Don't waste the years of your life with an unstable woman. If you meet one, run away, and run fast
Sent from royalty breh
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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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te value of the virtuous woman. First, her value is seen in her virtuosity. "Who can find a virtuous woman?" "for her price is far above rubies" and "Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised" (vs. 10; 30). Value can be determined by contribution. In the case of the virtuous woman, she greatly contributes to her husband, children, the poor, society, and to herself (vs. 11, 12, cp. 12: 4; 15; 20; 24; 17, 22). Be impressed, dear reader, with the fact that the woman is praised for qualities that she herself has developed! The value of women to any culture, society, and the church of Christ cannot be over emphasized. Women can contribute to overall goodness and moral integrity or they can tear down and destroy. Women are often more resistant to moral decay and, therefore, serve as a restraint. When women "become one of the boys," so to speak, society is in for trouble (much of what is happening today). God's ideal woman stands in sharp contrast with the too often modern woman with her tattoos, cursing, and selfish and shallow promiscuous lifestyle.
She attends to the needs of her family. A cursory examination of Proverbs 31: 10-31 reveals the emphasis and priority of God's woman: her family. She is seen busy in activities that pertain to the good and well being of her husband and children. She does good to her husband and not evil and "she riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household" (vs. 12; 15). She is not concerned with the threats of nature, because she has made ready for her family against nature (vs. 21). The fact of her primary concern being her family is seen in the language: "She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness" (vs. 27).
The teaching of Proverbs 31 is in perfect harmony with the teaching of the New Testament relative to the role of woman. In Paul's inspired epistle to Titus, Paul says regarding older women: "That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed" (Tit. 2: 4, 5).
The characteristics of the virtuous woman. When we consider the characteristics of God's woman, we can see why she is "ishshal chayil," a woman of force and power." Let us briefly mention how she is described and appreciate the fact that these are not surface traits, but they actually emanate from her character. She fears the Lord; hence she is characterized by piety (vs. 30). Purity and loyalty abound (vs. 10, 11, 12). She is kind, benevolent, and selfless (vs. 26, 20, 15, 20, 27). As opposed to bitterness and complaining, cheerfulness is seen (vs. 21). She is wise and dignified (vs. 26; 22).
An outstanding characteristic of the virtuous woman is her industry. This zeal and resourcefulness is seen in the promotion of her household (vs. 13, 15, 19, 21, 27). She is a manufacturer, merchant, and landowner (vs. 24; 24; 16). She even cultivates the soil (vs. 16). Herein, please allow me to gently issue a challenge: Who said the godly wife and mother cannot be involved in enterprise outside her physical house? Look again at the virtuous woman (vs. 24; 16). She is presented as what we would call an entrepreneur. She is involved in such enterprise, yet, does not neglect her family!
The reward of being a virtuous woman. First, be impressed with the fact that God's woman is a woman of real power. Which is more far reaching: to work primarily at a secular career and promote a company in providing some often whimsical product or contributing to the very foundation of society and mankind itself, the family? Herein is power! Too often great women go unnoticed and without praise. Not so with the godly woman of our text. We read, "Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also and he praiseth her" and "Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates" (vs. 28; 31). Appreciate the fact that the wife has personal recognition, "let her own works praise her in the gates." What a statement, especially when viewed in the Jewish setting in which it is made!
only once in my life did i come across a virtuous women and i blew it for the jezebels and promiscuities of this world
You only got one chance brehs if you ever come across this rare jewel in the sand
do not mess it up
She attends to the needs of her family. A cursory examination of Proverbs 31: 10-31 reveals the emphasis and priority of God's woman: her family. She is seen busy in activities that pertain to the good and well being of her husband and children. She does good to her husband and not evil and "she riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household" (vs. 12; 15). She is not concerned with the threats of nature, because she has made ready for her family against nature (vs. 21). The fact of her primary concern being her family is seen in the language: "She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness" (vs. 27).
The teaching of Proverbs 31 is in perfect harmony with the teaching of the New Testament relative to the role of woman. In Paul's inspired epistle to Titus, Paul says regarding older women: "That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed" (Tit. 2: 4, 5).
The characteristics of the virtuous woman. When we consider the characteristics of God's woman, we can see why she is "ishshal chayil," a woman of force and power." Let us briefly mention how she is described and appreciate the fact that these are not surface traits, but they actually emanate from her character. She fears the Lord; hence she is characterized by piety (vs. 30). Purity and loyalty abound (vs. 10, 11, 12). She is kind, benevolent, and selfless (vs. 26, 20, 15, 20, 27). As opposed to bitterness and complaining, cheerfulness is seen (vs. 21). She is wise and dignified (vs. 26; 22).
An outstanding characteristic of the virtuous woman is her industry. This zeal and resourcefulness is seen in the promotion of her household (vs. 13, 15, 19, 21, 27). She is a manufacturer, merchant, and landowner (vs. 24; 24; 16). She even cultivates the soil (vs. 16). Herein, please allow me to gently issue a challenge: Who said the godly wife and mother cannot be involved in enterprise outside her physical house? Look again at the virtuous woman (vs. 24; 16). She is presented as what we would call an entrepreneur. She is involved in such enterprise, yet, does not neglect her family!
The reward of being a virtuous woman. First, be impressed with the fact that God's woman is a woman of real power. Which is more far reaching: to work primarily at a secular career and promote a company in providing some often whimsical product or contributing to the very foundation of society and mankind itself, the family? Herein is power! Too often great women go unnoticed and without praise. Not so with the godly woman of our text. We read, "Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also and he praiseth her" and "Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates" (vs. 28; 31). Appreciate the fact that the wife has personal recognition, "let her own works praise her in the gates." What a statement, especially when viewed in the Jewish setting in which it is made!
only once in my life did i come across a virtuous women and i blew it for the jezebels and promiscuities of this world
You only got one chance brehs if you ever come across this rare jewel in the sand
do not mess it up
DaRealness
I think very deeply
What in the fukk did I just read?
Cos she knows he's a sucker, that's where she got the nerve to even pull some shyt like that.
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
I've done it so I have the right to say no man should go through that bullshyt...
this is why i advise, many people dont realize how horrible it is until theyve been through it.
please share your experience breh.
more from the brain of reincar..
before i went on my manwhore streak i wont even lie but being cheated on in the past changed me, robbed me of my innocence, as a man i was determined to never let a chick screw me over like that again so i kept my emotions to myself and had a cold cold attitude toward broads.
Something inside a man's romantic gentleman heart dies after their first betrayal. It's sad that these scallywags got the full real reincar, that real love that innocent love, and every chick after got caution. I always say a$$holes and players aren't born they are made.
that experience made me into a manwhore, a guy before who only slept with 3 women in 22 years, ended up sleeping with like 15 in a span of 6 months.
This is one reason why i am strongly against cheating, not just because of the pain it causes the betrayed bf or gf which is bad enough but the effect it has through the entire dating atmosphere. You cheat on somebody then they end up hurting the next person than that person hurts somebody and so on, all these chicks i ran through i remember the tears on the phone, or crying, or how I used them, im sure they prob screwed over the next guy they dated or whatever and the cycle continues that guy probably became a 22 yr old reincar smashing and dashing.
thankfully im better now, i still approach every situation with caution, and don't trust women beside my mom and sister and grandma, but that came with wisdom, its sad even if i were to get married I could never give my wife that unconditional innocent 18 year old reincar love, the armor has been molded over my heart.
My experiences in life have brought me to this point, that even if i were to get married and my wife pregnant, throughout the whole pregnancy ill prob be thinkng if some other nikka knocked her up, and sneaking in a dna test when i get that little nikka alone to see if its mine. I know my thought process is somewhat distorted, i guess thas why i liked silver linings playbook, because they were both unstable yet found love
, i know if i were to ever get married to a chick who passed all the tests, all the checkmarks ill prob bawl my eyes out 
From the mind of reincar
before i went on my manwhore streak i wont even lie but being cheated on in the past changed me, robbed me of my innocence, as a man i was determined to never let a chick screw me over like that again so i kept my emotions to myself and had a cold cold attitude toward broads.
Something inside a man's romantic gentleman heart dies after their first betrayal. It's sad that these scallywags got the full real reincar, that real love that innocent love, and every chick after got caution. I always say a$$holes and players aren't born they are made.
that experience made me into a manwhore, a guy before who only slept with 3 women in 22 years, ended up sleeping with like 15 in a span of 6 months.
This is one reason why i am strongly against cheating, not just because of the pain it causes the betrayed bf or gf which is bad enough but the effect it has through the entire dating atmosphere. You cheat on somebody then they end up hurting the next person than that person hurts somebody and so on, all these chicks i ran through i remember the tears on the phone, or crying, or how I used them, im sure they prob screwed over the next guy they dated or whatever and the cycle continues that guy probably became a 22 yr old reincar smashing and dashing.
thankfully im better now, i still approach every situation with caution, and don't trust women beside my mom and sister and grandma, but that came with wisdom, its sad even if i were to get married I could never give my wife that unconditional innocent 18 year old reincar love, the armor has been molded over my heart.
My experiences in life have brought me to this point, that even if i were to get married and my wife pregnant, throughout the whole pregnancy ill prob be thinkng if some other nikka knocked her up, and sneaking in a dna test when i get that little nikka alone to see if its mine. I know my thought process is somewhat distorted, i guess thas why i liked silver linings playbook, because they were both unstable yet found love
, i know if i were to ever get married to a chick who passed all the tests, all the checkmarks ill prob bawl my eyes out From the mind of reincar
bein alone. idk what the proper sexual advance is.
simple throw on a movie dim the lights, arm around shoulder, look her in the eye go in for a kiss, as you kiss grab a boob, and then slowly wokr your way down
if she says no at any point STOP
id also set your phone to record the audio incase she does say no and tries and goes to teh cop next day
the other day we was layin in her bed watchin a movie and i jus laid there and watched. what do i do if we side by side layin in the bed? what if im chillin with a girl in my car? my prob is that i dont know proper sexual advances.
damn breh move in or you will be friend zone shortly, ive been where you';ve been i was extremely shy.
If your laying side by side, get her to rest her head on your shoulder
if your chilling with a girl in the car, look her in the eye and talk to her, then move in for a kiss
dont think of it breh just do, the funny thing if a girl really likes you, you dont have to do anything.
i was extremely shy as mentioned above, i remember i was just hanging out with this girl and she told me to close my eyes and i asked why, then shes like close it so i did and then she said open and i did she was right in front of me and we kissed.
another time in my manwhore days i was with this chick just MET her earlier that evening from a dating site, i was in her car and she just came over the seat and kissed me, took my belt off and gave me head right there
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
Breh i'm pretty sure you can imagine the horrors I been through during that "relationship" but for the rest of the brehs i'll write up a list of what to expect...
1. Prepare to spend most of your dates at her place(especially if her kid is still a baby)
2.I remember coming to her apartment at nights and not even being able to ring the doorbell because she'd yell at me because her kid was asleep. so I had to text her to come open the door
3. And when i'm finally inside the house she's not even decently dressed(baggy clothes, hair up in an unattractive bun).
4.Times i'd be over there and she'd just start cleaning up her kid's mess and get mad while I sat and watched and say I wasn't a real man for not helping out or picking up a broom(Do I look like a maid?)
5.Having to wait until the kid was out cold before we could have sex...
6.The kid waking up crying while we're doing it and me having to stop(ruining the mood)
7.Her calling me at random times of the day to bytch about the horrible shyt her baby's father said or did to her that day while she battled him for custody.
8.Her expecting me to change her kid's diaper and feed him...
9. being outside and forced to carry her kid around while she looked in shopping stores for clothes or shoes and getting the side eye from people because the kid looked nothing like me...
10. Her still being in love with her kid's father despite it all and taking him back...
Just an overall horrible experience not to mention the psychological damage she displayed and scorned attitude and spontaneous mood swings...
DON'T DATE SINGLE MOMS BREHS!!!!!!!!!
Breh i'm pretty sure you can imagine the horrors I been through during that "relationship" but for the rest of the brehs i'll write up a list of what to expect...
1. Prepare to spend most of your dates at her place(especially if her kid is still a baby)
2.I remember coming to her apartment at nights and not even being able to ring the doorbell because she'd yell at me because her kid was asleep. so I had to text her to come open the door
3. And when i'm finally inside the house she's not even decently dressed(baggy clothes, hair up in an unattractive bun).
4.Times i'd be over there and she'd just start cleaning up her kid's mess and get mad while I sat and watched and say I wasn't a real man for not helping out or picking up a broom(Do I look like a maid?)
5.Having to wait until the kid was out cold before we could have sex...
6.The kid waking up crying while we're doing it and me having to stop(ruining the mood)
7.Her calling me at random times of the day to bytch about the horrible shyt her baby's father said or did to her that day while she battled him for custody.
8.Her expecting me to change her kid's diaper and feed him...
9. being outside and forced to carry her kid around while she looked in shopping stores for clothes or shoes and getting the side eye from people because the kid looked nothing like me...
10. Her still being in love with her kid's father despite it all and taking him back...
Just an overall horrible experience not to mention the psychological damage she displayed and scorned attitude and spontaneous mood swings...
DON'T DATE SINGLE MOMS BREHS!!!!!!!!!
i dont sad thing is i know what you mean
like ive mentioned here before my godson mom is a single mom
never dated her or banged, but everything you listed i have done, ive carried him and had people say aww your son is so cute
, i always hear the random "bytching": about baby dad, the hcild is 3, and i remmeber when she was pregnant so say the past 4 years shes dated her baby father, sometimes it last a week, sometimes a month, sometimes 3-4 months always ends with her being cheated on crying, finding some next simp to date her and then she ends up going back, i just watch the trainwreck from the side.