I believe the one size fit all mentality is what hurting men and preventing them from really finding what works for them.. It leads to people over analyzing everything
You have all of these different YouTubers and podcasters and Gurus telling you
"You have to bring up sex in first conversation"
"Don't compliment her'
"Don't approach her"
"Get your money and muscles up bro"
"If she hits you back, wait 4 days"
"Order this course "
"buy this book "
"Don't try to make her laugh, Stay serious"
There's been instances where I smashed using a lot of humor, smashed at just saying something flattering and built off that.