Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Is it safe to assume any chick now has a bunch of dudes she’s talking to in IG DMs, Snapchat, etc. even if she doesn’t have dating apps?

Or am I just disillusioned. Just wanted a sense check lol
Depends on the chick. She’s attractive so the odds you are the only one showing interest is unlikely. Is she entertaining lots of offers? Just context clue why you are interested, how you met her, etc.

At the end of the day if y’all are sleeping together what does it matter :manny:
 

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Is it safe to assume any chick now has a bunch of dudes she’s talking to in IG DMs, Snapchat, etc. even if she doesn’t have dating apps?

Or am I just disillusioned. Just wanted a sense check lol

My personal theory that I have broken down on here a few times

1. Social Circle(high school friends etc)
2.Social Radius( the delivery guy, co-worker)
3. Online(Social Media etc)
4.Cold Approach

You preferably want to be in the 1st, but at least 2nd..that's the group that gets daily interaction with 2 being a potential upgrade to 1

If she is attractive, you need to dial up that 100mph fastball inside real quick to establish position...
 

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I remember a post where you talked about just bullshytting on the apps and letting ya flicks talk for themselves.

when did you start seeing prompts and bios as pointless?
If you “look good” you can literally just troll and chicks will swipe regardless. I literaly dont even have words on my tinder lol.

The main thing is if your pic is getting activity on say IG chances are the same will apply on dating apps. As i said before your IG is your resume and if you not getting feedback there you won't get it anywhere else.
 

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If you “look good” you can literally just troll and chicks will swipe regardless. I literaly dont even have words on my tinder lol.

The main thing is if your pic is getting activity on say IG chances are the same will apply on dating apps. As i said before your IG is your resume and if you not getting feedback there you won't get it anywhere else.

1000%

Best advice you provided in regards to apps.

“Let them hit you up first”

In addition to your second point, I always test photos on IG / Facebook before posting on a dating app.
 

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Best advice you provided in regards to apps.

“Let them hit you up first”

In addition to your second point, I always test photos on IG / Facebook before posting on a dating app.

The issue with “letting chicks hit you up first” is most dudes dont have a life so they check dating apps like its IG, and get thirsty if they arent engaging with a woman.

Im of the belief of quality over quantity. I rather have a small elite task force of hoes than a huge army of bum bytches that give me a headache draining me of time and money (100 cheap dates = money and time i could have been using for sometjing productive, and 90% of women/humans period simply arent interesting so nikkas are lying kf they arent doing this all for sex).
 

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What kind of questions were you asking ? :lupe:

Well, we're both divorcees which already places you in a certain mindset. It takes a while to financially and mentally pull away from someone you were linked to by law.

It was refreshing hearing her approach to that and how she had healed and moved on from it. From that, I was interested in how she conducts herself
and just having a solid foundation of honesty. No good comes from bullshytting each other. She admitted that she was scared to get into a relationship again

Another thing that made me happy is she didn't badmouth her ex-husband or the guy she was seeing after him who she was with for 2 years.

Tbh, this chick fulfils a lot of my wants.
 

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Well, we're both divorcees which already places you in a certain mindset. It takes a while to financially and mentally pull away from someone you were linked to by law.

It was refreshing hearing her approach to that and how she had healed and moved on from it. From that, I was interested in how she conducts herself
and just having a solid foundation of honesty. No good comes from bullshytting each other. She admitted that she was scared to get into a relationship again

Another thing that made me happy is she didn't badmouth her ex-husband or the guy she was seeing after him who she was with for 2 years.

Tbh, this chick fulfils a lot of my wants.

:obama:
 

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Women really will come put themselves RIGHT next to you and if you don’t say nothing then yall won’t be talking :russ:
This just happened. But all she did was walk dat big ole azz in front me when I was walkin out the store, all I said was hey she said hey back and that was it, should've got the name and socials:snoop:She work up there I think so ima spin again.
 
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Well, we're both divorcees which already places you in a certain mindset. It takes a while to financially and mentally pull away from someone you were linked to by law.

It was refreshing hearing her approach to that and how she had healed and moved on from it. From that, I was interested in how she conducts herself
and just having a solid foundation of honesty. No good comes from bullshytting each other. She admitted that she was scared to get into a relationship again

Another thing that made me happy is she didn't badmouth her ex-husband or the guy she was seeing after him who she was with for 2 years.

Tbh, this chick fulfils a lot of my wants.
did u ever tell us about your divorce? the details of what happened
 

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did u ever tell us about your divorce? the details of what happened

A few times. The simple story is my divorce was relatively clean, we both kept it respectful. And just had a clean break with none of the fukkery.
We had a mediation which saved us money and didn't contest each other.

The most annoying thing was we needed to be separated for a year before we could initiate a divorce.

It's crazy though me and her were together damn near 13 years 7 of them married. Feels so long ago now.
 

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A few times. The simple story is my divorce was relatively clean, we both kept it respectful. And just had a clean break with none of the fukkery.
We had a mediation which saved us money and didn't contest each other.

The most annoying thing was we needed to be separated for a year before we could initiate a divorce.

It's crazy though me and her were together damn near 13 years 7 of them married. Feels so long ago now.
i see. what caused the divorce
feel like i asked u b4 so my bad
 

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Dude in the story has my hairline :flabbynsick:
 
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