Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Girl I smashed last night just asked me “are you gona pay for my hair or no”?

:mjlol:

Barely know this girl for 2 days. Best response? (Savage preferably)
:snoop: like the 2 other posters said silence is golden but if you want a response I just say get whatever hair you have on your body shave it off take to the hair salon ask them add it for extensions and make you look nice after that tell me the total amount then cash app me what u paid for wasting my damn time with that stupid ask question after just fukking you barely for 2 days
You be better off starting a gofundme so simps can take care of you
 

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I believe the one size fit all mentality is what hurting men and preventing them from really finding what works for them.. It leads to people over analyzing everything

You have all of these different YouTubers and podcasters and Gurus telling you
"You have to bring up sex in first conversation"
"Don't compliment her'
"Don't approach her"
"Get your money and muscles up bro"
"If she hits you back, wait 4 days"
"Order this course "
"buy this book "
"Don't try to make her laugh, Stay serious"

There's been instances where I smashed using a lot of humor, smashed at just saying something flattering and built off that.
 

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I believe the one size fit all mentality is what hurting men and preventing them from really finding what works for them.. It leads to people over analyzing everything

You have all of these different YouTubers and podcasters and Gurus telling you
"You have to bring up sex in first conversation"
"Don't compliment her'
"Don't approach her"
"Get your money and muscles up bro"
"If she hits you back, wait 4 days"
"Order this course "
"buy this book "
"Don't try to make her laugh, Stay serious"

There's been instances where I smashed using a lot of humor, smashed at just saying something flattering and built off that.
I agree
For instance a lot of dudes say don’t text a girl unless you setting up dates

That shyt not going to work for every girl
Some girls going to wanna interact with you
 
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I agree
For instance a lot of dudes at don’t text a girl unless you setting up dates

That shyt not going to work for every girl
Some girls going to wanna interact with you
Especially if you approached them on a dating tip…..
 

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In fact one girl i smashed earlier in the year ended things with me fit that very reason, because it gave her the impression i wasn’t really interested lol

To a degree she was right. I was interested but only in fckn/kicking it
:mjlol::lolbron:

Which bruhs have to navigate themselves. I’ll hardly tell a bruh they need to be in a relationship.

At the same time a lot of women are going to wonder what the deal is when you press to take them out but don’t want to communicate otherwise. Gotta find the right balance.
 

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:snoop: like the 2 other posters said silence is golden but if you want a response I just say get whatever hair you have on your body shave it off take to the hair salon ask them add it for extensions and make you look nice after that tell me the total amount then cash app me what u paid for wasting my damn time with that stupid ask question after just fukking you barely for 2 days
You be better off starting a gofundme so simps can take care of you

:dahell:
 

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:mjlol::lolbron:

Which bruhs have to navigate themselves. I’ll hardly tell a bruh they need to be in a relationship.

At the same time a lot of women are going to wonder what the deal is when you press to take them out but don’t want to communicate otherwise. Gotta find the right balance.

Also lot of chicks (people in general) are weird/crazy as hell. I'm not in a rush to waste time out my day with a weirdo. I think getting a good steady 1-2 convos to identify Convo style and any super red flags is sufficient but just spamming broads with date request is someone who doesn't value their time
 

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Also lot of chicks (people in general) are weird/crazy as hell. I'm not in a rush to waste time out my day with a weirdo. I think getting a good steady 1-2 convos to identify Convo style and any super red flags is sufficient but just spamming broads with date request is someone who doesn't value their time
^^^ 100% agreed
 

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I believe the one size fit all mentality is what hurting men and preventing them from really finding what works for them.. It leads to people over analyzing everything

You have all of these different YouTubers and podcasters and Gurus telling you
"You have to bring up sex in first conversation"
"Don't compliment her'
"Don't approach her"
"Get your money and muscles up bro"
"If she hits you back, wait 4 days"
"Order this course "
"buy this book "
"Don't try to make her laugh, Stay serious"

There's been instances where I smashed using a lot of humor, smashed at just saying something flattering and built off that.

For both men and women, this kind of content is not only contradictory, but will lead to decision paralysis, and probably explains some of people's anxiety and flakiness, to a degree. It's a fascinating generational trend, for example in 2004, or even 2009, if you liked someone, you maybe asked your immediate social circle, and family?

I never did that, but people probably did. Now, you run them through some insane criteria, PLUS how they compare to 1000 other people on social media.

There are some legit things to learn, like body language cues, and the kind of delicate social cues of men and women, coffee after a date, inviting someone to your house for a drink, or lets watch a movie. All bullshyt, but if you don't know those cues, you will miss a lot. BUT, a lot of the content, lessons, guidance people consume now is madness. It's like the advice from bullshyt self help books.
 
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How have you guys handled the "Are We Dating the Same Guy" hoopla. Have any of you guys been included in that by women??
 
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