Keep it cool. Be that cool brotha
This is an important framework you need to add into your mentality. I want you to sit back and every interaction you have with a woman, you need to sit back and reflect on it and how it would look if she shared your interaction with her homegirl or someone else. What would her she say to her homegirl and what would her homegirl say about it once she heard? The reality is that women DO share what you do with others. But this is also important because it gives you more insight to how you are coming off towards women.
So say you were chopping it with babygirl over text message and she showed her homegirl. What do you imagine them saying? "Awww he's such a sweetie." Or "Mmm, he got it going on!" or "hahaha that dude is so corny! He stays hitting you up and buying you things." "I know girl, haha I get whatever I want whenever I want from him!"
Now think about what people would think if that conversation was made public. Would they be like, "Man, that dude knows how to talk to women!" Or would they be like,"Haha look at that jello-soft dude over there cupcaking!"
You have to come with the mentality that anything you say and do will be made public with a woman, so that means you always need to come real with it and fresh with it. Sneaking around with some charmin-soft conversation is a no-no!
This is an important framework you need to add into your mentality. I want you to sit back and every interaction you have with a woman, you need to sit back and reflect on it and how it would look if she shared your interaction with her homegirl or someone else. What would her she say to her homegirl and what would her homegirl say about it once she heard? The reality is that women DO share what you do with others. But this is also important because it gives you more insight to how you are coming off towards women.
So say you were chopping it with babygirl over text message and she showed her homegirl. What do you imagine them saying? "Awww he's such a sweetie." Or "Mmm, he got it going on!" or "hahaha that dude is so corny! He stays hitting you up and buying you things." "I know girl, haha I get whatever I want whenever I want from him!"
Now think about what people would think if that conversation was made public. Would they be like, "Man, that dude knows how to talk to women!" Or would they be like,"Haha look at that jello-soft dude over there cupcaking!"
You have to come with the mentality that anything you say and do will be made public with a woman, so that means you always need to come real with it and fresh with it. Sneaking around with some charmin-soft conversation is a no-no!
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that dude, he smooth?
. That entitlement attitude makes women unattractive and not worthy to date, much less wife. These broads think that they can be Ally McBeal and all that shyt they see on tv, but really, they still make lower than men.