Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

Here's a rejection story that went well:

Lyft ride about a month ago, bad ass girl picks me up in a new Tesla SUV, and gives me a look. Think we had met in same way before. She's not from US, sexy accent, we start talking, eventually we are on spots where she lives, a very affluent area. New places, classic ones. And it's about a 15 minute convo. But, have this feeling, like you are driving Lyft, in a 130k car, and live in Carmel Valley, and are still learning English?

she goes to drop me off and "hey let's go to one of those places, I'm up there all the time", and she puts her head down and is kinda laughing, says "I don't know", I say "not a big deal, just wanted to ask", she says "I just don't think my husband would understand" and now I start laughing and just say really nice talking to you, and we both laugh again and I get out. Nothing awkward at all.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Here's a rejection story that went well:

Lyft ride about a month ago, bad ass girl picks me up in a new Tesla SUV, and gives me a look. Think we had met in same way before. She's not from US, sexy accent, we start talking, eventually we are on spots where she lives, a very affluent area. New places, classic ones. And it's about a 15 minute convo. But, have this feeling, like you are driving Lyft, in a 130k car, and live in Carmel Valley, and are still learning English?

she goes to drop me off and "hey let's go to one of those places, I'm up there all the time", and she puts her head down and is kinda laughing, says "I don't know", I say "not a big deal, just wanted to ask", she says "I just don't think my husband would understand" and now I start laughing and just say really nice talking to you, and we both laugh again and I get out. Nothing awkward at all.

If she liked you, she would've accepted your invite. She doesn't have a husband but it's a polite way to turn you down nicely

 

[re'up]

If she liked you, she would've accepted your invite. She doesn't have a husband but it's a polite way to turn you down nicely

I mean she was wearing a ring but it's always a possibility

but the tell was the affluent address and the lack of perfect english and staying in the US during COVID. Like the only way you could do that is being married. Kinda had a feeling there was something missing. what's the word? Eliding.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Another one...stay strapped fellas.

I asked this chick why I haven't seen her in a while and this was her reply

We used to smash on the regular but I always wrapped it up

 

[sjankis630]

Glad I trusted my gut and didn't get in them guts

My man you didn't dodge a bullet, You dodged a nuclear missile.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Amy dude committing in this climate is an idiot and this shyt is spreading globally because all women look at the same content on social media.

Even in Africa
The super pretty chicks are behind a paywall
P4p culture is worldwide

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Why do people even go out if they don’t wanna socialize

 

[Apollo Creed]

Even in Africa
The super pretty chicks are behind a paywall
P4p culture is worldwide

African and Asian chicks show up in USA apps now looking for tricks the same way dudes set they location to other countries lol.

 

[Redwood]

Why do people even go out if they don’t wanna socialize

Going to clubs/parties or running a quick errand?

 

[jay83]

My coworker straight up said he’s struggling with porn addiction. I suggested he go the gym and possibly church.

I actually go to the gym with him and tell me why half the chicks there are damn near butt naked? I was legit embarrassed and actually disappointed in the lack of taste in these chicks.

Then he went to church and he told me he couldn’t focus there either. Got damn are there any places where a guy can go and it’s not ass in your face? lol

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Going to clubs/parties or running a quick errand?

Was at party lounge

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

African and Asian chicks show up in USA apps now looking for tricks the same way dudes set they location to other countries lol.

The seeking arrangement app full of women over 35

 

[Redwood]

Was at party lounge

I see what you mean

 

[sjankis630]

Why do people even go out if they don’t wanna socialize

I don't profess to know but there was an article in a men's magazine back in the 90s that I read. The author was doing an article about singles for slightly older people and he had gotten permission from this guy who was running the event to write about it.- where single men and women paid to be there. But the part that I do remember - and this was sometime I think back in the 90s so take it for the time - the guy running the event told him.
He said, "look there are going to be some people at this place who are not going to want to socialize with you or anyone else there. They sign up and pay and get all dressed up but don't actually want to date anyone. Once you get the signals please leave them alone. They pay and regularly come but don't really socialize."
Apparently they were there because friends or family had pressured them or they felt wrong not going out so they signed up for the event but were clearly not feeling it. The author saw a nice looking slightly older woman and tried to talk to her before realizing that she was likely one of the people mentioned.
He started to approach and the woman brushed him off by telling him, " I am waiting for someone." He answered back, "Aren't we all?"

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

what prompts you using on hinge?