Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Read about that in the NY Times, in a very distant, curated piece. That's as close as it would come to me. This isn't a solution but you are spared so much bullshyt simply not being on social media.

and the male field thing.
 

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How have you guys handled the "Are We Dating the Same Guy" hoopla. Have any of you guys been included in that by women??
Don't have a Facebook account to know if I'm even in it, but at the same time, I got more things to worry about than something like that. It's one thing to spread awareness (which is why the group was formed to begin with), it's another for dumb shyt.
 

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Feeling like breaking up with my woman of 3 years was a mistake. She was a good woman, beautiful, intelligent and a good head on her shoulders. Only issue was she worked hard and had a low libido. I also had issues with jealousy and trust to where I would push her away and break up, then she would beg me to work on things and I would be down to do so, rinse and repeat almost every weekend.

With that said I did what you should never do and asked her for another chance down the line but she stated she needs to heal and is focused on self. She didn't say no but said she would keep the line of communication open and keep in touch. Basically if it's meant to be we'll find out way back together after some time apart to heal. Do you think there is a chance of getting back together?

You two ever mend fences?
 

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what yall say to a woman on a dating app in 2024 who says shes a traditional woman who believes the man should be the provider while she takes care of her husband and children?
 

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what yall say to a woman on a dating app in 2024 who says shes a traditional woman who believes the man should be the provider while she takes care of her husband and children?

What’s her age? If she’s older, she’s looking for a landing spot. If she’s younger, go for it. (24 and under).
 

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She’s 32 looks good and in an ideal world I would want that but everything so expensive probably not happening. Should I bush her? She is bad.
 

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She’s 32 looks good and in an ideal world I would want that but everything so expensive probably not happening. Should I bush her? She is bad.

Sounds like she’s ready for hoe retirement / landing spot.

If she looks good & single after 25+ something is wrong. But if you wana use it for recreation. Go ahead.
 

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what yall say to a woman on a dating app in 2024 who says shes a traditional woman who believes the man should be the provider while she takes care of her husband and children?
Ask her if she works now and how she plans to take care of her husband and children. Is she planning on quitting her job if she's working? What kind of life is she living now at 32? Will that change or is she expecting her husband to finance her girl trips and photo ops?

A lot of the bad ones on there are delusional and are looking for a sucker.
 

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Sounds like she’s ready for hoe retirement / landing spot.

If she looks good & single after 25+ something is wrong. But if you wana use it for recreation. Go ahead.
I respect she put that out there but we are like 4 messages in so she seems pretty determined to find a rich man lmao.

Ask her if she works now and how she plans to take care of her husband and children. Is she planning on quitting her job if she's working? What kind of life is she living now at 32? Will that change or is she expecting her husband to finance her girl trips and photo ops?

A lot of the bad ones on there are delusional and are looking for a sucker.
she seems like how you described in bad but delusional. My ex was 30 and her sister was 38 bad and single because she was holding out for the right one and I was already divorced once because he cheated on her.

in an ideal world my wife would stay home and raise the kids but this ain't the 70's where you can raise a family working at sears.
 
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