Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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what the hell do you mean by "submission"? one doesnt need to have people around them in a state of submission, in order to assume a leadership role. Thats ridiculous. Are you in submission to your boss and other authorities at work or other areas of life? Of course not.

You guys are completely invested in this mentality, where you want to essentialize all women as inherently evil, stupid, selfish, and incapable of fair mindedness, and enlightened and mature thoughts. Women must be controlled, and dominated according to you and this thread, like they were animals or some sort of sub species. The way you talk about women in this thread is the way st0rmfr0nt talks about blacks and jews.

You pine and lament for a day long since passed where women were socially obligated to remain under the full control of a man, and were socially and legislatively ordered to completely quiet their voice, hopes, dreams, desires, and agency for the whims of men in their life. Its realy demeaning and sick.

I dont know what experiences you've had in your life, but whatever they've been they've turned you guys into bitter, raving lunatics. Relationships are partnerships, and men, and yourself, arent perfect. Jesus, get over yourself.

I lurked in this thread a couple of times and couple of these dudes speak absolute insanity and have somehow convinced themselves that what they're saying is rational. It's like staring at a bad trainwreck. It doesn't make any sense trying to reach them with reason because it's like trying to talk to a scientologist, a Wahhabist jihadist, or a flat earther. I genuinely pity them.
 

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Brehs let's expand list a couple books, that built you up, and or expanded your outlook

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Do you travel yourself? Everytime I make plans with people, they always let you down, Im thinking about doing it myself. These n1ggaz are holding me back.

Yup went to cuba in January by myself and had blast, traveling by yourself is liberating

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Remember the classic crime movie Heat where the brotha who was a felon got out of jail and had to work for this a$$hole manager in some diner?

I was watching it again for the millionth time the other day and what really stood out to me was his woman who was encouraging him to hang on in there until he can find something new. At one point he asked her why does she bother with him, and she told him because she's proud of him and you could just see the love and genuineness in her eyes. I was wondering, damn do they even make 'em like that anymore???

Of course it's a shame what happened to him later in the movie when he could no longer deal with the frustration, but my point is that to me, a loyal sista who stands by and encourages her man at his lowest ebb is the pinnacle of beauty. That's the kind of woman, where, if I became a success later on, I'd treat her like a queen because she's earned it through her actions.
 

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figures he would take her side in his response to you, but it looks like he's only trying to save face. he knows he's engaged to fools gold.

but engaged for over 4 years :dwillhuh: he ain't marrying that trick :pachaha:


tough lesson learned on your behalf, but dating a woman with 3 kids and none of them yours? more likely than not the man will always be getting used up in a relationship like this. it may not be right, but it's almost always a losing situation dating a woman with that many kids not by you. i couldn't do it. she has to subsidize her living expenses and the cost of those chilren somehow. :manny:
 

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I lurked in this thread a couple of times and couple of these dudes speak absolute insanity and have somehow convinced themselves that what they're saying is rational. It's like staring at a bad trainwreck. It doesn't make any sense trying to reach them with reason because it's like trying to talk to a scientologist, a Wahhabist jihadist, or a flat earther. I genuinely pity them.

Who's speaking insanity?
 

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I've always wanted to take a trip alone but thought who would I talk to or cut up with


There were a lot of folks at my resort there solo,

You build a rapport quickly, first night I was by the bar alone, got invited to a beach party I went and hanged out with that crew for like half of the time I was there.

When i was in havana went to a club jjst sat down at te bar again, folks came up to ne where you from.

Im like canada, rest of tge night at the club Was hanging at their booth.

I had the best week of my life

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yeah, you 'follow' jesus... a mythical man that according to the bible disrespected his own mom as a child, was in his mid 30s and never even had a relationship with a woman and chose to turn the other cheek, but im supposed to base my whole life and how i view women on his words? and this dude was a man in your eyes? nikka please. :laff:

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