Blew a phat load in my girl some days ago now she late 
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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skyrunner1
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Mission AccomplishedBlew a phat load in my girl some days ago now she late
@VertigoKnight
Met a Paag the other day, 25, great body, good face. Turns out the biggest red flag is she works as a cabaret. (Provides “company” to men)
Met a Paag the other day, 25, great body, good face. Turns out the biggest red flag is she works as a cabaret. (Provides “company” to men)
Blew a phat load in my girl some days ago now she late
I got like a million things to say about the dinner date conversation, but the easy stuff
To make any of this better, it's taking the face value answer, and go deeper.
Her - "I like pizza"
You - "Lemme guess, you're a cheese girl?"
Her - Because she's a female, you're either 100% right, 100% wrong, but in any case - "You must not know bout me" - she can't let your idea of her, and who she is go unchallenged. She wants to define who she is..in your head. But lemme hold back on that level 3 stuff.
Level 2 - Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie: Summary and Lessons
I do all of the above, but I add it to the 3rd level, my style.
Level 3 - I'm not politely chatting with a broad having a conversation, I'm trying to create a moment that sticks in her mind.
Exes I hate, that hate me, still reach out from time to time, because they want to talk to ME.
Most guys think about conversations strictly on a content basis. They're looking for words and hype lines, and want to have the gift of gab, always saying funny stuff. They want to be Bernie Mac on a date, keep the chick entertained.
I think that's the wrong way to approach that dinner date conversation.
If anything, she's there to entertain me, I'm not looking for her approval so we can sleep together in a few hours.
Moreover, if she's trying to gain my approval, the more likely it is, that we will sleep together...
I want to do 2 things
So if she's into astrology, i'll ask her about that.
If she's into tarot cards, I'll ask her about that.
If she believes in ghosts, I'll ask her about that.
I'll ask her about the wisdom she may have received from an grandmother.
I'll ask her to describe going to the beach.
"Have you ever put your hand in a barrel of kidney beans? Do you know that feeling, that sound?"
I will pay attention to show she uses her cutlery, and tell her, "I can see the little girl in you by the way you use your fork"
I'll ask stuff like What's your boss like?
Who do you think they go home too?
If she asks me a dumb question about my job or something equally inane,
1) I'll give her a face of displeasure/disgust and then say in the right tone.
2) "C'mon, you've dated a bunch of other suits before, WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW?"
The type of conversations you need to have with a broad - should have her in AWE of you. Like she's never met a guy like you, had a date like this before.
And you should be stealing mercilessly.
Any good line you read, you see in a TV show, you hear in a movie, in a song, you need to bring it to bear when you talk to chicks.
It's true that they watch porn, but they read a lot more romance and erotica.
Your words + your delivery is the thing that breaks her.
The entire conversation, the entire date IS FOREPLAY.
I generally agree with everything everyone else has said on the topic, but I think you can do a lot more with these females.
I mean them boys in Afghanistan got UK chicks to fly into a warzone and become brides, all over text messages
You can do a whole lot more with a chick in 90 minutes over some Korean BBQ.
- Avoid boring topics like - where'd you grow up, where'd you go to school, do you have siblings,
- but if she brings this BS up - have stuff ready ALWAYS.
- I have a great story about my baby sister and my baby brother, that I love to tell, if someone asks me
- You need a good story about
- where you grew up
- mom and dad and siblings and Uncle Archie
- your schooling
- your job
- the places you've lived
- The place you live now
- your car
- your job, your boss, your co-workers
- but if she brings this BS up - have stuff ready ALWAYS.
- Avoid political and religious topics - If you have differences, you can't recover from them.
- Avoid Buzz Words that set broads off
- Broads
- Females
- Hoes, bytches, Thots
- Easy topics
- Food - favorites, most she spent, cheapest, rowdiest, quitest, best food,
- for my ghetto children (c) Juvie - Will she sneak Popeyes Bucket into the movie theater?
- Music
- last album she bought
- last song that made her cry
- does she like sad songs
- song she knows by heart
- Song she can't help but to sing if it ever comes on
- Movies and TV and Books
- This should be so easy it's not funny. Maybe I'm used to dealing with smart chicks, but even dumb ones got things to say
- If you can get a FEMALE to explain to you the intricacies of Love and Hip Hop and why those chicks do what the do....
- Celebs
- The People/Environment around you
- FMK - Eff, Marry, Kill - you can do it with the people there, or with celebs
- Food - favorites, most she spent, cheapest, rowdiest, quitest, best food,
- Be careful with spicy topics like dating/relationships/sex/gender roles - Some of y'all can't wait to Kevin Samuels a broad,, talmbout what she bring to the table, and do her degrees keep her warm at night. (Them degrees pay for the house and the utilities, so the answer is yes)
- Weed Smoking and Dranking and other things - If you partake, this might be a deal maker/deal breaker. I don't mind a wine drinker, I kick weed smokers to the curb
- Digging into her dating patterns and history
- deal makers and deal breakers
- What she says she finds attractive, versus what her ex boyfriends look like
- Marriage/Kids
- Her parents
To make any of this better, it's taking the face value answer, and go deeper.
Her - "I like pizza"
You - "Lemme guess, you're a cheese girl?"
Her - Because she's a female, you're either 100% right, 100% wrong, but in any case - "You must not know bout me" - she can't let your idea of her, and who she is go unchallenged. She wants to define who she is..in your head. But lemme hold back on that level 3 stuff.
Level 2 - Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie: Summary and Lessons
- Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language
- Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
- Talk in terms of the other person’s interests
- Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely
- Let the other person do a great deal of the talking
- etc -
I do all of the above, but I add it to the 3rd level, my style.
Level 3 - I'm not politely chatting with a broad having a conversation, I'm trying to create a moment that sticks in her mind.
Exes I hate, that hate me, still reach out from time to time, because they want to talk to ME.
Most guys think about conversations strictly on a content basis. They're looking for words and hype lines, and want to have the gift of gab, always saying funny stuff. They want to be Bernie Mac on a date, keep the chick entertained.
I think that's the wrong way to approach that dinner date conversation.
If anything, she's there to entertain me, I'm not looking for her approval so we can sleep together in a few hours.
Moreover, if she's trying to gain my approval, the more likely it is, that we will sleep together...
I want to do 2 things
- I want to see her - the real her
- I want to spark her imagination.
So if she's into astrology, i'll ask her about that.
If she's into tarot cards, I'll ask her about that.
If she believes in ghosts, I'll ask her about that.
I'll ask her about the wisdom she may have received from an grandmother.
I'll ask her to describe going to the beach.
"Have you ever put your hand in a barrel of kidney beans? Do you know that feeling, that sound?"
I will pay attention to show she uses her cutlery, and tell her, "I can see the little girl in you by the way you use your fork"
I'll ask stuff like What's your boss like?
Who do you think they go home too?
If she asks me a dumb question about my job or something equally inane,
1) I'll give her a face of displeasure/disgust and then say in the right tone.
2) "C'mon, you've dated a bunch of other suits before, WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW?"
The type of conversations you need to have with a broad - should have her in AWE of you. Like she's never met a guy like you, had a date like this before.
And you should be stealing mercilessly.
Any good line you read, you see in a TV show, you hear in a movie, in a song, you need to bring it to bear when you talk to chicks.
It's true that they watch porn, but they read a lot more romance and erotica.
Your words + your delivery is the thing that breaks her.
The entire conversation, the entire date IS FOREPLAY.
I generally agree with everything everyone else has said on the topic, but I think you can do a lot more with these females.
I mean them boys in Afghanistan got UK chicks to fly into a warzone and become brides, all over text messages
You can do a whole lot more with a chick in 90 minutes over some Korean BBQ.
I still ain’t meet my PAAG yet@VertigoKnight
Met a Paag the other day, 25, great body, good face. Turns out the biggest red flag is she works as a cabaret. (Provides “company” to men)
Gotta find me some
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
@VertigoKnight
Met a Paag the other day, 25, great body, good face. Turns out the biggest red flag is she works as a cabaret. (Provides “company” to men)
Chick might as well walk around wit one of these in her hand
These hoes make it easy to bush 
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
I’ve dealt with anxiety from the aftermath of hookups/spontaneous moments with dates. I’ve spoke about getting tested and informing your partners on here, but my last few interactions have been spur-of-the-moment.
Being young and dumb isn’t a excuse because I know better from stories irl and on here, as well as a baseline of sexual education
I understand there’s risks with anything you do in life, and sex is no different. It just takes the fun out of the act for me.
Even if you take every precaution, you can still catch something, so ion know man.
Man say. I mentioned it in here before but I met two chicks on dating apps that told me they had herpes.
It made me think. How many women running around taking meds and since they don’t display any symptoms don’t tell their prospective partners they have herpes. It’s a dangerous game. Check the medicine cabinet before you smash.
The cynical side of me says the two ladies that told me felt brave enough because they know that MOST men will still smash even if I won’t, and partly because they are decent women.
All you can do is thoroughly vet a woman (if that’s even 100% possible) and stay strapped up. Best case scenario is to both get tested before you smash.
Digital Omen
All Star
I understand the list except for "females"
That's a bad word now?
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Some people use female as a derogatory term. It’s the context around it.
Same with woman.
Men cant tell women about them serlves period even when a woman ask lmfao.
nikkas gotta start trolling hoes. Troll her or legit say you dont want to talk about something. We gotta stop walking on pins and needles around old ass folks who beg us to be treated equally.
If a bytch aint ya wife just keep convo on lighthearted shyt
skyrunner1
Superstar
Its become another gotcha thing on social media for feminist types to write essays on, so if you meet someone influenced by social media (which a large percentage of women are) they will regurgitate the essays that have been written in recent years..
Something about the word females reduce them to the reproductive abilities and how animals can be female also.. and no Im not joking, Im not lying..
Digital Omen
All Star
Better not join the military then...I remember in boot camp our RDC's yelling "female! where's your cover?"
Was walking from a spot Monday, and this woman, attractive, South Asian/Indian is looking harder than usual at me, and we kinda of pass each other, and she stops me and says "I know you", and it takes a second, but I say "oh I remember you too"
She used to work at this boutique market by my house, and we used to flirt like a few years back.
So, she's like "I feel like we were supposed to do something", responded "we still can", so she gives me she gives me her new number, she still had mine saved, and we talk for a minute, hit her a few hours later, and she hearts the text where I suggested a place or two we can hang. Nothing else.
Keep forgetting to just say I'm going to call, and not text, so at least people will expect it. So tiresome how emojis/social media response have blunted effective communication.
She used to work at this boutique market by my house, and we used to flirt like a few years back.
So, she's like "I feel like we were supposed to do something", responded "we still can", so she gives me she gives me her new number, she still had mine saved, and we talk for a minute, hit her a few hours later, and she hearts the text where I suggested a place or two we can hang. Nothing else.
Keep forgetting to just say I'm going to call, and not text, so at least people will expect it. So tiresome how emojis/social media response have blunted effective communication.