Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

I probably shouldn’t say we still talk. We text every now and then. Like if I text her she’ll respond and she’ll text me. It’s never about much though.

I did ask her some time ago if she’d be down to get lunch and she said she’s open to it. I’m at a stage where I’m trying to work on myself, financially, health and other areas to self improve and I that’s what’s holding me back. I’m usually a go getter when it comes to women but I want my attempt to mend things to show an improved version of me.

To clarify, that was about the other texting shyt and not your scenario lol

for your scenario, don't waste time with texting or 'talking', just set something up when you are ready, if that's what you want, but be sure about that before you make that move. You don't want to be face to face with this person and she's like so what is this? what are we doing? and you start dissembling.

what I said about good faith applies here probably, I think some humbling of the self and ego, graciousness, is always important though, esp, with someone who you have this depth of relationships and shyt.

 

[tay1]

To clarify, that was about the other texting shyt and not your scenario lol

for your scenario, don't waste time with texting or 'talking', just set something up when you are ready, if that's what you want, but be sure about that before you make that move. You don't want to be face to face with this person and she's like so what is this? what are we doing? and you start dissembling.

what I said about good faith applies here probably, I think some humbling of the self and ego, graciousness, is always important though, esp, with someone who you have this depth of relationships and shyt.

Oh my bad lol

I've had a long time to dwell on if I wanted to rekindle things. It's definitely what I want. From the time we broke up to now, I've learned a lot about myself and changed in many ways. Identified my flaws and the ways in which I need to improve. In and out of the relationship. I just want to make sure the growth can be seen when we do meet up.

 

[AStrangeName]

Just matched this girl and she tells me she’s pretty active on Twitter. I haven’t gotten her Twitter yet but if she’s active on Twitter probably a red flag. I’ll keep you updated lol

Wait, she's still on Twitter?

 

[The ADD]

Oh my bad lol

I've had a long time to dwell on if I wanted to rekindle things. It's definitely what I want. From the time we broke up to now, I've learned a lot about myself and changed in many ways. Identified my flaws and the ways in which I need to improve. In and out of the relationship. I just want to make sure the growth can be seen when we do meet up.

Just be prepared for her not to want a rekindle.

 

[CrossBones]

Oh my bad lol

I've had a long time to dwell on if I wanted to rekindle things. It's definitely what I want. From the time we broke up to now, I've learned a lot about myself and changed in many ways. Identified my flaws and the ways in which I need to improve. In and out of the relationship. I just want to make sure the growth can be seen when we do meet up.

nah you're too thirsty. women smell that a mile away. you want her more than she wants you and that never works out... even if she gives you a chance. you're gonna have to show off your new glow to other bytches and come back around to her, they smell it when you're around other women and she isn't a priority. if she wants to get in line behind those other bytches then you're a1 you can give her another shot. you're viewing this backwards trying to chase her when you need to improve to a level where she clearly wants to chase you and you're okay with it either way.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

thats kind of a good thing means she likes me but bytches are fickle and with dating apps who knows whats up. I'm just gonna keep texting once or twice a day try again on Sunday.

What caught my eye was “she wants to get ot know me more and make sure the first date isn't the last date”

Maybe I still have growing to do, but anytime a woman insinuates us not going further or being hesitant.. then there’s no rhyme or reason for me to continue.

especially if it’s strictly through text. I can understand multiple dates to feel you out and build something slowly, but using iMessage and emojis as a deciding factor to simply get lunch?

 

[The ADD]

What caught my eye was “she wants to get ot know me more and make sure the first date isn't the last date”

Maybe I still have growing to do, but anytime a woman insinuates us not going further or being hesitant.. then there’s no rhyme or reason for me to continue.

especially if it’s strictly through text. I can understand multiple dates to feel you out and build something slowly, but using iMessage and emojis as a deciding factor to simply get lunch?

Agreed. Not sure what the OP suggested for a meeting but that’s why I always pushed for something simple, coffee, drinks etc.

Makes it hard to find a reason to slow play meeting when the time investment is low and it’s positioned as a vibe check…..

 

[WIA20XX]

Maybe I still have growing to do, but anytime a woman insinuates us not going further or being hesitant.. then there’s no rhyme or reason for me to continue.

Chicks like this? They are looking for a boyfriend from the get-go, not letting it develop naturally.

Focused on creating a perfect relationship, instead of personalities actually complimenting each other.

 

[re'up]

Dating app/app culture has convinced people you can apply certain metrics and certain standards, and input some info, and get what you want.

On some level, it kinda works, but also leaves out the messiness and complexities of humans interaction.

 

[Abraxus]

I met a fine 28-year-old girl on BLK (lots of broke delusional mfs on there), and she said do you like steak and seafood? I said hell yeah, who don't? Why? She said she knew a nice place in Atlanta, and I said, what's up? She said well, you could take me there on a date. I said nah, lets have lunch at O'Charleys. She said no, I don't go there. I said ok. Where is this place you are talking about? She gives me the address. Says let meet for lunch on Thursday. I said ok, what time? She gives me the time. Day comes and she calls. Are you on your way? I say yep, I just ate at O'Charleys but I'm down to meet you at the joint. She said so you not buying me lunch here? I said I agreed to meet you for lunch. Not BUY your ass lunch. I told you where we could meet for lunch.

She called ya boy every fukking name in the book. I said aye, I don't know you well enough to buy you steak and seafood on a first date. She said I'm reporting your ass to the app people lol I said I don't give a fukk! take a picture, write it down bytch!

 

[The ADD]

I met a fine 28-year-old girl on BLK (lots of broke delusional mfs on there), and she said do you like steak and seafood? I said hell yeah, who don't? Why? She said she knew a nice place in Atlanta, and I said, what's up? She said well, you could take me there on a date. I said nah, lets have lunch at O'Charleys. She said no, I don't go there. I said ok. Where is this place you are talking about? She gives me the address. Says let meet for lunch on Thursday. I said ok, what time? She gives me the time. Day comes and she calls. Are you on your way? I say yep, I just ate at O'Charleys but I'm down to meet you at the joint. She said so you not buying me lunch here? I said I agreed to meet you for lunch. Not BUY your ass lunch. I told you where we could meet for lunch.

She called ya boy every fukking name in the book. I said aye, I don't know you well enough to buy you steak and seafood on a first date. She said I'm reporting your ass to the app people lol I said I don't give a fukk! take a picture, write it down bytch!

Hit her with the O’ Charley’s option

 

[Abraxus]

The flaking is the worst
Getting flaked on by mid looking women

3 hoes flaked on me within a 3 month span. I said ok. Mf 0-3 Ex called me up and said she got a hotel to talk. I said ok. Wsup? She said come to the hotel. You know the rule. Anybody can come back but if they do, you gonna have to suck a whoooooooooooooole lotta dikk!

Other bytches called and sent thrist traps for two weeks. I ignored everything and everyone. Mind games bytches. No validation, no acknowledgment no nothing. Cold as a motherfukking winter storm.

I'll hit them hoes up in the New year. bytch, don't play with me!

 

[Abraxus]

She cut herself off

I never responded to any of her messages and she went to my class to ask me in person

Y'all ever just get bored of a chick after she been bullshytting for too long?

This shyt just happened with a few chicks this years. I’m like bytch fukk all of yall.

They be calling that shyt go to voicemail.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I saw a thread about 10's being "unattainable"
these chicks going with any goofy dude who gives them some attention or buys them a drink

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I saw a thread about 10's being "unattainable"
these chicks going with any goofy dude who gives them some attention or buys them a drink

Women be so confident online
And then u meet them in real life
They timid low self esteem and social anxiety