Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Any chick you talk to on an app. Screen cap a photo and run it through pimeyes or facecheck.Id sometimes you’ll be shocked.

I’ve stated before I was talking to a chick then found out she has done hardcore porn in the past and her vids all over the web. Also another chick found out she had a livejasmin cam account

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I think people do because they get scared that if they don't that person will find someone "better than him"

Like i was talking to a female acquaintance today and she was telling me how she's been going out with these two guys for the past couple weeks and both are great etc., but recently a 3rd guy popped up and he's a software engineer and blah blah and now that guy is in the "lead".

Thats the thing about these apps and people on them, a swipe away is someone that "looks better"or has "bigger boobs", or a "bigger az"z, or a "better job", or a "better body, is taller etc". you're never really satisfied.

And all that leads to is a non-stop loop.

One of the things I've really been doing with the current chick I've been seeing since Christmas is when things started to get more serious between us we both had some hard conversations.

For me these days if me and the woman are not aligning on the simple issues, it's not going to work out. I would ask any breh in here to ask themselves when they get with a chick are you both aligned on things? Put aside if she has big ass or tittes etc and focus in on how does this woman make me feel?

Are the interactions outside the bedroom hitting? Do the conversations have substance and do you feel this woman wants to work with you?

As none of this shyt is easy. If you're not doing work on most things in your life they eventually falter

Your Job, your health, and your relationships both romantic and platonic
 

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And all that leads to is a non-stop loop.

One of the things I've really been doing with the current chick I've been seeing since Christmas is when things started to get more serious between us we both had some hard conversations.

For me these days if me and the woman are not aligning on the simple issues, it's not going to work out. I would ask any breh in here to ask themselves when they get with a chick are you both aligned on things? Put aside if she has big ass or tittes etc and focus in on how does this woman make me feel?

Are the interactions outside the bedroom hitting? Do the conversations have substance and do you feel this woman wants to work with you?

As none of this shyt is easy. If you're not doing work on most things in your life they eventually falter

Your Job, your health, and your relationships both romantic and platonic

What kind of questions were you asking ? :lupe:
 

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Any brehs ever finish a date and not know how it went lol. I mean we kissed a lot but she was late so I made her get the first round of drinks and pay for her own pizza (I did only invite her out for drinks). She verbally said she had a good time but she was mumbling to herself a little and was texting her sister after we left the bar. Hmmmm!
 
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I matched with this 28 year old female, last week. I gave her a compliment & she asked me straight up what I do for a living. I told her Nursing (I'm actually an architect) she unmatched me quickly :mjlol:

Dating apps, some women expect you to tick all her boxes.
I tell chicks stripper or onlyfans
 

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Any brehs ever finish a date and not know how it went lol. I mean we kissed a lot but she was late so I made her get the first round of drinks and pay for her own pizza (I did only invite her out for drinks). She verbally said she had a good time but she was mumbling to herself a little and was texting her sister after we left the bar. Hmmmm!
Shoot your shot, hit her up for a 2nd date & see how it goes. If she declines or makes any excuses, she probably wasn't feeling it.
 

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Chicks from married homes will divorce you because you aint simping like her pops. There isnt a catch all formula honestly. Everything is case by case
Yeah there’s tons of chics out here that have a bit of the same bratty mentality as the chics with 1 parent household. I remember even tellin a homie the “two parent household” shyt is cap as well cause that same girl could come from privilege and could also have a history of being spoiled by daddy.

Lotta folks in Toronto have parents splitting at a later age too. My homie parents split right not too longer after he and his girl started living together. I Even remember meeting a chic off of bumble last year and shorty flat out told me her parents split weeks prior. She was 26.
 

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Yup and that's not even mentioning the bride price and their inflated egos mtchewww

I really can't stand when women brag about their accomplishments I could care less. I've never cared what a woman does as long as she works and it ain't being a prostitute or onlyfans .


I'm jamaican and its the same for me for jamaican women I don't associate with them either. I just don't like loud, aggressive woman.

Man kiss teeth and all :pachaha:
 

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Yeah there’s tons of chics out here that have a bit of the same bratty mentality as the chics with 1 parent household. I remember even tellin a homie the “two parent household” shyt is cap as well cause that same girl could come from privilege and could also have a history of being spoiled by daddy.

Lotta folks in Toronto have parents splitting at a later age too. My homie parents split right not too longer after he and his girl started living together. I Even remember meeting a chic off of bumble last year and shorty flat out told me her parents split weeks prior. She was 26.

To me i tend to see [in the context of when shyt goes bad]
Single parent home = not knowing how to be around a man thus self sabotaging to prevent “being hurt” or just a general walking ball lf trama.

2 parent home = daddy was a simp slave to a masculine mother thus chick is seeking her slave and uses the bullshyt provider thing to sugar coat it.
 

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To me i tend to see [in the context of when shyt goes bad]
Single parent home = not knowing how to be around a man thus self sabotaging to prevent “being hurt” or just a general walking ball lf trama.

2 parent home = daddy was a simp slave to a masculine mother thus chick is seeking her slave and uses the bullshyt provider thing to sugar coat it.
Pretty much

1 parent= I didnt have a proper example
2 parent = I DID have a proper example but I also watched MAD Disney movies at a kid
 

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Yup and that's not even mentioning the bride price and their inflated egos mtchewww

I really can't stand when women brag about their accomplishments I could care less. I've never cared what a woman does as long as she works and it ain't being a prostitute or onlyfans .


I'm jamaican and its the same for me for jamaican women I don't associate with them either. I just don't like loud, aggressive woman.
A fellow island bwoy :salute:

And yeah Jamaican/island women out here are a handful lol. Ain’t nobody tryna argue with a bytch about going to carnival
 

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Any brehs ever finish a date and not know how it went lol. I mean we kissed a lot but she was late so I made her get the first round of drinks and pay for her own pizza (I did only invite her out for drinks). She verbally said she had a good time but she was mumbling to herself a little and was texting her sister after we left the bar. Hmmmm!
If you are interested just follow up with her.
 
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