Projects are people who need you to mold them to become the person they have the potential to be or what you want them to be. Let me give you an example. Let's say I meet a female that is about 25 years old. A dime piece, yet she has not completed high school and she works at McDonalds. Let's say I decide to put her through school and upgrade her lifestyle. This is a project. It's when you deal with a person based on a couple of qualities that you like, and spend the rest of your time in the relationship fixing the things you don't like.
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its like men don't know when a relationship has ran its course. when a relationship has reached its end and you realize it just end it on the spot. no explanation, no closure, no talking it out just let the woman know its over and you wish her the best and to have a nice life and say nothing else to her.
you constantly see guys online asking dumb ass questions. bytch they're with done some over the top ass shyt and they're discussing or asking what their next move should be.
guys gotta stop getting so attached to these women. its easy to fall in love, in fact there's nothing special at all about being in love. deal with a woman long enough and if you get along with her well you can fall in love. i fell in love with a woman that i wasn't even really that attracted to in my early days just because i was young and short sighted and thought she was the best i could do.
the best you can do is be alone if the choices are be alone or settle for less than you want. at least if you're alone you're in an easy position to find something new. if you settle it makes it all the more harder to make that next move when something good comes along. you gotta pull your head out of the moment and see that you'll meet other women better women then whatever you're currently dealing with and have the courage to leave and face being alone to reach that next step.
you constantly see guys online asking dumb ass questions. bytch they're with done some over the top ass shyt and they're discussing or asking what their next move should be.
guys gotta stop getting so attached to these women. its easy to fall in love, in fact there's nothing special at all about being in love. deal with a woman long enough and if you get along with her well you can fall in love. i fell in love with a woman that i wasn't even really that attracted to in my early days just because i was young and short sighted and thought she was the best i could do.
the best you can do is be alone if the choices are be alone or settle for less than you want. at least if you're alone you're in an easy position to find something new. if you settle it makes it all the more harder to make that next move when something good comes along. you gotta pull your head out of the moment and see that you'll meet other women better women then whatever you're currently dealing with and have the courage to leave and face being alone to reach that next step.
any of yall nikkas smutted out yall coworkers ?
i just got a job with the sexy ass chickand she was given ya boy mad play in the training room. got her number and made plans to head to the movies after work monday..
i plan togood that night
if you put a dog in a crate it will not shyt or piss in that crate because it knows that's its living space and if it does its dirt there then its gotta sit there and smell its own crap. it will hold until you let it out then go away from the crate to shyt or piss.
if you'd fukk a co-worker you're basically saying a dog is smarter than you. you'll shyt and piss in your living space and deal with the fall out. when dealing with woman always maintain the ability to make a clean break in case things go sour. how can you have that clean break when you gotta see this chick at work every workday?
dating co-workers is a scavenger move typically (not always but typically) done by men facing limited options. these are also the kinda guys that fukk somebody else's bytch. they'll usually fukk whatever half decent looking chick pre-qualifies them.
marriage in the modern world is a legally binding contract that says if a relationship fails as the bread winner you accept responsibly to take care of another adult human being.
adam and eve did not have that kind of marriage. marriage has evolved from its conception into a concept that in the modern world is not practical and for men serves limited to no purpose at all.
winb speaking the truth
never mess with co workers you can lose your job, even if you break up you have to see her every day the recovery is longer, even if you just smash do you want your personal business out in the open?
plus you never get free time
never mess with co workers you can lose your job, even if you break up you have to see her every day the recovery is longer, even if you just smash do you want your personal business out in the open?
plus you never get free time
Simple Rule: Don't beat your meat where you make your bread
I will admit I broke this rule before, but we were both part time employees and we worked in different divisions
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I agree w/ some of the things he said, it's just that he gives off a an angry vibe.
Both him and Leykis have good viewpoints, they just give off a sketchy/angry vibe.
Ultimately don't give people leverage. If you get burnt, don't stay angry or bitter at them, and always learn from it and keep it pushing.
Leykis is a misogynist who views women as sperm receptacles and playthings for pleasure. He downs them at every chance he gets but I separate the man from his teachings. I wish I had somebody in my life as a child to show me his Leykis 101 viewpoints. My father wasn't a simp but he was more or less a conventional dater. His attitude was find a good girl and marry her. Life kinda taught me that the people that make that dream a reality are in the minority. Most men settle for the best they think they can get and get trapped in the hustle of society a game that favors women.I agree w/ some of the things he said, it's just that he gives off a an angry vibe.
Both him and Leykis have good viewpoints, they just give off a sketchy/angry vibe.
Ultimately don't give people leverage. If you get burnt, don't stay angry or bitter at them, and always learn from it and keep it pushing.
Thing is with the old school and now, society and the values were different, so while they could just go out and date a woman in a traditional manner and get married, you do that now and you'll get played for free meals, looked at as weak, and all kinds of nonsense.
You got to be way sharper in this day and age because there are so many avenues of communication, trustworthiness is at an all time low and the legal system is vastly tilted in favor of the woman. You got to be extra sharp in this day and age. You see guys that were super players in their younger days busted up because they impregnated 3 or 4 different women and they got to split their paycheck for the next 18 years that many ways... and if they fail to pay, it's right to jail.
You can even do the right thing and just have your woman cheat on you and ya'll get a divorce and she's walking away with half, PLUS you have to pay her. It's not a joke out here.
You got to be way sharper in this day and age because there are so many avenues of communication, trustworthiness is at an all time low and the legal system is vastly tilted in favor of the woman. You got to be extra sharp in this day and age. You see guys that were super players in their younger days busted up because they impregnated 3 or 4 different women and they got to split their paycheck for the next 18 years that many ways... and if they fail to pay, it's right to jail.
You can even do the right thing and just have your woman cheat on you and ya'll get a divorce and she's walking away with half, PLUS you have to pay her. It's not a joke out here.
I'm currently going through a divorce, so let me tell you a lil something about this marriage thing.
It really doesn't benefit you unless you are one of those dudes who are hung up on your woman taking your last name (and she doesn't even have to do that)
At the end of the day if you get divorced it's child support, alimony, and visitation, cause getting custody of your kids is the hardest thing ever considering the courts are sexist. And if you're the bread winner, forget about it, you're finished.
It really doesn't make sense to get married until you get older (40+). You can have the same type of relationship without being legally married. I think that's better.
I know many of you are like "I want to get married and have my kids with one woman." It doesn't mean shyt because that's why I got married. Being married with kids does not prevent the marriage from going sour. It can actually accelerate it.
I'm not saying don't spend the rest of your life with the woman that you love. I'm saying spend the rest of your life with the woman that you love without a law binding agreement.
It really doesn't benefit you unless you are one of those dudes who are hung up on your woman taking your last name (and she doesn't even have to do that)
At the end of the day if you get divorced it's child support, alimony, and visitation, cause getting custody of your kids is the hardest thing ever considering the courts are sexist. And if you're the bread winner, forget about it, you're finished.
It really doesn't make sense to get married until you get older (40+). You can have the same type of relationship without being legally married. I think that's better.
I know many of you are like "I want to get married and have my kids with one woman." It doesn't mean shyt because that's why I got married. Being married with kids does not prevent the marriage from going sour. It can actually accelerate it.
I'm not saying don't spend the rest of your life with the woman that you love. I'm saying spend the rest of your life with the woman that you love without a law binding agreement.
been knew this. marriage as its constructed today is completely pointless. The only reason a guy will do it is because he fears dying alone. 100% of men wouldnt get married if the girl didnt care to. Fact. I really never understood why gays want the right.
I think they only want it just because they dont have it. With me wanting to become an investment banking associate for at least a portion of my career...and possibly a managing director for an investment bank i have come to grips with the fact that I will be hard pressed to marry a bytch and start a family until my career settles down or if I choose a different path.
My only thing is that I dont want these hussies tryna shine on the kid once I've made it...i'd prefer to have a girl that I can grow with from the bottom to the top but in such lines of work...its just unrealistic. If I was working 80-100 hour a week grinds you know a divorce or infidelity would ensue. Why even put yourself through the bullshyt
fukk marriage. Unless my girl were to give me an ultimatum, bags packed, luggage in the whip, perhaps our kid in the backseat and everything i wouldnt even consider it. THe thing about us men is that we dont have to rush into these things. We can very well be 40 years old, and breed a 25 year old up and comer that idolizes you. Once these girls hit 35 though...its damn near over for them.You ain't lying about the parents or older folks wondering why you ain't settled down. Just about all of my boys aren't married. There are only 2 that I can think of that are still married. The rest either neither married or just got divorced. What is crazy as well is a lot of my potnas here never really kept a girl too long... just slept with them and left, but as soon as they go overseas to different places, they got long term girlfriends. One of my boys contracting overseas got him a Kenyan chick. Told me it was a night and day difference. Only problem is if he brings her back to America how she will act.
