Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Back on online dating. POF, Tagged, Snapchat, Chispa.

Shooting my shot at every bad broad on the platform. I’m getting older. Not trying to waste time I’m just trying to smash. No relationship

I understand not every broad is attainable. It’s whatever. Every man should realize they have the ability to persuade a broad to come into his world.

Once a man stops simping, he becomes a force of nature. He becomes “that guy”. fukk begging and pleading, make her beg and plead. Tease em a bit. There’s more women than men on this earth, but these simps ain’t gonna listen:pachaha:

Back on topic I read their profile. My messages are straightforward and direct. Engagement is what I look for. The quicker the better

Messaged some girl on POF who said “she wants to be facefukked in public and used as a cum rag” :myman: I respected her honesty cause she’s not afraid to admit she a whore:ehh: I like classy women but these thots just ignite my inner fukkboy tendencies. I’m just being honest bro

Honestly more women should be honest with their sexuality instead of pretending to be a sexless nun.

“Oh I’m not like that I swear im a good girl?” That’s what they ALL say till they feel comfortable with you. Then that inner thot comes out haha:mjlit:

Deadass, I just take these girls on adventures.
If we match, they see my IG, places I venture. They get curious. She’s looking for a vibe right? Bet. I give them that DMX energy

Some call it “selling a dream” but these broads like traveling, so I invite them:manny:
 

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Back on online dating. POF, Tagged, Snapchat, Chispa.

Shooting my shot at every bad broad on the platform. I’m getting older. Not trying to waste time I’m just trying to smash. No relationship

I understand not every broad is attainable. It’s whatever. Every man should realize they have the ability to persuade a broad to come into his world.

Once a man stops simping, he becomes a force of nature. He becomes “that guy”. fukk begging and pleading, make her beg and plead. Tease em a bit. There’s more women than men on this earth, but these simps ain’t gonna listen:pachaha:

Back on topic I read their profile. My messages are straightforward and direct. Engagement is what I look for. The quicker the better

Messaged some girl on POF who said “she wants to be facefukked in public and used as a cum rag” :myman: I respected her honesty cause she’s not afraid to admit she a whore:ehh: I like classy women but these thots just ignite my inner fukkboy tendencies. I’m just being honest bro

Honestly more women should be honest with their sexuality instead of pretending to be a sexless nun.

“Oh I’m not like that I swear im a good girl?” That’s what they ALL say till they feel comfortable with you. Then that inner thot comes out haha:mjlit:

Deadass, I just take these girls on adventures.
If we match, they see my IG, places I venture. They get curious. She’s looking for a vibe right? Bet. I give them that DMX energy

Some call it “selling a dream” but these broads like traveling, so I invite them:manny:
can tell you an oldhead just off of how I read this post
 

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I was out of town this weekend with a buddy of mine and we talked about his dating prospects and I met two of them. The one I didn't meet was his ex who broke things off with him months ago yet they still hang out every now and then even though she's unsure and she doesn't know what she wants.

One girl he's seeing I met honestly felt like one of the guys. He also felt that perhaps he couldn't really be at ease with her.

Third woman was very attentive, he seemed more at ease with her. She took him out to dinner for his birthday and bought him a thoughtful gift including a note mentioning the things she likes about him. He told me that even in his last two relationships none of these women were as attentive.

I asked him what the hang up was and we both came to the conclusion that he needs to stop hanging with his ex. Because someone doesn't see your value doesn't mean that others won't see that in you. I said go for the last girl!

Just a reminder that while some women will treat you like an appetizer or a side dish, others will treat you like the main course. I also thought that the last girl was the most attractive and feminine.
 

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My own shyt - it was good to vent to him about my dating. I liked how my friend was more care free in his approach to dating.

I believe at times I can come off strong. In many different ways some women have told me I'm an intense person and "serious" which is not necessarily a bad thing but in the beginning of courtship it can induce high expectations and anxiety whether intentional or unintentional.

With that said though I do believe that stating your intentions, including values and deal breakers during the early stages is important. Being that I'm "dating intentionally" I can't not mention things such as wanting kids, my views on spirituality, etc. I've noticed that has caused some women to lose interest or think I want that stuff right away. Can't win them all and that is more on me than them.

I'm still sort of tripping about a girl that was high interest that largely dipped. In hindsight I believe that the fact I mentioned kids and given her response that perhaps misaligned with what she wants or perhaps she thought I was too serious. Nothing wrong with people having different goals but it stung a bit but at the same time better to know that now than wasting a year on someone that doesn't want the same thing in life.
 

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Bingo. All the best women I have ever dated had both parents still married and it ain't even close.

its the little things, seeing your parents fight but still sticking together etc. knowing everything ain't peachy
chicks from divorced or single parent homes don't have that fighting spirit :yeshrug:
 

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My own shyt - it was good to vent to him about my dating. I liked how my friend was more care free in his approach to dating.

I believe at times I can come off strong. In many different ways some women have told me I'm an intense person and "serious" which is not necessarily a bad thing but in the beginning of courtship it can induce high expectations and anxiety whether intentional or unintentional.

With that said though I do believe that stating your intentions, including values and deal breakers during the early stages is important. Being that I'm "dating intentionally" I can't not mention things such as wanting kids, my views on spirituality, etc. I've noticed that has caused some women to lose interest or think I want that stuff right away. Can't win them all and that is more on me than them.

I'm still sort of tripping about a girl that was high interest that largely dipped. In hindsight I believe that the fact I mentioned kids and given her response that perhaps misaligned with what she wants or perhaps she thought I was too serious. Nothing wrong with people having different goals but it stung a bit but at the same time better to know that now than wasting a year on someone that doesn't want the same thing in life.
The first few dates should be chilled, fun & getting to know each other, the serious topics should organically come up later & in small doses.

I had a Nigerian lady ask me serious intense questions before the first date, asking me about marriage, career, religion etc. I most of her boxes, I ghosted her, she called a few times & then she finally got the idea
 

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My own shyt - it was good to vent to him about my dating. I liked how my friend was more care free in his approach to dating.

I believe at times I can come off strong. In many different ways some women have told me I'm an intense person and "serious" which is not necessarily a bad thing but in the beginning of courtship it can induce high expectations and anxiety whether intentional or unintentional.

With that said though I do believe that stating your intentions, including values and deal breakers during the early stages is important. Being that I'm "dating intentionally" I can't not mention things such as wanting kids, my views on spirituality, etc. I've noticed that has caused some women to lose interest or think I want that stuff right away. Can't win them all and that is more on me than them.

I'm still sort of tripping about a girl that was high interest that largely dipped. In hindsight I believe that the fact I mentioned kids and given her response that perhaps misaligned with what she wants or perhaps she thought I was too serious. Nothing wrong with people having different goals but it stung a bit but at the same time better to know that now than wasting a year on someone that doesn't want the same thing in life.
How soon are you diving into these topics? There is a big difference between wasting a year and the getting to know each other stage.
 

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Back on online dating. POF, Tagged, Snapchat, Chispa.

Shooting my shot at every bad broad on the platform. I’m getting older. Not trying to waste time I’m just trying to smash. No relationship

I understand not every broad is attainable. It’s whatever. Every man should realize they have the ability to persuade a broad to come into his world.

Once a man stops simping, he becomes a force of nature. He becomes “that guy”. fukk begging and pleading, make her beg and plead. Tease em a bit. There’s more women than men on this earth, but these simps ain’t gonna listen:pachaha:

Back on topic I read their profile. My messages are straightforward and direct. Engagement is what I look for. The quicker the better

Messaged some girl on POF who said “she wants to be facefukked in public and used as a cum rag” :myman: I respected her honesty cause she’s not afraid to admit she a whore:ehh: I like classy women but these thots just ignite my inner fukkboy tendencies. I’m just being honest bro

Honestly more women should be honest with their sexuality instead of pretending to be a sexless nun.

“Oh I’m not like that I swear im a good girl?” That’s what they ALL say till they feel comfortable with you. Then that inner thot comes out haha:mjlit:

Deadass, I just take these girls on adventures.
If we match, they see my IG, places I venture. They get curious. She’s looking for a vibe right? Bet. I give them that DMX energy

Some call it “selling a dream” but these broads like traveling, so I invite them:manny:

nikka used Bad bytches and POF in the same
Story.

Yeah this aint gonna end well
 

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The first few dates should be chilled, fun & getting to know each other, the serious topics should organically come up later & in small doses.

I had a Nigerian lady ask me serious intense questions before the first date, asking me about marriage, career, religion etc. I most of her boxes, I ghosted her, she called a few times & then she finally got the idea
Job interview bytches are not fun. Bush her or ask
Wtf where you doing with your life where you accomplished nothing relationship wise and now you on the clock lol.

Any bytch thinking she is the one finding her husband and off a chain of questioning is psycho and there is your reason she is single
 
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