Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

If you ask a woman why she doesn't want kids. She will name nothing but selfish reasons as to why she doesn't want any.

"I have to be responsible for someone else"

"I can't do what I want anymore"

"It will ruin my body"

"I will have less money to spend on myself"

Is that really the type of person you want to be with.

lol yes because those be my reason except the body part

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Lmao of course it's still a smash but I don't know. I feel every woman I ever met who didn't want kids didn't want them due to trauma or there were a little off. Like I said it could be they know they ain't shyt and not saying that's the case with every woman but as we know most woman aim to be married and have kids.


Yeah I don't think I could take a woman seriously who didn't want kids either.

anyone who doesnt want kids is selfish and probably not a good girlfriend either because they don't have the feminiem qualities and has a lot of trauma, baggage, or a lot of bad interactions with men.

 

[Ohene]

MOST women who say they don’t want children will change their stance if they meet the right guy

 

[skyrunner1]

MOST women who say they don’t want children will change their stance if they meet the right guy

Or that clock start ticking.. I am in a couple industries that are filled with women and during that covid era entered age range where ALL those women I knew for awhile started throwing hail marrys..

Im talking the most boss bytch running million dollar real estate biz, doctors in medical field, even lesbian entreprenuers, ALLLLLLL of them made moves to secure a buzzer beater in that 35-38 age range.. I dont even think the guy mattered (some just bought some sperm) And its diverse too, I have seen it live play out.. Happy for them too..

Brehs just need to take the info that is freely available and play their game the right way to get the results they want as best they can..

 

[Guvnor]

If you ask a woman why she doesn't want kids. She will name nothing but selfish reasons as to why she doesn't want any.

"I have to be responsible for someone else"

"I can't do what I want anymore"

"It will ruin my body"

"I will have less money to spend on myself"

Is that really the type of person you want to be with.

That's a fact! To me that doesn't make for a good girlfriend long term if she is selfish. Just my opinion though.

At least she isn't brining another kid into this world who won't be properly taken care of so you have to respect that.

anyone who doesnt want kids is selfish and probably not a good girlfriend either because they don't have the feminiem qualities and has a lot of trauma, baggage, or a lot of bad interactions with men.

That's a fact too. A lot of time it's trauma or they view the world so negative that they don't make for a good girlfriend. They are selfish and pessimistic which would just bring up a lot of stress.

It's similar to a woman who outright says she doesn't want marriage. It's one thing if she was married before or is older and just got the kids out the nest but when a woman is young and is like I don't do marriage to me it's a similar factor at play. A lot of trauma or bad experiences that make them say that.

 

[The ADD]

Is it really selfish when you have to create the responsibility

 

[Guvnor]

Is it really selfish when you have to create the responsibility

Yes, responsible but selfish. Like it's responsible and self aware imo to know you don't truly want kids and to not have them. This is versus having them and then resenting them because you truly don't want the experience of being a mother.

At the same time the fact you don't want to have kids in the first place shows you are a selfish women to your core imo. One of the biggest purposes for life in the first place is to procreate and keep your bloodline going so you can leave something behind. The fact that you are so selfish you don't want to do so as a woman who is an emotionally led being says a lot imo lol.

 

[Ohene]

Yes, responsible but selfish. Like it's responsible and self aware imo to know you don't truly want kids and to not have them. This is versus having them and then resenting them because you truly don't want the experience of being a mother.

At the same time the fact you don't want to have kids in the first place shows you are a selfish women to your core imo. One of the biggest purposes for life in the first place is to procreate and keep your bloodline going so you can leave something behind. The fact that you are so selfish you don't want to do so as a woman who is an emotionally led being says a lot imo lol.

go outside and take a look at the people around you. turn on the news

what is so amazing about this world that its worth continuing? nothing selfish about not wanting to have kids. having kids and bringing them into this piece of shyt existence is far more selfish and downright irresponsible/egotistical lol.

 

[Guvnor]

go outside and take a look at the people around you. turn on the news

what is so amazing about this world that its worth continuing? nothing selfish about not wanting to have kids. having kids and bringing them into this piece of shyt existence is far more selfish and downright irresponsible/egotistical lol.

Lol you're a pessimist but I can't argue against your point either. It really just depends on the individual and their preferences at the end of the day.

 

[Ohene]

Lol you're a pessimist but I can't argue against your point either. It really just depends on the individual and their preferences at the end of the day.

Not a pessimist
Nihilistic maybe

 

[Scaaar]

Meh
A girl like that would be a garbage fukk anyway since the passion lacking

Definitely the lack of passion would turn me off. I've been around chics like that. They just lack that playful tease of sexual energy that can turn the heat up. It's hard to explain but some chics just have it in spades and others don't at all.

 

[Scaaar]

mid. I bushed her not long after. She said she was willing to work on stuff but she was like 34-35 it was a lost cause at that point. You can't mold older hoes.

Definitely. Brehs sleep on sexual chemistry and how important it is. Especially when you're older. My motto is I adjust sexually with people. I don't have time to teach you how to have sex. I've run into too many pillow princesses that think they're only supposed to just lay there and that's it. I need my women to get active with me. But it's a mindset most women are naturally selfish so they're not selfless or considerate in the bedroom.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Definitely. Brehs sleep on sexual chemistry and how important it is. Especially when you're older. My motto is I adjust sexually with people. I don't have time to teach you how to have sex. I've run into too many pillow princesses that think they're only supposed to just lay there and that's it. I need my women to get active with me. But it's a mindset most women are naturally selfish so they're not selfless or considerate in the bedroom.

This is why I hate the word "Baddie", lotta dudes chase self absorbed socially awkward hoes who literally offer noting then be shocked their life is in shambles.

Always go after the chicks who are high energy with you. If a bytch can't have convo, you always initiating, doesn't even seem excited to be around you, abort mission.

Dudes will jump hurdles for a weird chick THEN the sex is horrible.

 

[Brandsdale]

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[jesc07]

Do you feel it's a red flag that a woman doesn't want Children?

I mean part of me thinks it's a good thing that she doesn't want to bring kids into the world and mess them up. She isn't doing what society says she should be doing. Same time part of me feels it could be that the woman is selfish or knows unconsciously she has terrible values or character and so she would be a bad mother. What do you think?

Yes, and make sure you wrap it up. In my experience these are the type of women that actually end up trapping you.