Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I'm 4 minutes into watching this episode of MTV True Life: I Have A High Maintenance Girlfriend and I'm like 
right now
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Pulling sudden swerves on women for no reason>>> 
Watching her go from being too comfortable to being on her toes is a GOAT feeling.
Watching her go from being too comfortable to being on her toes is a GOAT feeling.
I'm 4 minutes into watching this episode of MTV True Life: I Have A High Maintenance Girlfriend and I'm like
I Have a High Maintenance Girlfriend | Ep. Girlfrn | True Life | Full Episode Video | MTV
Coli Thread: http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/94957-true-life-i-have-high-maintenance-girlfriend.html
them two nikkas is straight bytches. ive done some simp shyt but what they are doing is straight crossing the line. they letting these hoes run them and them hoes have no monetary contribution to the relationship.
That's exactly what happens when you start going for what the woman says and start trying to cater to her. Man, I bet you she has a guy on the side who is doing NONE of that, but reaping all the real benefits.
Stop trying to catch these women with gifts. Catch them with conversation, your style, demeanor and you expressing yourself to the fullest. Stop trying to handcuff these broads. If who you are ain't enough to keep her around, let her get in motion. The reason why cats get manipulated and abused by women is that they try way too hard to 'have' women. In other words, they are giving gifts, compromising, making deals, giving up authority and all other kinds of nonsense in order to 'keep her around''. All they are really doing is being that broad's rest haven, because more times than not, she just uses that kind of negro on up while getting mashed out on the side. Never 'have' a woman unless you can have her in the right way... and the right way isn't coming with gifts.
Stop trying to catch these women with gifts. Catch them with conversation, your style, demeanor and you expressing yourself to the fullest. Stop trying to handcuff these broads. If who you are ain't enough to keep her around, let her get in motion. The reason why cats get manipulated and abused by women is that they try way too hard to 'have' women. In other words, they are giving gifts, compromising, making deals, giving up authority and all other kinds of nonsense in order to 'keep her around''. All they are really doing is being that broad's rest haven, because more times than not, she just uses that kind of negro on up while getting mashed out on the side. Never 'have' a woman unless you can have her in the right way... and the right way isn't coming with gifts.
Let's be one hundred in here. We can only blame these females for so much. The reason why so much of this bad behavior from women go on is because men allow it to go on if not actively encourage it.
When some negro is getting fleeced for dinners and gifts, it's because he decides to pay the price that she went and charged. Now that you cats know the knowledge that has been kicked in this thread, there is no real reason for you to be getting okey doked by these females... it is something that you willingly will choose to do and you bear all the blame for your actions. one of the simplest and yet very strongest tools in your defensive toolbox are the words, "No, I can't go for that." If a woman tries to hit you with some nonsense, "No, I can't go for that." She wants to buy her gifts? "No, I can't go for that."
Women will get away with what you let them get away with. That's something you have to accept unless you have this uncannily principled woman, which is extremely rare. If you leave the door open and let it go on and come out being soft, then she'll do it. Never be afraid to tell a woman you ain't about that behavior.
Let's also get back to that prize mentality. We've heard, "You must be the prize." How many of you are just saying the words and how many are actually embodying it? The only reason you allow someone to continually disrespect you and you keep them around is because you view THEM as the prize. You don't feel like you can find another them, but they can find another you. You've built some kind of magical myth of that woman in your mind that she is super valuable, and it's likely built around how she looks. Let me put you on to something powerful. As men, we all love looks, but looks are only cool for about the first 30 or so years of a woman's life and then they start going downhill real fast... So what else do you have left? You have her BEHAVIOR. If her behavior isn't correct, you either tell her to get it correct or you tell her to get on. That's what men who view themselves as prizes do. They recognize that looks aren't permanent and thus, have limited value, and they can see that if a woman's behavior isn't right, she really isn't bringing anything of value, and thus isn't worth keeping around. If she can't get her actions right, she has to get in flight.
When some negro is getting fleeced for dinners and gifts, it's because he decides to pay the price that she went and charged. Now that you cats know the knowledge that has been kicked in this thread, there is no real reason for you to be getting okey doked by these females... it is something that you willingly will choose to do and you bear all the blame for your actions. one of the simplest and yet very strongest tools in your defensive toolbox are the words, "No, I can't go for that." If a woman tries to hit you with some nonsense, "No, I can't go for that." She wants to buy her gifts? "No, I can't go for that."
Women will get away with what you let them get away with. That's something you have to accept unless you have this uncannily principled woman, which is extremely rare. If you leave the door open and let it go on and come out being soft, then she'll do it. Never be afraid to tell a woman you ain't about that behavior.
Let's also get back to that prize mentality. We've heard, "You must be the prize." How many of you are just saying the words and how many are actually embodying it? The only reason you allow someone to continually disrespect you and you keep them around is because you view THEM as the prize. You don't feel like you can find another them, but they can find another you. You've built some kind of magical myth of that woman in your mind that she is super valuable, and it's likely built around how she looks. Let me put you on to something powerful. As men, we all love looks, but looks are only cool for about the first 30 or so years of a woman's life and then they start going downhill real fast... So what else do you have left? You have her BEHAVIOR. If her behavior isn't correct, you either tell her to get it correct or you tell her to get on. That's what men who view themselves as prizes do. They recognize that looks aren't permanent and thus, have limited value, and they can see that if a woman's behavior isn't right, she really isn't bringing anything of value, and thus isn't worth keeping around. If she can't get her actions right, she has to get in flight.
Amen?
Amen.
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One more little piece of knowledge. it's all in the mind. You know the women that are just coocoo for you? it's the ones that you don't really pay attention to, you don't care what they're doing with that honeypot between their legs and you're sure not sweating them. If you ever did decide to chill with some ugly girl/girl you aren't attracted to, you sure won't let her get away with talking saucy to you or any of that. And for some reason, those are the ones that are attracted to you. You will really be on point with your game if you can extend that very same treatment to women you actually are attracted to.
They don't hear you though. I've come to realize you just can't tell certain cats something, so for the most part, I say it once and let it be. If they want to get ran around by these women, that's on them. We can talk this equality, 50/50 stuff until we're blue in the face, and in fact, that would be WAY EASIER than being a leader. The reality is if you aren't leading, you will simply get ran over by these women and disrespected. A woman will absolutely tell you that she wants to be led... that she wants to submit to the right man... but they've been socialized to rebel against something that they really want. The same broads that be talking about they ain't going to listen to a man are the same ones that want a man to pay for their dinner, to choose where to go, to entertain them, to protect them, etc... Basically they want the benefits of submission without having to submit, and these low worth, low value simp negroes rush out to give it to them and get ran over in the process.
Women naturally want to submit, but they've been socialized to think it's wrong and their actions are reinforced by weak men. This is why you see women gravitate towards books like 50 shade of grey, where the dude is dominating that woman... it's why women say they 'like men with a backbone' and they 'like a man that can take control'-- so yes indeed, women want a man they can submit to.
The big, big problem with these broads in this day and age is they have no idea how to make their next choice their best choice. They choose up with negroes who have no business leading and then get blown up because they willingly chose to submit to with men with a self-destructive mindset and then they get angry and rebel against all male leadership. These broads these days are choosing swagger over sense and knowledge, and end up with some loser type dude who pops 4 or 5 babies in all these different women and doesn't take care of any of them.
On the male side of the spectrum, the problem is men want to be snuggle-bears, aka soft, compromising, letting the woman lead negroes and they keep on getting cut in half with a buzzsaw. Let's be real as well. 50/50 sounds wonderful in theory, but it's a fantasy. Someone is always leading. Someone will always have more power. If it's 50/50, then you never will go nowhere because no one is stepping up to the plate and imposing their will. Imagine a car with two steering wheels and two gas pedals... can you see how disastrous a car would be with two drivers?
Here is an example of where these cats learn snugglebear behavior
They be seeing that trash in the media everywhere and get this notion you are supposed to cuddle and cater to the broad. This is how you are supposed to lean towards in reality
Fred Williamson is sitting cool, calm, collected and in control. his woman is all over him, not the other way around
Here is another example. It's a painting, but it expresses the concept very well. "Black Samson" is standing strong and his woman finds enough strength in him to lean on him.
Notice how Ludacris is IN THE FRONT
A woman wants to be able to rest her head on your chest and feel safe because she knows you are a man that handles business. If you are one of those cats that sit there and curl up with her like a kitten, she's going to look at you like you're soft and run your sorry butt over. If you engage in these 5 C's, she'll have you bowing down on your knees, taking your cheese while she's peeling off muttering 'negro please.' If you cater, compliment, cuddle, compromise, and camera-ize with that broad, you WILL get taken advantage of.
The only one you can do in a bit of moderation is a compliment here and there, but the compliment needs to be for her acting the RIGHT WAY towards you. You start giving her too much praise for something like how she looks or start telling her how smart she is just for displaying an inkling of intelligence, then she will start getting this impression she is bigger than you, and whenever a woman gets that idea, she peels off. We've already shown what happens when you start putting these women on camera too much. Joe Buddens and Ice-T got a dose of it. Cats also need to be wary of 'upgrading' these broads too much to where she gets this notion she is bigger than you. Look at those shows where the woman loses all this weight, and the boyfriend that was there with her and stood by her when she lost all that weight ends up getting dismissed and she goes on to a new dude. Nah, that ain't hot. If you upgrade 2 notices, you upgrade your woman 1 notch and that's only if she's continually down with you.
"Me, being a generous guy, I DO like to make sure a woman I'm dealing with is happy, and I know the greatest gift I can give her is allowing her to be in the presence of a real fly guy-- which is me." You need to have this mentality and embody it, and you'll do well. It doesn't mean you're constantly saying cocky, arrogant nonsense. It means you handle your business and stay laced up internally and externally and you never let her get you for less than you're worth and you'll be alright out chea.
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Someone once said for a man RESPECT = LOVE. If a woman don't respect you, she don't love you, point blank.
Without respect, there is no love period. You have to respect her, and she definitely has to respect you. let me use this rather crude, but extra real example for you to get the point. if your woman is sleeping quietly on the bed and you walk over there, pull your jimmy out and pee all on her... can it be said you love her? Absolutely not. We respect those we love. As a man you always have to stand on your respect and constantly think thoughts and engage in actions that are trustworthy.
The fck is up with this dysfunctional outlook on relationships and dealing with the opposite sex? The fact that you guys only operate in these binary extreme examples and viewpoints (and notice how around here its always the woman thats the ravenous, heartless aggressor while the man is always a poor embattled, gentle soul ) tells me one of two things:
A) you guys arent interacting with women very often beyond a superficial level, and thus you get your relationship cues from the extremism that you see on tv and the internet, and personal bitterness.
B) somehow you are attracting lunatic, sociopathic, women --- or you're secretly attracted to such personality types.
Believe it or not, there is a middle ground between having your woman chained to the radiator in the basement, and being under the thumb of some psycho, uncaring bytch.
They don't hear you though. I've come to realize you just can't tell certain cats something, so for the most part, I say it once and let it be. If they want to get ran around by these women, that's on them. We can talk this equality, 50/50 stuff until we're blue in the face, and in fact, that would be WAY EASIER than being a leader. The reality is if you aren't leading, you will simply get ran over by these women and disrespected. A woman will absolutely tell you that she wants to be led... that she wants to submit to the right man... but they've been socialized to rebel against something that they really want. The same broads that be talking about they ain't going to listen to a man are the same ones that want a man to pay for their dinner, to choose where to go, to entertain them, to protect them, etc... Basically they want the benefits of submission without having to submit, and these low worth, low value simp negroes rush out to give it to them and get ran over in the process.
Women naturally want to submit, but they've been socialized to think it's wrong and their actions are reinforced by weak men. This is why you see women gravitate towards books like 50 shade of grey, where the dude is dominating that woman... it's why women say they 'like men with a backbone' and they 'like a man that can take control'-- so yes indeed, women want a man they can submit to.
The big, big problem with these broads in this day and age is they have no idea how to make their next choice their best choice. They choose up with negroes who have no business leading and then get blown up because they willingly chose to submit to with men with a self-destructive mindset and then they get angry and rebel against all male leadership. These broads these days are choosing swagger over sense and knowledge, and end up with some loser type dude who pops 4 or 5 babies in all these different women and doesn't take care of any of them.
On the male side of the spectrum, the problem is men want to be snuggle-bears, aka soft, compromising, letting the woman lead negroes and they keep on getting cut in half with a buzzsaw. Let's be real as well. 50/50 sounds wonderful in theory, but it's a fantasy. Someone is always leading. Someone will always have more power. If it's 50/50, then you never will go nowhere because no one is stepping up to the plate and imposing their will. Imagine a car with two steering wheels and two gas pedals... can you see how disastrous a car would be with two drivers?
Here is an example of where these cats learn snugglebear behavior
They be seeing that trash in the media everywhere and get this notion you are supposed to cuddle and cater to the broad. This is how you are supposed to lean towards in reality
Fred Williamson is sitting cool, calm, collected and in control. his woman is all over him, not the other way around
Here is another example. It's a painting, but it expresses the concept very well. "Black Samson" is standing strong and his woman finds enough strength in him to lean on him.
Notice how Ludacris is IN THE FRONT
A woman wants to be able to rest her head on your chest and feel safe because she knows you are a man that handles business. If you are one of those cats that sit there and curl up with her like a kitten, she's going to look at you like you're soft and run your sorry butt over. If you engage in these 5 C's, she'll have you bowing down on your knees, taking your cheese while she's peeling off muttering 'negro please.' If you cater, compliment, cuddle, compromise, and camera-ize with that broad, you WILL get taken advantage of.
The only one you can do in a bit of moderation is a compliment here and there, but the compliment needs to be for her acting the RIGHT WAY towards you. You start giving her too much praise for something like how she looks or start telling her how smart she is just for displaying an inkling of intelligence, then she will start getting this impression she is bigger than you, and whenever a woman gets that idea, she peels off. We've already shown what happens when you start putting these women on camera too much. Joe Buddens and Ice-T got a dose of it. Cats also need to be wary of 'upgrading' these broads too much to where she gets this notion she is bigger than you. Look at those shows where the woman loses all this weight, and the boyfriend that was there with her and stood by her when she lost all that weight ends up getting dismissed and she goes on to a new dude. Nah, that ain't hot. If you upgrade 2 notices, you upgrade your woman 1 notch and that's only if she's continually down with you.
"Me, being a generous guy, I DO like to make sure a woman I'm dealing with is happy, and I know the greatest gift I can give her is allowing her to be in the presence of a real fly guy-- which is me." You need to have this mentality and embody it, and you'll do well. It doesn't mean you're constantly saying cocky, arrogant nonsense. It means you handle your business and stay laced up internally and externally and you never let her get you for less than you're worth and you'll be alright out chea.
I learned this the hard way...
50/50 will always be 60/40 in a females favor...
When I got tired,I told her it was a wrap....
The game you spittin is so real right now.
Pulling sudden swerves on women for no reason>>>
Watching her go from being too comfortable to being on her toes is a GOAT feeling.
What did you do breh?
Treat them all as if they are ugly....lol