Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The type of communication thats throwing 90 percent of men off is that their focus more so on what they say meaning the front end

""You have to make 500k"
"You have to be 6"4"
"You have to have tattoos"
"You have to drive a Ferrari"

They talk this bullshyt to throw men off and it's the cliché demands. But what they WONT tell you is the BACKEND.

There's guys that dont have either of that tearing her guts out but yet she wont either claim him or keep him around. Dont believe me.. Look at the majority of these women baby daddys.. They have neither of that bullshyt and still have access to her mind.

You grab her mind... Everything else gonna follow. She'll let YOU have her car of you play it right
 

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damn this GMB shyt is for real eh? mind elaborating on how the grow apart took place? feel free to inbox if its too personal

Marriage makes no sense in the modern day. The best you can hope for at this rate is an agreement on raising kids, but if you don't want kids even more reason to not enter any legal agreements with another adult.

I've given up on the legal system being reformed since they make so much money from it.
 

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The type of communication thats throwing 90 percent of men off is that their focus more so on what they say meaning the front end

""You have to make 500k"
"You have to be 6"4"
"You have to have tattoos"
"You have to drive a Ferrari"

They talk this bullshyt to throw men off and it's the cliché demands. But what they WONT tell you is the BACKEND.

There's guys that dont have either of that tearing her guts out but yet she wont either claim him or keep him around. Dont believe me.. Look at the majority of these women baby daddys.. They have neither of that bullshyt and still have access to her mind.

You grab her mind... Everything else gonna follow. She'll let YOU have her car of you play it right

what's interesting to me, my theory, is of course, social media. but something that's called the "app generation", people who grew up with apps, which spans from my age, to much younger. The idea being that you use your dating life/life like an app, you set your location and click, and a car picks you up. You set your EXACT standards, and someone will appear to match them.

doesn't all that 100k whatever it is sound a lot like that?
 

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some of these bytches are just on the app to chat. asking you how your morning is going, how was your weekend, but ignore you when you try to meet up. I don't got time for this small talk bullshyt. So I said to her we've been chatting for a bit we got a lot in common we should meet up sometime see what the vibe is like in person and she unmatched me. I would rather do that then waste my time. We been talking on and off for a week about small bullshyt. Fellas if she doesn't want to meet up don't waste your time because plenty of them are not serious.
 

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some of these bytches are just on the app to chat. asking you how your morning is going, how was your weekend, but ignore you when you try to meet up. I don't got time for this small talk bullshyt. So I said to her we've been chatting for a bit we got a lot in common we should meet up sometime see what the vibe is like in person and she unmatched me. I would rather do that then waste my time. We been talking on and off for a week about small bullshyt. Fellas if she doesn't want to meet up don't waste your time because plenty of them are not serious.
You did the right thing breh. A lot of chics are on there for the attention/ego boost. Always remember that you dictate how it goes. If you feel the energy/effort isn't mutual just walk. Once brehs start doing that and stop chasing unnecessarily it will bring a bit more balance to the equation. But brehs gotta stand firm on their square. Sometimes you gotta leave a chic out in the cold to let the others behind know you're not one to play with.
 

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lol aint this the truth
its hard to find women worthy of this kinda commitment. not impossible but very difficult. a lot of things have to align

I used to say the same things . Countless relationships, countless dates etc.

When you least expect it and don't care anymore I'm telling y'all brehs
 

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some of these bytches are just on the app to chat. asking you how your morning is going, how was your weekend, but ignore you when you try to meet up. I don't got time for this small talk bullshyt. So I said to her we've been chatting for a bit we got a lot in common we should meet up sometime see what the vibe is like in person and she unmatched me. I would rather do that then waste my time. We been talking on and off for a week about small bullshyt. Fellas if she doesn't want to meet up don't waste your time because plenty of them are not serious.


I always used to ask for the number asap

The old " I don't really use this app alot, could I get your number"

And then work on meeting up asap

Alot of chicks don't look as good as their photos
 

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You did the right thing breh. A lot of chics are on there for the attention/ego boost. Always remember that you dictate how it goes. If you feel the energy/effort isn't mutual just walk. Once brehs start doing that and stop chasing unnecessarily it will bring a bit more balance to the equation. But brehs gotta stand firm on their square. Sometimes you gotta leave a chic out in the cold to let the others behind know you're not one to play with.
Yes don’t waste your time if you hitting it off after a few back and forth gotta try to set something up. Her unmatching me did me a favor.
 

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I always used to ask for the number asap

The old " I don't really use this app alot, could I get your number"

And then work on meeting up asap

Alot of chicks don't look as good as their photos
I’m in my mid 30s and so is she so it’s like we are adults here the point is to meet up. If she unmatched me maybe she thought I was thirsty but she clearly wasn’t really interested
 

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Lots of people have no intention on meeting up on person. it's easier and more comfortable to keep a dozen text convos going.

but we also have to factor in this is how a lot of people connect now, dating apps or not. it's a part of society.
 
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