Exactly. When you pull that pretty card from up under a woman, then you aren't going to be acted all intimidated and letting her get away with all kinds of things. Pretty looks usually last until a woman is 30 and then they start going downhill... so why do so many fellas really put such a high value on looks to the extent that they just let things go on?
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Exactly. When you pull that pretty card from up under a woman, then you aren't going to be acted all intimidated and letting her get away with all kinds of things. Pretty looks usually last until a woman is 30 and then they start going downhill... so why do so many fellas really put such a high value on looks to the extent that they just let things go on?
Mickey Kane
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Met this girl last Saturday & the vibe has been crazy. The sh*t is literally going at 150 MPH. I feel in order to keep it sustainable, I need to slow this down before I get caught up. Genuinely considering imposing no sex for a certain amount of time so we can focus on friendship...
Have any of you guys had any experience imposing a period of no sex with women? What have their reactions been like?
Have any of you guys had any experience imposing a period of no sex with women? What have their reactions been like?
what's your perspective on all of it? if you feel like the thread needs some balance let's build. Maybe you can bring another angle to it that some of us didn't factor or think of.
Ive never imposed the restriction myself, but I'd be interested to hear her reaction if you lay down the gauntlet. That said, Ive had relationships where we started out fckin, or taken our time and its all been a mixed bag depending upon the person, in terms of success rate with the female in question.
From where I sit...delaying sex is just delaying the inevitable. The relationship is gunna change once you start having sex, because you are physically engaging with and releasing chemicals within the body. Whether thats the first night, or two years after getting to know each other --- sht is gunna change between the two of you, doggy. It all boils down to how mature the both of you are, how much you like one another, and how much both of you are willing to sacrifice to keep the connection aflame. Time is just that --- time. It wont change much, IMO. Its all situational and depends on the person ur dealing with.
I think age is an important variable for obvious reasons here....the younger she is, the higher the likelihood that she will be frustrated, or confused by your suggestion to delay sex. Good luck tho, fam!
dont be silly. u wait around like a lil pansy someone else will hit..while ur acting all mr. cool. hit it once, fucck her like its ur last time fuccking, then u can back off and let her chase after u
Nintendough
#Kliq
Special friend came through to chill with me last night. She got comfortable and pulled out her phone to answer a text...I asked her if it was an emergency, she said no so I told her to put the phone away or i'd put it away for her. She thought I was joking so I took it from her hand and turned it off. She got mad and I told her to get outta my spot and go talk to whoever it is since the convo was so important.
She gonna be getting the cold shoulder for about a week or so.
philmonroe
Superstar
Nah 50/50 works just like you being the "leader" or she being the "leader" for some cats its just a matter of both parties both agreeing with the direction the relationship is going in. If you/her are being fake about your intentions of course its not going to work cause you can only pretend for so long. Right now you sound similar to the chick that will say I dated ONE person that didn't make 6 figures and it didn't work so I'm only going to date 6 figure dudes from now on. She didn't tell you though she dated 10 6figure dudes and them shyts didn't work either but she still trying to get with those types without the I tried it didn't work never doing it again mindset. If you like being a 50/50 type be that just don't fukk with a chick that isn't on that vibe regardless of looks and you'll probably be good. Cats up here making bad GM decisions then talking about why the team stink mother fukker you do one that picked this team make some better choices lol.I learned this the hard way...
50/50 will always be 60/40 in a females favor...
When I got tired,I told her it was a wrap....
The game you spittin is so real right now.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
So this woman still insists on conducting herself like a hideous creature. She was on a TV show over here called The Apprentice a few years ago where she openly admitted to stealing people's husbands with no shame and everyone hated her because she was just being a c*nt in general. I was glad when this woman called her out:Reading the article, she obviously hasn't changed. However, if a low self esteem 'man' is stupid and weak enough to stay with her, then why would she? People treat you the way you allow them to, so I guess I can't blame her.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
Is this a joke?
These women out here.....