Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Lots of people have no intention on meeting up on person. it's easier and more comfortable to keep a dozen text convos going.

but we also have to factor in this is how a lot of people connect now, dating apps or not. it's a part of society.
Just move on if convo goes nowhere within 1 maybe 2 days max lol if anything it becomes motivation to go outside and actually live life. If you can't engage in an initial back and forth and it is just text tag you are wasting time
 

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Just move on if convo goes nowhere within 1 maybe 2 days max lol if anything it becomes motivation to go outside and actually live life. If you can't engage in an initial back and forth and it is just text tag you are wasting time

me? I try to get away with not even texting at all, doesn't always work but feels way more authentic to myself. of course if someone doesn't answer, or texts back, you are kinda stuck. I was more making the point that a lot of all kinds of relationships are defined by texting now.
 

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Me and my girl got into a big fight about this. Question fellas, how y'all feel about you girl occasionally going on girls trips maybe once or twice a year?

I told her I wasn't comfortable because I wasn't raised that way where women do that kinda thing. Was I unreasonable?
 

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Me and my girl got into a big fight about this. Question fellas, how y'all feel about you girl occasionally going on girls trips maybe once or twice a year?

I told her I wasn't comfortable because I wasn't raised that way where women do that kinda thing. Was I unreasonable?

Just break up. If she want to live single then be single.

In a relationship y'all should be doing couples trips so if all her friends are single then....
 

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Depends on who you know her to be and the friend group she’s going with. Only you can really answer it but you raised concerns so me thinks you know what’s she’s likely to do…
Me and my girl got into a big fight about this. Question fellas, how y'all feel about you girl occasionally going on girls trips maybe once or twice a year?

I told her I wasn't comfortable because I wasn't raised that way where women do that kinda thing. Was I unreasonable?
 

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Depends on who you know her to be and the friend group she’s going with. Only you can really answer it but you raised concerns so me thinks you know what’s she’s likely to do…
I mean well to be real her friends kinda square tbh, they lame goody goody types except the one thot one who likes to go out a lot and date around. Many of them also are in relationships except for her work friends but even among them one is a jehovah witness (no sex before marriage type). I think they are ok but I think I have trust issues.

Just break up. If she want to live single then be single.

In a relationship y'all should be doing couples trips so if all her friends are single then....
Nah some of them are in relationships and married.
 

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I mean well to be real her friends kinda square tbh, they lame goody goody types except the one thot one who likes to go out a lot and date around. Many of them also are in relationships except for her work friends but even among them one is a jehovah witness (no sex before marriage type). I think they are ok but I think I have trust issues.


Nah some of them are in relationships and married.
Why are you in a relationship with her if you don’t trust her to go on a girls trip?
 

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I mean well to be real her friends kinda square tbh, they lame goody goody types except the one thot one who likes to go out a lot and date around. Many of them also are in relationships except for her work friends but even among them one is a jehovah witness (no sex before marriage type). I think they are ok but I think I have trust issues.


Nah some of them are in relationships and married.

Then y'all should he doing couples trips other wise just be single.
 

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I mean well to be real her friends kinda square tbh, they lame goody goody types except the one thot one who likes to go out a lot and date around. Many of them also are in relationships except for her work friends but even among them one is a jehovah witness (no sex before marriage type). I think they are ok but I think I have trust issues.


Nah some of them are in relationships and married.

what is at the heart of your concern here? As in, what's the main emotion behind everything, underneath the conflict, what are you scared of?
 

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I mean well to be real her friends kinda square tbh, they lame goody goody types except the one thot one who likes to go out a lot and date around. Many of them also are in relationships except for her work friends but even among them one is a jehovah witness (no sex before marriage type). I think they are ok but I think I have trust issues.


Nah some of them are in relationships and married.
A trip is really not a problem.

Plus you even said her friends are goody goody types so what is there to worry about?

I’m sure she’ll even FaceTime you or sum while she’s on her trip :manny:
 

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not sure where to ask this so imma ask here:

If yall had a chance to go on vacay with ya homies, but ALL their wives were attending, would you still go?

I ask because this trip to JA is looking like a couple's retreat (no single dudes are going), and the few times ive gone out with them and their wives, it ends up just being a discussion about marriage and they kids :francis: (no offence)
 

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not sure where to ask this so imma ask here:

If yall had a chance to go on vacay with ya homies, but ALL their wives were attending, would you still go?

I ask because this trip to JA is looking like a couple's retreat (no single dudes are going), and the few times ive gone out with them and their wives, it ends up just being a discussion about marriage and they kids :francis: (no offence)

You are single right? No Don't go. Guys trips only or travel solo. Jamaica aint even a place for guys trips anyways so you are saying yourself time and money since you aint even gonna be chilling with your boys.
 

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You are single right? No Don't go. Guys trips only or travel solo. Jamaica aint even a place for guys trips anyways so you are saying yourself time and money since you aint even gonna be chilling with your boys.
yea still single

And bold is exactly My thoughts lol. nikkas finna be in a room with they girl whole trip and attached to each other so regardless, Imma have to move dolo. I was even considering leaving the resort and visit my grandpa for a couple days or sum

im sure another dude in the group gonna join but most these guys are married and likely gonna bring their wife too :dead:


I guess im at the age where single men trips just aint a thing and I missed out :mjcry:
 

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yea still single

And bold is exactly My thoughts lol. nikkas finna be in a room with they girl whole trip and attached to each other so regardless, Imma have to move dolo. I was even considering leaving the resort and visit my grandpa for a couple days or sum

im sure another dude in the group gonna join but most these guys are married and likely gonna bring their wife too :dead:


I guess im at the age where single men trips just aint a thing and I missed out :mjcry:

it isn't a thing. I got married homies and we only link for sporting events. Outside of that we live two very different lives and I don't mix into marry people shyt and I`m not putting them into Single people stuff and being the reason they screw up their marriage.

its the journey of a man so embrace it. Learn to chart your own path. IMO if you married you shouldn't even be doing singles people shyt/guys/girls trips. Link up with the homies for like local shyt or sports/whatever thing y'all bond on, but trips should be for you and your family or if you into the couples retreat things.
 
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