssy or something.:scust: bytch, BEGONE!:pacspit:
 

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Double texting isn't a real thing. That's some made up shyt. You are starting a new conversation. Texting the same shyt over again is double texting, like she didn't get it.

That's super rigid, social media shyt. Like if I don't get a goodnight, or a thumbs up or whatever, we are done. Who gives a fukk? Not saying make a fool of yourself in someone's IMessage, but to act like this is some national stage of embarrassment to send a text is wild, how we have all been conditioned to feel like that.
I double text, but when I do, I write that second message cautiously as if I know someone else will be reading it. Then it's ✌️ until I get a response or forget about her.
 
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