Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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whats it like
Hard to quantify but it just seems off. I usually get along with majority of the women I meet anywhere else whereas here it’s always a random issue that makes it go left.

TLDR just don’t get along well.

Differences you’ve noticed? Recently stopped talking to a girl who was from Dallas but had been in LA for 6 years. It was wild how she viewed everything through the “sugar baby” lense even when it came to normal relationships. Hearing her talk was like scrolling a TikTok feed of women’s greatest hits.
It’s like the usual things you take for granted. Don’t happen here. Ex. You might expect if you pay for something. She will grab the next check or at least offer. They don’t do it. It might just be me though since I’m the common denominator :yeshrug:
thats how toronto is
hows NYC
NYC is dope. The women are down to earth & blunt, and just cool to vibe with. Like you will enjoy chilling with her compared to just being around her just to smash and dip.
LA, Miami, and ATL might be the worst cities in the USA for dating. People get caught up in looks but those cities are Culturally corrupted where even people from normal small towns go and get turnt out there.
Ive always compared Miami women to nyc with being cool to chill with and being blunt. Granted this is a small sample size and I’ve never lived there so I could be wrong.
 
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Ive always compared Miami women to nyc with being cool to chill with and being blunt. Granted this is a small sample size and I’ve never lived there so I could be wrong.
I`m only going off Hear say when it comes to Miami to be honest. Usually these are the "chase your dream" cities. The Only Reason I didn't include NYC even though it has that element but NYC is a real Tier 1 Global City so you have so many different elements there than Entertainment and Tourism being the backbone.
 

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So they’re influencers cosplaying as housewives lol

:mjlol:

The chick in the pictures behavior

When McDowell first arrived in Dallas, she recalled, “I literally did not do anything.” Well, she clarified, she would “wake up, eat, shop, lay down, take naps, watch shows.”


Then they went to couples therapy, where her boyfriend admitted he would like her to contribute more. So she started making breakfast, cleaning and doing laundry, decorating the house more and creating content to build a little nest egg for herself.

For me that says it all about what a woman's about. The fact she did'nt already cook and clean should be a massive red flag. She had to be told. And her BF had to admit that's what he wanted. I guess the fantasy of in house p*ssy faded, and he began to weigh up what else she brings to the table. Coming home from work to a dirty ass house and no food prepared would not be the wave for any man. Especially if you're paying for everything.

She only switched up when they went to couples therapy she's 25 and his 26 and they are already doing couples therapy.

:francis:

When he gets bored and really weighs up what she brings to his life its going to be messy.

My chick works a full day for her business and still enjoys cooking for me and couldn't abide sitting on her ass all day.

Nothing sexy about a woman with no skills.
 

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LA, Miami, and ATL might be the worst cities in the USA for dating. People get caught up in looks but those cities are Culturally corrupted where even people from normal small towns go and get turnt out there.

It’s like the usual things you take for granted. Don’t happen here. Ex. You might expect if you pay for something. She will grab the next check or at least offer. They don’t do it. It might just be me though since I’m the common denominator :yeshrug:

NYC is dope. The women are down to earth & blunt, and just cool to vibe with. Like you will enjoy chilling with her compared to just being around her just to smash and dip.

Ive always compared Miami women to nyc with being cool to chill with and being blunt. Granted this is a small sample size and I’ve never lived there so I could be wrong.

Have always said Miami is like playing on Heisman/All-madden/Olympic mode.. When I go other places it just seem that much easier and I actually have to slow my game down if that makes sense.. Have heard it from many other brehs also, especially brehs who recently move to miami and are tryna catch the wave/frequency. Its just a different ball game. Its an adult playground, wealthy playground, fake rich playground, fraud playground, etc.

My interactions with NY women depends on where they are, lol.. They NYC to Miami connection is deep so we get the party types always on trips down here, straight to point, all about vibes.. In NYC, it just seems like the sheer volume of options and opportunities make soo much fun, lol.. Have mentioned it before but I could be in one spot dancing with some brazilians and same night end up at a dancehall spot vibin.. Good times.
 

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Differences you’ve noticed? Recently stopped talking to a girl who was from Dallas but had been in LA for 6 years. It was wild how she viewed everything through the “sugar baby” lense even when it came to normal relationships. Hearing her talk was like scrolling a TikTok feed of women’s greatest hits.

I know a few like this. Don't even put this all on them, part of that has to be on social media.

We are tight and close, and fukk around but she talks like a preacher recently. lot of the time, and she used to be a little more interesting, intelligent, open.

She laid out this rant for me the other day, and it was so contradictory, and so bizarre, it was pure social media nonsense

Wants a provider husband, she used this over and over, to pay all the bills and pay for everything

She's going to do home cooked meals, clean, and be in her feminine energy

Women are too stressed to work, because of their periods

but she will still work too? And use that money for investments

wants three kids. She's bad. But, she doesn't realize what moving circles with actual ballers and millionaires is like. I wanted to tell her, that the real power is in real assets, hard assets, not soft ones, like cooking, cleaning, sex. That's a fools game.
 

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Also, different ones wanted a new job, and she's in a professional field she says my requirements are

100k plus base salary,

company car

flexible hours


this is someone who doesn't have a degree, which who cares, but almost NO COMPANY is going to give you that as a unqualified entry level position.

they get this from Tik Tok videos.
 
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The women I know (who I respect in my own way) who are all straight up hustlers/damn near escorts, were "sugar babies" 20 years ago--- most of them are washed at 40. No husband. No real job. No real skills, no real work ethic. Their former lifestyle can't ever match their current income

so they are kind of in this purgatory. And those are like the sharks. They ended up burned out. These other girls are not even close to that, in terms of what they will do for money and status.

Sheer demographics are against them.
 

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The women I know (who I respect in my own way) who are all straight up hustlers/damn near escorts, were "sugar babies" 20 years ago--- most of them are washed at 40. No husband. No real job. No real skills, no real work ethic. Their former lifestyle can't ever match their current income

so they are kind of in this purgatory. And those are like the sharks. They ended up burned out. These other girls are not even close to that, in terms of what they will do for money and status.

Sheer demographics are against them.

There is going to be a huge flux of women with no skills (because most women went into useless fields ) drowning in debt, bad health (STDS/HPV, high blood pressure, diabetes, alcoholism, drug addiction) who will become a burden on society. It's best men with sense don't get attached and drown with them with what's coming globally.
 

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There is going to be a huge flux of women with no skills (because most women went into useless fields ) drowning in debt, bad health (STDS/HPV, high blood pressure, diabetes, alcoholism, drug addiction) who will become a burden on society. It's best men with sense don't get attached and drown with them with what's coming globally.


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Yup. When I was on apps. There was a lot of women with 1-2 dogs.

:why:

Their son / daughters (smaller dogs) & husbands (big dogs)

Annoying.
 

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lol y’all ain’t dating dog

She ain’t bring him over when she comes to smash

Come on guise
 
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