Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I probably shouldn’t say we still talk. We text every now and then. Like if I text her she’ll respond and she’ll text me. It’s never about much though.

I did ask her some time ago if she’d be down to get lunch and she said she’s open to it. I’m at a stage where I’m trying to work on myself, financially, health and other areas to self improve and I that’s what’s holding me back. I’m usually a go getter when it comes to women but I want my attempt to mend things to show an improved version of me.

To clarify, that was about the other texting shyt and not your scenario lol

for your scenario, don't waste time with texting or 'talking', just set something up when you are ready, if that's what you want, but be sure about that before you make that move. You don't want to be face to face with this person and she's like so what is this? what are we doing? and you start dissembling.

what I said about good faith applies here probably, I think some humbling of the self and ego, graciousness, is always important though, esp, with someone who you have this depth of relationships and shyt.
 

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To clarify, that was about the other texting shyt and not your scenario lol

for your scenario, don't waste time with texting or 'talking', just set something up when you are ready, if that's what you want, but be sure about that before you make that move. You don't want to be face to face with this person and she's like so what is this? what are we doing? and you start dissembling.

what I said about good faith applies here probably, I think some humbling of the self and ego, graciousness, is always important though, esp, with someone who you have this depth of relationships and shyt.
Oh my bad lol

I've had a long time to dwell on if I wanted to rekindle things. It's definitely what I want. From the time we broke up to now, I've learned a lot about myself and changed in many ways. Identified my flaws and the ways in which I need to improve. In and out of the relationship. I just want to make sure the growth can be seen when we do meet up.
 
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