Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That's all social media rewiring of the brain. You can't even be mad at someone, because how would they know better?

That profile says nothing about her, but everything about our current social media led world. I have a girl friend who talks exactly like that. She's not even THAT dumb. "Divine feminine energy" "I value efficiency" "Not wasting time". "intentional", ESQ"

She thinks these are her actual opinions, but they really are more algorithmic. It really is a brain washing/ re wiring of sorts. Those are words and concepts that are sold by influencers, seeking clicks and engagement, and brand building, which are then shot out to millions of people, and then re distributed, like a pyramid scheme, essentially. You can see a myraid of social trends and fads, in those things.

Like girlboss/ hustle culture of the early 2010's. That shyt is scary. I am reading the newest book about Facebook now. It really should have been tightly regulated right from the start. Social media basically scorched the earth of society and there wasn't even a fight.
 
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That's all social media rewiring of the brain. You can't even be mad at someone, because how would they know better?

That profile says nothing about her, but everything about our current social media led world. I have a girl friend who talks exactly like that. She's not even dumb. "Divine feminine energy" "I value efficiency" "Not wasting time". "intentional", ESQ"

She thinks these are her actual opinions, but they really are more algorithmic. It really is a brain washing/ re wiring of sorts. Those are words and concepts that are sold by influencers, seeking clicks and engagement, and brand building, which are then shot out to millions of people, and then re distributed, like a pyramid scheme, essentially. You can see a myraid of social trends and fads, in those things. Like girlboss/ hustle culture of the early 2010's.

Yup. A woman might say she’s all about “divine feminine energy” and “intentional relationships,” but if those ideas are just absorbed from social media rather than truly lived, it creates a disconnect. She might think she’s filtering for high-value men, but in reality, she’s just cycling through trendy buzzwords that don’t necessarily translate into meaningful actions.

Who’s to really say coffee / drinks are wasting time? And a high value man wouldn’t consider this as a first meet up option?
 

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Yup. A woman might say she’s all about “divine feminine energy” and “intentional relationships,” but if those ideas are just absorbed from social media rather than truly lived, it creates a disconnect. She might think she’s filtering for high-value men, but in reality, she’s just cycling through trendy buzzwords that don’t necessarily translate into meaningful actions.

Who’s to really say coffee / drinks are wasting time? And a high value man wouldn’t consider this as a first meet up option?

How would she feel about a walk in the park? :mjgrin:
 

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I think a lot about how much more rewarding in person is, and how weird it feels to even say that? And how sickened I would be if I looked at dating profiles all day. You know the thing with dating profiles is the people writing them are so conscious that they are on display, and therefore are highly incentivized to create some insane version of themselves. Instead of just a person. I like coffee. I like kissing. I like counting money. I like 90's R&B. THAT tells you something about me.

I have the most romantic meet ups, just living my life. Yesterday, it was pouring rain, and I ran into TWO separate women, I like, one during the pouring rain, while she was smoking on her break, and we talked, as the rain was soaking us for like 30 minutes, like running over us. It was like that shyt right out of a movie. Another called me in the dark, walking in the street, like under the street lights.
 

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That's all social media rewiring of the brain. You can't even be mad at someone, because how would they know better?

That profile says nothing about her, but everything about our current social media led world. I have a girl friend who talks exactly like that. She's not even THAT dumb. "Divine feminine energy" "I value efficiency" "Not wasting time". "intentional", ESQ"

She thinks these are her actual opinions, but they really are more algorithmic. It really is a brain washing/ re wiring of sorts. Those are words and concepts that are sold by influencers, seeking clicks and engagement, and brand building, which are then shot out to millions of people, and then re distributed, like a pyramid scheme, essentially. You can see a myraid of social trends and fads, in those things.

Like girlboss/ hustle culture of the early 2010's. That shyt is scary. I am reading the newest book about Facebook now. It really should have been tightly regulated right from the start. Social media basically scorched the earth of society and there wasn't even a fight.
breh i just ordered that facebook book. i heard that facebook tryna get it taken off shelves so i said fukk it ima order it :russ:

was my first hearing about it
 

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You know the thing with dating profiles is the people writing them are so conscious that they are on display, and therefore are highly incentivized to create some insane version of themselves.
breh...a friend of mine literally told me when I made a hinge not to smile in more than one picture.

like damn...is it that serious? it reminded me how dumb the shyt was and why outside of travelling i dont use these wack apps in the first place
 
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