Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:salute: I just graduated last Dec from SJ State and I still saw dudes simpin' out to help a broad with her assignments, exams, and reports.

Dudes need to learn to not :bow: to a pretty bish

Happened to me once when I was 18 & @ community college. :pacspit: only had myself to blame for lacking the dignity to say :whoa: "I ain't going to let you snatch up my hard work and pass it off as your own".

Anyway hopefully the LADodgersFitted dude will learn from that and not let that shyt happen again.

Not sure if you saw my post on here ages ago explaining my own situation. But I definitely learned from it. Im 21 right now btw and this occured during the previous semester when i was 20.

its a shame you will tell a girl you will have the 2 chapters for the take home test and meet her a certain time at 4pm and u both agree(the open book test was easy cuz most was online and i got help from tutoring)....

u get some bullshyt about "thank u so much i really appreciate it". by the way the reason i was doing this was because previously although im the one who usually helped with lab work, one time when i asked her to send me certain calculations, i did not hear any response and thought i was being ignored...

which pissed me off because there were 1 or 2 times where she would ask for a certain thing about the work and if i did not respond in an hour or 2 she would say somethng demanding through text "helooooo"

so the next morning she is asking me when i see her if i got the work she sent me.and i think she is just playing games when she takes her phone to show me....and i just ignore her.

i then found out later in the week for some reason it got sent to my spam folder and i saw 2 emails in there(i had asked her to send it again cuz i never got anything).

anyway i apologized cuz it was my mistake and i helped her out with that final take home test(everyone pretty much copied from each other :laff: )

as i explained before after everyone handed in the take home test on the last day...we were then all given the final exam...

again ppl were copying off each other, and i helped her out......

now a common misconception on here was that i decided to shun her to the side becuz of the cheating....

basically i did not find out till later from an email from the professor when i asked him how i got an F, where he told me we had identical answers. when i asked her wat her final grade was for the class ...she told me a C minus and i told her i had gotten an F and she asked me how was that possible when i did the take home test, all the labs,etc.

i then told her idk and she messaged me something like "Smh well i can't believe i have to stay back one more semester cuz i need a C or better and the school i attend doesn't accept C minus"

I then forward the email the professor sent about ____and me cheating.....and she responded about how "WHy are you using my name to him. it was the OTHER people in the class who were cheating. Ask him about yourself not me!!!" :why:

now obviously she thought i was throwing her under the bus or something when i forwarded the email, and i had to let her know____ i never used her name.....that was just the email the professor sent when i asked how i failed.

Her response.........










"K"





:why:


Then several days later i just say in a sarcastic way "your welcome too"


Days later when the new semester starts(january 28) she sends me an email asking "u have the textbook still"(the same textbook i had already given her the pdf version of last year already)

I then message her back "Dont contact me. Thanks" and so far so good

But man its good guys like me and you learned real real quick about these broads out there. just straight up demons. u ignore me but all of a sudden u want a favor im worth talking to?

gtfo. as i said already i ran into her about a week ago and she turned her head to the side and obviously knew she cant break me anymore
 

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One thing yall need to stop doing is saying the term "She is out of my league". Thats like putting a woman on a pedestal or above you. NO WOMAN on this earth is better then you.It's like this.... Muhammad Ali wasnt the biggest,the fastest boxer of his day but he is the greatest.He didnt become the greatest thru skill only it it was mainly because of his CONFIDENCE you guys see what im say. You may not be the best looking,richest or have the best game but no woman is out of your league.You should have confidence that if Beyonce was single you could bag her. Also every woman is expendable....you shouldnt have to beg or plead with them. "Baby baby i cant live without you" etc...its time for us men to take back the power.

Amen
Guys sell themselves short.

No chick Is unattainable, which leads me back to dumping the hot girl one time in your life to build up immunity



Sent from royalty breh
 

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Not sure if you saw my post on here ages ago explaining my own situation. But I definitely learned from it. Im 21 right now btw and this occured during the previous semester when i was 20.

its a shame you will tell a girl you will have the 2 chapters for the take home test and meet her a certain time at 4pm and u both agree(the open book test was easy cuz most was online and i got help from tutoring)....

u get some bullshyt about "thank u so much i really appreciate it". by the way the reason i was doing this was because previously although im the one who usually helped with lab work, one time when i asked her to send me certain calculations, i did not hear any response and thought i was being ignored...

which pissed me off because there were 1 or 2 times where she would ask for a certain thing about the work and if i did not respond in an hour or 2 she would say somethng demanding through text "helooooo"

so the next morning she is asking me when i see her if i got the work she sent me.and i think she is just playing games when she takes her phone to show me....and i just ignore her.

i then found out later in the week for some reason it got sent to my spam folder and i saw 2 emails in there(i had asked her to send it again cuz i never got anything).

anyway i apologized cuz it was my mistake and i helped her out with that final take home test(everyone pretty much copied from each other :laff: )

as i explained before after everyone handed in the take home test on the last day...we were then all given the final exam...

again ppl were copying off each other, and i helped her out......

now a common misconception on here was that i decided to shun her to the side becuz of the cheating....

basically i did not find out till later from an email from the professor when i asked him how i got an F, where he told me we had identical answers. when i asked her wat her final grade was for the class ...she told me a C minus and i told her i had gotten an F and she asked me how was that possible when i did the take home test, all the labs,etc.

i then told her idk and she messaged me something like "Smh well i can't believe i have to stay back one more semester cuz i need a C or better and the school i attend doesn't accept C minus"

I then forward the email the professor sent about ____and me cheating.....and she responded about how "WHy are you using my name to him. it was the OTHER people in the class who were cheating. Ask him about yourself not me!!!" :why:

now obviously she thought i was throwing her under the bus or something when i forwarded the email, and i had to let her know____ i never used her name.....that was just the email the professor sent when i asked how i failed.

Her response.........










"K"





:why:


Then several days later i just say in a sarcastic way "your welcome too"


Days later when the new semester starts(january 28) she sends me an email asking "u have the textbook still"(the same textbook i had already given her the pdf version of last year already)

I then message her back "Dont contact me. Thanks" and so far so good

But man its good guys like me and you learned real real quick about these broads out there. just straight up demons. u ignore me but all of a sudden u want a favor im worth talking to?

gtfo. as i said already i ran into her about a week ago and she turned her head to the side and obviously knew she cant break me anymore

I lurk this thread the majority of the time and read a lot more than I post. But yea I do recall seeing your post about that situation it's fukking whack.

You got yourself into a shytty situation but at least you executed good damage control breh.

My situation was a take-home exam for a accounting class but at least the bytch had the decency to re-word the answers so everything was "cool". Anyway I agree me and you both learned a valuable lesson and won't put ourselves in a similar predicament again even outside of a fukking school setting like in a future work-place.

And honestly I'm not even bitter bout it I'm not one of those "I HATE bytchES" type of dudes i learned that I was being a suckah and got treated like one, simple as that.

I sweat to god :laff: being able to say :no: to a pretty face (& broads in general) is one of the most powerful tools I learned to utilize when I was in my early 20s when it comes to dealing with females.
 

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Glad to see ya'll learning something up in here. We ain't paying no rent, ain't being little homework buddies, ain't paying for hair and nails. Tell here I ain't tricking it if we kicking it. I see ya'll sharpening up ya'lls game as time goes by and that's what it's all about.
 

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One thing yall need to stop doing is saying the term "She is out of my league". Thats like putting a woman on a pedestal or above you. NO WOMAN on this earth is better then you.It's like this.... Muhammad Ali wasnt the biggest,the fastest boxer of his day but he is the greatest.He didnt become the greatest thru skill only it it was mainly because of his CONFIDENCE you guys see what im say. You may not be the best looking,richest or have the best game but no woman is out of your league.You should have confidence that if Beyonce was single you could bag her. Also every woman is expendable....you shouldnt have to beg or plead with them. "Baby baby i cant live without you" etc...its time for us men to take back the power.

That's exactly right. Money doesn't keep a woman. Neither does jewels, fame or that other nonsense. Your charisma, actions as a man and her respecting your form of leadership does. It's why you see a lot of women who 'have it together' with dudes we might consider 'losers'... they might be sitting around playing madden all day, living off a woman, but she just goes crazy over him.

Let's be real. Certain women DO chase after wealth, but is that the women you really want? And more times than not, after they break some guy for his change, she's in the wind.

Never worry about whether or not 'you are in a woman's league.' What does that even mean? Different women all like different things, and a man only thinks he's out of a woman's league because of his imagination. The only reason a lot of guys disclassify themselves out of a woman's league is because she's pretty, and he gets intimidated. But let there be an ugly girl that makes more money than the pretty one. Do you think he'll be 'out of her league'? Men place way too much value on pretty looks and sex. When you lower the worth of those elements in your mind, all of a sudden, Miss Superbad isn't that impressive. Let me show you what I mean. Imagine you see a 10 walking towards you... maybe she looks like Mariah Carey or Stacey Dash. A lot of cats will sit and be like, "Whoa, she's out of my league." Then picture yourself talking with your boys and they bring up that woman that passed by and tell you that she was a prostitute, now does porn movies, and she was just at a homies' houseparty doing a strip show. Now what do you think about her? You start to think YOU'RE out of HER league. That's just how powerful perception is. Never disqualify YOURSELF. Let her sample and choose on her own volition whether or not she wants to choose you.

Once you can get past overvaluing sex and looks you'll realize at the core that relationships are all about two people connecting. If you can embody that knowledge, you will pull women you couldn't imagine yourself pulling before.
 

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I gotta thank this thread and it's participants, I haven't been able to respond to some of yaw (sorry) cause I've been too busy stunting on these hoes.
 

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Just to sharpen you up some, you have to lead a woman into more than a relationship... you have to have an objective that is bigger than her that you are really trying to accomplish, because once she is really with you, she will be following you... but where are you going? Since you are young, you have plenty of time to answer that question, but it's a VERY important one to answer.

In terms of what do you hope to accomplish, how do you envision your life, say 10 to 20 years from now, and how would she fit into that picture? Would you be effectively able to communicate that to her and communicate what she would need to do to help you obtain that goal?

The last two questions are very important as well. Keep turning those questions over in your mind until you start finding answers, and how you deal with women will become much more clear to you.
I hear that man, but tell me if you've ever got that feeling that no girl that you see is good enough for you?

I think those are good questions to ask, but should we even be thinking about something like that when we've yet to find a chick suitable for ourselves? Or is it better to plan out before we do?

Also have you ever had a situation happen when you meet a chick that's not in your class, but goes to your school and so you talk to her and you wanna ask for her number but it's your first time talking to her and yaw ain't really vibing that much but you're still vibing, do you ask for her number right then and there bc you're afraid you'll never run into her again or do you hold it off until yaw run into each other and she's giving you those signs?
 

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At the moment, I'm not really doing a checklist, but I really do love checklists because they give me a razor sharp way of knowing exactly what I need to accomplish. Organization is definitely something I will get sharper at with time, but it's not a primary focus for me right now.

I'm more of an off-the-cuff, improv type of guy, so what I'm really working on is figuring exactly what it is I want and how I want it, and when I clearly have that in mind, then I can devise a highly efficient and effective checklist to obtain that.

I hear that, you're going to have to post some milestones about your improvements, I'm interested to hear about them tbh
 

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I hear that man, but tell me if you've ever got that feeling that no girl that you see is good enough for you?

I think those are good questions to ask, but should we even be thinking about something like that when we've yet to find a chick suitable for ourselves? Or is it better to plan out before we do?

Also have you ever had a situation happen when you meet a chick that's not in your class, but goes to your school and so you talk to her and you wanna ask for her number but it's your first time talking to her and yaw ain't really vibing that much but you're still vibing, do you ask for her number right then and there bc you're afraid you'll never run into her again or do you hold it off until yaw run into each other and she's giving you those signs?

I think you said you were younger, so you have some time, but as you continue to deal with these women, you will start to learning what you do and don't want from a woman. Something that I do recommend you developing is an ability to not be ashamed of wanting exactly what you want. If you want a woman that can cook and clean, then want that. If you like a sweet, submissive woman, want that. You may not get every single one of those traits in the women you choose to deal with, but don't be afraid to want that and don't like 'feminists' or anyone try to shame you out of that.

In this day and age it IS hard to find a woman you want for the long-term because of the effect television and the neo-feminist movement has been having on women... so you very well may get a girl that isn't really what you want her to be at first, but that's where you step in and teach her and show her things.
 

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Your Girlfriend Is A Raging Slut! How Does That Make You Feel? - YouTube

Whats yalls take on this lames opinion. Almost threw up in my mouth and cant believe i watched the whole thing.
Edit: On second thought, worth the full watch. Delusions

This nikka went off on some other shyt at 14:40: :lolhov: :lolhov:

If you wanna do something really crazy say there's a girl that you been seeing for a while, bring a friend over to fukk her right in front of you. You train yourself not to get jealous.

Look at the comments on this:scusthov:

There is something I dont get !!!
Why the fukk having sex is bad ?! Why the fukk a girl who fukk in a bathroom is worst than having fukked in a bed (the only thing who changes is there is bath in place of a bed).
Or having sex with 2 guys at the same time ?!!  It's nothing, it's just 1 MORE GUY normally !!1 xDDDDD
If you guys are pissed off because of that, really, I understand why you dont get laid often... xDDDD

Man, this video levelled me out hard. I found out some history about my girlfriend... Some real next level content. It made me feel sick to the core, I hadn't felt like that in so long.
I thought I was past that immature shyt. I'm glad it happened because it has exposed some untreated issues I have.

I think you are wrong if a chick has a history of having sex with multiple people it doesn't mean anything because if you are a true fukking player which you can become if you work on it the chick will not fukk around on you!!!

Talk about double standards....A woman having sex with 2 guys in one night suddenly makes her a slut huh? Your personality is ugly and I'm glad I'm not you.

Looking for that perfect, loyal, virgin wife, eh bro?
Dude don't be a loser! Every girl you meet will at least have had sex more than once. Deal with it!

For all the betas..just know..coming from a girl..girls LIKE sex. Alphas know this..30% of guys are having sex with 80% of the women..those guys are alphas and not insecure..the rest of you guys cant fathom women like sex and thats true..just not with you.

Look what he said himself:

Hot girls tell you whatever you want to hear. Most have sex with quite a few cute boys by their mid 20's, but "forget". These are mindsets that have gotten me laid- ie: girls fukk non judgemental guys. I usually have 5 to 10 GF's and fukk new ones every week- along with baby momma and 2 kids. Some have been with few guys, others a lot. Usually slutty ones give me outrageous sex, conservative more boring. Focus on your pleasure, and mindsets that make girls COMFORTABLE to sleep with you. -Tyler

:comeon:

And this nikka here:

Holy shyt this was a major flaw in my game and I couldn't see it. Made me realise there is actually no excuse for jealousy. High level people don't think like that! I'm gonna rewire my brain to have that mindset, It's like letting go of a heavy judgmental weight. Won't be easy but seems very worth it! This video rocked my world! Thanks Tyler.

:lolhov::lolhov::lolhov::lolhov: :lolhov:

How lines of coke does this guy do before these vids?
Is this what we have now? Is the the face of game? Man. The morons are jumping on board the ship and now we have this.
Something about this creepy little gnome makes me physically sick. There's something oily and fragile about the man. Like I could slap him and he would cry and then come back with a 9mm.

:salute:
 

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In regards to that ring question, for further clarification. Engagement ring, yeah, I'll take that back. Marriage ring, she can keep that.
 

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I read one of the reponses to it, and it was true as fukk:

Good Luck Chuck
February 27th, 2013 at 3:03 pm

The PUA community likes to try to convince themselves that if a man isn’t finding “good” women, it must be that he isn’t trying hard enough or that he lacks the skills or the value to attract such a woman. Even Rollo himself has said “Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better” or something like that.

I have watched this all play out over the past 20 some years. It is officially bad and it is only getting worse. Sure, I can wish I was better and I can try harder and I can work to increase my actual and perceived value, but for what? At the end of the day all I am doing is competing to win a trophy that has been passed around by a bunch of “winners” who came before me.

When I broke up with the “stripper” a couple of years ago I remember thinking to myself- is this what things have come to? Of course, this was an alcoholic pot head pill popping hippie who wore a corset to work and enjoyed a line of coke every now and then. She was on the far side of the bell curve. But how much better were the ones who came before or after her?

The 20 year old with some dudes name tattooed on her tit. The 30 something career girl who liked to pound scotch on the rocks before peeling out of the parking lot when she saw me talking to another girl. The 40 year old eastern european who wrote the book on riding the cock carousel. The sweet little 22 yr old latina who also happens to ride motorcycles and participate in orgies.

I could go on and on. I am sure the first thing that would pop into most people’s minds after hearing this list is that it is probably just the type of girls I choose or the places I meet them. But is it? To an extent, yes, but I have seen a change over the years. Most girls aren’t coke snorting strippers, but as the bar for acceptable behavior gets lower it drags everyone down with it. Yesterdays good girl now has 3 tattoos, a dozen sex partners (not including oral sex, of course!), is 20lbs overweight, and has an oversize attitude to match her oversize ass.

The US is broken beyond repair. At least during our lifetime.



See, America tolerated bullshyt behavior from women and now all of this is happening. Pretty much, you have to go overseas to find a chick that doesn't have flaws that can be fixed.
 

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I hear that, you're going to have to post some milestones about your improvements, I'm interested to hear about them tbh

Confidence is way up. Dress game is way sharper. Cologne game is smooth. I don't sit around playing with women. I got more swole from hitting them weights consistently.

I mean it's kind of coo being that guy that women say you're 'sexy' or 'hot' when you're not around or even to your face. It's kind of crazy when you notice that women never really look you in your eyes and kind of hold their head down when talking or looking at you... or when you can see a woman look very nervous when talking to you. It just starts to reflect the increased value you are starting to represent. And that's from the 'looks', aka outward standpoint.

Sharpening my conversation up, as well as getting my knowledge up has been a substantial improvement as well. Sitting back and formulating powerful principles to stand on is another aspect. Knowing that it's not my job as a man to cater to women but rather have them cater to me is another excellent aspect.

Breaking free from those simp characteristics of how I THOUGHT things were supposed to go and gaining the knowledge of what really works and starting to apply that. I'm starting to embody a much more powerful philosophy of living and manhood than ever before.

I got things I still want to work on, but that's what makes it so fun... knowing you always got something to work on and to improve and looking at yourself as wine-- you get better with time.
I honestly feel that sometimes I have to be careful about talking with a woman because I can start to say things to have her REALLY into me. The best thing is, I'm internalizing it all and I am BECOMING the man I was meant to be instead of running corny scripts and lines and trying to 'win over' this or that woman by reflecting the man I think she would want. As a man, you should NOT reflect the women. She should become a reflection of you.
 
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