Oh yeah for sure I’m paying. Im definitely not about to tell a shorty to come out of town with me and make her buy her own ticket or some shyt. Just come. I’m really the type of dude to hit you on a Wednesday and be like let’s go somewhere out of town for the weekend.
But I don’t work a traditional job and my time more free to move around, so I get it don’t be that easy for them. In my mind you supposed to be motivated to figure it out though and I be legit offended on some bytch you crazy as hell, go fukk with a regular nikka then.
Only thing I’m sensitive to is kids. If chick be like I gotta find a babysitter or the kid with her for the weekend I always tell them the kid they number one priority. It’s actually a turn off if I feel like a woman neglecting they kids for me. I’m just complaining though, shyt don’t be that serious. I just be wanting my way 100% of the time
relate to a lot of this lol
I am reasonably methodical about planning, but there's a sweet spot, where if you plan too far in advance, the probability of it getting derailed is high, and if you plan too quick, it's just a longer shot. My boy (way higher roller than me) and I joked one time, saying "if I don't take you, you aren't going" but that was more about high end restaurant spots, not just the local trendy mid range places everyone goes. He told me I invited some girl on a yacht, private just 4 people, and she was like let me check my schedule.
Can we do it Friday? Like they would just rearrange the whole plan.
actually trying to hit some spot tonight for dinner that's opening, at like 8:30, which isn't even that late, but a lot of these women are in bed by like 8:00 and wake up at 5. Strippers work Thursday nights mostly.