Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This could be me twisting myself into some kind of double bind, but lately, with almost everyone, even my own sister, as a rule, instead of sending some text and getting some response, I just call, leave a 5 second message or whatever.

What's interesting is, even if I don't get a call back, I feel better than if I had got even a 'good' response. It takes effort though, because the disparity is pretty high. Let's say, 3 women, I can get a text response from within 20 minutes, but that number goes to maybe 1/3 if it's a call. Maybe 0/3. The rate at which I call anyone is low, so that covers that variable.

These are people I have known for longer periods of time, but increasingly just a blanket rule. Read something academic about texts that pushed me on : The norm used to be have a feeling make a call, and now it's want a feeling, send a text.
 

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What's your plan?
In all honesty she hit me up in the middle of the night so when I woke up it was already like 5 hours late. Other one hit me on Tik tok trying to feel me out, I just smashed something a couple weeks back and this might sound crazy but I just don’t 100% feel myself rn because I just cut my hair off that I’ve been growing since 2014. I feel like that was an aura death (I did save my hair in a bag for both times I cut it, I plan on reattaching my hair I cut in 2018 back to the top of my head and fade) so I’m rocking the @TripleAgent just a lil shorter so I didn’t plan on seeing anyone I know until I reattach my hair and both girls really all of them have begged me not to cut my hair I don’t want to deal with the reaction I’ve already received some crazy reactions from the people I’ve seen but her sex game is S tier. I also don’t work at the moment so I would prefer for her to come to my place especially since I don’t have any roommates or family here like she does. How should I go about it? I’m pretty sure she was drunk or off the yola and was mad horny but she’s hit me up periodically in the past and I’ll seldomly respond I’ve seen her like a year ago so I’m sure I can either get her to come here or I’ll have to go to her place and she’ll cash out for me I got these girls wrapped around my finger I’m ngl I’ve dikkmatized them to oblivion I can’t do no wrong in their eyes (other than cut my hair)
 

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In all honesty she hit me up in the middle of the night so when I woke up it was already like 5 hours late. Other one hit me on Tik tok trying to feel me out, I just smashed something a couple weeks back and this might sound crazy but I just don’t 100% feel myself rn because I just cut my hair off that I’ve been growing since 2014. I feel like that was an aura death (I did save my hair in a bag for both times I cut it, I plan on reattaching my hair I cut in 2018 back to the top of my head and fade) so I’m rocking the @TripleAgent just a lil shorter so I didn’t plan on seeing anyone I know until I reattach my hair and both girls really all of them have begged me not to cut my hair I don’t want to deal with the reaction I’ve already received some crazy reactions from the people I’ve seen but her sex game is S tier. I also don’t work at the moment so I would prefer for her to come to my place especially since I don’t have any roommates or family here like she does. How should I go about it? I’m pretty sure she was drunk or off the yola and was mad horny but she’s hit me up periodically in the past and I’ll seldomly respond I’ve seen her like a year ago so I’m sure I can either get her to come here or I’ll have to go to her place and she’ll cash out for me I got these girls wrapped around my finger I’m ngl I’ve dikkmatized them to oblivion I can’t do no wrong in their eyes (other than cut my hair)

if you can do no wrong why ask how to go about it, any move is the right one
 
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