Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yup and that's not even mentioning the bride price and their inflated egos mtchewww

I really can't stand when women brag about their accomplishments I could care less. I've never cared what a woman does as long as she works and it ain't being a prostitute or onlyfans .


I'm jamaican and its the same for me for jamaican women I don't associate with them either. I just don't like loud, aggressive woman.

Yeah like i said they use the traditions to make men simp yet the womens duties get tossed out the window and the men they deal with are ignorant to the traditions to check them. Its why they target non Nigerian/non african men cause they cant be checked.
 

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Yeah like i said they use the traditions to make men simp yet the womens duties get tossed out the window and the men they deal with are ignorant to the traditions to check them. Its why they target non Nigerian/non african men cause they cant be checked.

Lol even the nigerian men that deal with them cheat. I remember being in nigeria and every night at the hotel older nigerian men with wedding bands would go up the elevator with a escort .
 

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Lol even the nigerian men that deal with them cheat. I remember being in nigeria and every night at the hotel older nigerian men with wedding bands would go up the elevator with a escort .

“Cheating” in these cultures is not really the same
As in the west lol. It’s a mans duty yo have a mistress as long as he has everything else in order.
 

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sorry breh you were just the rebound. And yeah that's how it goes one day its all warm with women the next its all cold and you can feel that it's over and you just wait till them thangs dropped.

And yeah the whole with you. Chicks will say that they need time for this and bla bla but you snoop (don't) in a few months and they cheesing with their new love of their life.

It sucks but its life you'll be ok breh :salute:
Yeah this is all in the game. I've been here before. Last time a girl broke up with me was when I was going to the Navy and she ain't want to move to Cali with me. I respected that and carried on, but not before she got all emo and did her little soap opera performance. I just yawned internally and KIM.
That's why last night I appreciated her speaking her truth and not getting emo.
Also it reinforced what I already knew. Anytime a chick says she's not ready for a relationship it means a relationship WITH YOU. Because if Drake or @Tupac in a Business Suit showed up asking for a relationship you already know what time it is.
The game is the game.
 

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Yeah this is all in the game. I've been here before. Last time a girl broke up with me was when I was going to the Navy and she ain't want to move to Cali with me. I respected that and carried on, but not before she got all emo and did her little soap opera performance. I just yawned internally and KIM.
That's why last night I appreciated her speaking her truth and not getting emo.
Also it reinforced what I already knew. Anytime a chick says she's not ready for a relationship it means a relationship WITH YOU. Because if Drake or @Tupac in a Business Suit showed up asking for a relationship you already know what time it is.
The game is the game.
That's the beauty of life experience & learning the game. You read between the lines of the situation & make the best move for your life
 

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Yeah like i said they use the traditions to make men simp yet the womens duties get tossed out the window and the men they deal with are ignorant to the traditions to check them. Its why they target non Nigerian/non african men cause they cant be checked.
I truly believe Nigerian women should be left for Nigerian men. Most men will find it too much to understand & deal with. They will run circles around you & rinse you.
 

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I truly believe Nigerian women should be left for Nigerian men. Most men will find it too much to understand & deal with. They will run circles around you & rinse you.
like breh said, American cats come in talking that “I’m about to plant my seed into the motherland” babble and end up in a blender.

Brehs talk all that “I need a serious woman overseas”, one is in front of your face wanting you to meet the fam and learn her culture, and all of a sudden it’s “too much” :mjpls:
 

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I truly believe Nigerian women should be left for Nigerian men. Most men will find it too much to understand & deal with. They will run circles around you & rinse you.
Other West African men know the headache aint worth it especially since there really isn't a net gain over their own women lol.

Nigerian women will typically target American Men or White Euros cause them dudes are clueless with managing women
 

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like breh said, American cats come in talking that “I’m about to plant my seed into the motherland” babble and end up in a blender.

Brehs talk all that “I need a serious woman overseas”, one is in front of your face wanting you to meet the fam and learn her culture, and all of a sudden it’s “too much” :mjpls:
overseas chicks take dudes souls just from being nice and not dressed like drag queens lol. Avg Western Dude is food to women period.
 

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overseas chicks take dudes souls just from being nice and not dressed like drag queens lol. Avg Western Dude is food to women period.
Western brehs who complain should stick to the waters they used to.

Go love that woman who identifies as pansexual and expect you to pay for everything even though she has PhD
 

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A convo this weekend, I was attempting to explain the "crash and burn" that many people experience in dating, (that I never really do, not ghosting, that I do experience)

Here's my summation: in the rush to "lock people down", and the immediate knowledge of other options, and the paranoia of someone "talking to other people", people rush very quickly into relationships, without giving each other room to breathe, and then end up disillusioned. A few girl friends of mine repeatedly describe scenarios that match

The optimization of APP dating, someone meets some qualifiers, "he wants long term" "he's good looking enough", "we had fun dates", lets get into a relationship RIGHT NOW. But, you don't really know that person intimately,. but no one wants the other person to "get away".
 
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