Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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if your life is raggedy maybe you should be focused on getting it in order instead of dating. if you're broke, or live at home still, or don't have a car, or you don't feel comfortable about your body / weight its probably not best to be out there spitting at women.

those things are all things that will erode your confidence and work against you. if its something you can't change then you'll just have to accept it but if its something you can work on then its better to take the time to fix things before putting yourself out there. when you step to a woman you wanna be at your best so you can project that.
 

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Another thing.. I know most of you have female friends. Never listen to their advice on how to treat women, just observe them. They will turn you into a simp.

Watch how they let dudes treat them. See what type of dudes they deal with, and which ones get dismissed. And then you'll see first hand that we tell you no lie in this thread.
 

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Never allow a women to downgrade you, I've had chicks go dumped me try to extend that friendship branch :pacspit:

Even if I was a bf I would not accept to be downgraded to a fwb
 

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Been through that dating a co worker thing. We was chillin and fukking for a couple months. I find out more about her world, a single mom with a no job having baby father. She tried to use her looks and snatch to make nikkas do what her baby father couldn't. Pay. Always complaining about bills, making my penis soft. We got into huge fights over Facebook and me helping her out. I never gave that bytch more than a meal. She thought since she was giving up the snatch, I would pay for her sons medical.













:comeon:

I started dating my current gf and cut her off. Come to find out she married that loser. Pretty sad
 

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Another thing.. I know most of you have female friends. Never listen to their advice on how to treat women, just observe them. They will turn you into a simp.

Watch how they let dudes treat them. See what type of dudes they deal with, and which ones get dismissed. And then you'll see first hand that we tell you no lie in this thread.



This is true
You will get bs advice like tell her how you feel,
Etc.
 

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Been through that dating a co worker thing. We was chillin and fukking for a couple months. I find out more about her world, a single mom with a no job having baby father. She tried to use her looks and snatch to make nikkas do what her baby father couldn't. Pay. Always complaining about bills, making my penis soft. We got into huge fights over Facebook and me helping her out. I never gave that bytch more than a meal. She thought since she was giving up the snatch, I would pay for her sons medical.













:comeon:

I started dating my current gf and cut her off. Come to find out she married that loser. Pretty sad



That's what happens when you date single moms, no matter how hot they are stay away.

It's a trap
 

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Another thing.. I know most of you have female friends. Never listen to their advice on how to treat women, just observe them. They will turn you into a simp.

Watch how they let dudes treat them. See what type of dudes they deal with, and which ones get dismissed. And then you'll see first hand that we tell you no lie in this thread.

THIS shyt RIGHT HERE IS IMPORTANT! Story after work on how I was telling some bytches the same thing

Only one you should maaaaaaaybe even listen to is your mom and sister. Everyone else...hell no
 

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Another thing.. I know most of you have female friends. Never listen to their advice on how to treat women, just observe them. They will turn you into a simp.

Watch how they let dudes treat them. See what type of dudes they deal with, and which ones get dismissed. And then you'll see first hand that we tell you no lie in this thread.

Real fukkin talk. I remember I was talkin to this chick a few months back. She had a cool ass personality, but she was playin games...and about 80% of our convos were via text. I dont even like to text full convos, but during work, it helped pass the time i guess. We had only known each other like a week, but I was ready to cut her off because she reneged on us hanging out twice. I told one of my female friends, and she said while she COULD be playing games, you don't wanna give up so easily. She told me to tell ol girl how I felt :childplease:
 

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Real fukkin talk. I remember I was talkin to this chick a few months back. She had a cool ass personality, but she was playin games...and about 80% of our convos were via text. I dont even like to text full convos, but during work, it helped pass the time i guess. We had only known each other like a week, but I was ready to cut her off because she reneged on us hanging out twice. I told one of my female friends, and she said while she COULD be playing games, you don't wanna give up so easily. She told me to tell ol girl how I felt :childplease:
a deer cant tell you how to hunt deer
 

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Another thing.. I know most of you have female friends. Never listen to their advice on how to treat women, just observe them. They will turn you into a simp.

Watch how they let dudes treat them. See what type of dudes they deal with, and which ones get dismissed. And then you'll see first hand that we tell you no lie in this thread.

This is not entirely true brehs. My best friend gives it to me real. She tell me don't chase these chicks let em chase u. Don't text em or talk to em all the time keep em waitin then they'll b on u.
 

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This is not entirely true brehs. My best friend gives it to me real. She tell me don't chase these chicks let em chase u. Don't text em or talk to em all the time keep em waitin then they'll b on u.

That's your best friend mine is the same a female ad well, a random female bird friend wont though
 

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This is not entirely true brehs. My best friend gives it to me real. She tell me don't chase these chicks let em chase u. Don't text em or talk to em all the time keep em waitin then they'll b on u.

If a chick ain't living it the way she preaching it (which is the case 95% of the time) don't listen to what she says, watch what she does. I didn't say you couldn't learn from her, but her actions are more telling than her instructions or advice.

How she telling you that women want a man to treat them good, when she has a boyfriend that constantly disrespects her? Catch my drift.
 
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