looks are really 90% of a womans game. that is step one in how they gain the upper hand on men to convince us that we need to bow down to the ones we are attracted to. its set up so you look at yourself as the suitor, and you treat her like she is the prize. the fukked up part about that is when you lose that game by falling into her looks, and going around doing what you can to please her, she wins this game and thus loses interest in you. it becomes a hoing game, where the man is her ho. a time ho, a money ho, an emotional ho, a favor ho, or whatever. those looks are her muscle, and you bowing to that little game is the instrument that they use to put that work in.
that little mind game they play is sick, but its always just a test to see how much shyt they can get away with. some have that constant testing mentality, "that if I can punk him then what is another man going to do to him?" thought process. they want to see how strong you are and how much you can really stand on your own feet. problem is, that shes either doing it so A) so she can see if youre feeble in the mind and can bend to her will, B) she doesnt know any other way of reading a good, capable man, C) it shows that she really doesnt stand by you and wants you to carry all of the weight, and D) she loves the drama/attention the fighting brings. she cries about it to her circle, she makes herself more interesting with the conflicts she can tell about to her friends, or its whatever. sheeit, if a bored chick can turn your life into a soap opera, then she will.
so you can never put ANY woman, good looks or not, above you. no thirst. because thirst is a weapon against you. its a game you wont win in. you cant surrender your sack and let them decide whos calling the shots. cant let them decide if you look right, and you cant let them tell you if have enough monetary wealth to impress them. thats all just gimmicks and shiny objects that they will use against you. and thats all out of order for a true man. while its a part of their feminine game to recieve from you, it is not supposed to be abused by them. these spoiled girls take that niceness, and run with it.
when you think about it, their smaller frames and attractive looks is really all it takes to fool and sucker in a man. it makes him turn from lion to a cub. they may look harmless, but thats part of the trap. you go and let her ego run wild and watch how hard and mean they can be. we talk shyt like
#hardonhoes but really, women been
#hardonsimps and
#hardonsuckers forever. and its all because these kinds of women cant appreciate substance. they chase money over everything else. first of all, they should have their own lives and decisions in order and not count on someone else to save them from their stupid shyt. second of all, if they didnt fall for the okie doke from players, they would be able to see a good man. and chances are they would not get themselves caught up in some real life mess. nobodys perfect, but you can exclude a lot of nonsense by choosing right from the jump and stop chasing a mans power and find your own. damn, men wouldnt be playing the material wealth and resources game on women if they didnt run after that.
the more we let them get away with being tricked on, using other men, us catering to them but not ourselves in a fair manner, and letting them get a blown up ego due to strictly their looks, then the worse men and women relationships become. it now a big part of todays culture to blow money on a random chick, or for women to use men for favors while doing nothing in return. theres only a sewing of distrust and selfishness running rampant.
and its giving us an increase in men simping, and other men playing these whores out over their own superficiality. this worshipping of material things is murder on the men who are looking for a fair man and woman relationship. and its hurting the women too, they just dont really know it yet.
that thinking is what gives them the idea that pretty girls can do no wrong. a simp is always in the wings, waiting with a life raft and spare room for her kids and bills. he uses his money to get her, because thats what works on that type of woman. its like now he just waits for the upper crust whore to get downgraded in the market, and gets her second hand. its as if today no mistake is too big, she will be chosen and saved. even that woman who killed her child, casey anothony probably has men trying to get with her evil ass. when really, a fat ass and a cute smile is not that hard to find. but men thirst so hard it excuses whatever dumb or evil shyt women wanna do.
most definitely, Im all for improvement and changing for the better, and it has to come from yourself. it has to match up with where you want to go in life, and it has to be from something that YOU celebrate and enjoy being a part of.
being the next man is just a recipe for failure. and even if you do manage to get in the next mans shoes, its still not going to feel right for you.
same thing with women. you put a woman in your picture and let her change who you are and what you want to do, youre in for a life of compromise and missed opportunities. youre trying to force things too much. let her change you up and youll no longer be who you were looking to be.
yes indeed, putting your thirst in charge of you is exactly how these opportunistic females work their game on you. even on social media, we see chumps drooling and begging to pay so they can save these rats who have NOTHING going for them. its developling into a cycle thats all about using and playing one another out, instead of a fair balance of
give and take.
everyone talks about standards, and as far as relationships go you always need to have these met. they need to make sense to you. when one woman is fukking up - let her know she can be cut off the team. men have an attitude of trying to make it work out, but theres certain thresholds which cannot be crossed. and men who are getting dogged out by their women need to draw the line squarely and definitively. you cant put up with nonsense and act like thats a good thing since you did it to salvage a relationship. you cant "win" for losing.
its good to put the effort when getting to know someone so that they know who you are, and that you are honest and real about yourself. after that its in her hands to do the same and accept it. when its not fitting though or you feel like theres some fakeness, then you have to go get another one that is on your level. get another customer looking to buy in, as this one is not worth your time anymore.
feeling a woman out personality-wise is the real test a man has to give her.
he should not be focused on impressing her, remembering stupid pick up lines, or wondering "what did I do wrong." if her behavior is all off and youre just being yourself, then lose the chick
i hope you're not bragging about your behavior nikka
