Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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CrossBones
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thing is, theres almost no shame on them for what theyre doing. talk all day about equal rights, independance, advancing themselves in educational/career pursuits, and being respected as a lady, but then you see many have no problem with leeching onto richer men strictly for their wealth and to be spoiled. seriously, you cant make this up.
at this point, you have to blame the men who let this happen however. the sugar babies couldnt get their money and get whored out like that if the men werent tricking it.
Ohms Law
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[ame=http://youtu.be/wxWuREjuLAE]Your Girlfriend Is A Raging Slut! How Does That Make You Feel? - YouTube[/ame]
Whats yalls take on this lames opinion. Almost threw up in my mouth and cant believe i watched the whole thing.
Edit: On second thought, worth the full watch. Delusions
Whats yalls take on this lames opinion. Almost threw up in my mouth and cant believe i watched the whole thing.
Edit: On second thought, worth the full watch. Delusions
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Your Girlfriend Is A Raging Slut! How Does That Make You Feel? - YouTube
Whats yalls take on this lames opinion. Almost threw up in my mouth and cant believe i watched the whole thing.
Edit: On second thought, worth the full watch. Delusions
he made a couple points besides bein a b1tch ass n1gaa
Don't try to make this an age thing, breh. I've smashed a lot of females but I've only been in a few true relationships; It's in a man's nature to lust for females we find attractive but only get in to relationships with women we genuinely like. Not all relationships are gonna end with lifetime commitment but how can you GENUINELY like someone and not be trying to make them better/build them up?
Yessir, what has to be understood is that you aren't supposed to be TRICKING with a female, aka paying for her hair and nails, school bills, her vehicle, etc. Real men instruct, simps pay. Now you are supposed to give her understanding and knowledge to not only better her life, but to also handle her business in a context of how you're living.
When you mold a female, if she leaves, the next man might enjoy it, but you will have enjoyed it for a long time and much more than the next man because she was taught in a fashion that catered to YOUR tastes. The next man might get her, but he's going to get a woman that knows how to handle business in a way I like it handled... and if she does stick around, she will be able to execute things in the way I see fit. If you DON'T educate your woman and teach her, you're never going to get the woman to the level that you will really want her to be at because a woman can't do what she doesn't know.
Knowledge is something I can give freely and still keep even if she takes it with her. On the other hand On the other hand, money, vehicles, etc. is gone if she takes it with her.
CrossBones
Louder than words
a modern fairy tale is the "pretty woman" story, where a woman charms a rich man (a simp) into looking beyond her slutty past (as a whore) and they end up living happily ever after. the retitling of these things are to make it more innocent and cute, IE "sugar baby" and "sugar daddy" which really just translates to john and hooker. the game doesnt change, only the names do
a modern fairy tale is the "pretty woman" story, where a woman charms a rich man (a simp) into looking beyond her slutty past (as a whore) and they end up living happily ever after. the retitling of these things are to make it more innocent and cute, IE "sugar baby" and "sugar daddy" which really just translates to john and hooker. the game doesnt change, only the names do
let's not forget 'video vixen'
CrossBones
Louder than words
sheeeeeit, a lot of these instagram/facebook/twitter "models" tend to be independant businesswomen too
sheeeeeit, a lot of these instagram/facebook/twitter "models" tend to be independant businesswomen too
lol man everyone is a ceo/boss these days. Things don't have any meaning anymore. That's why I say screw them titles. i don't want to be defined by titles, especially since titles don't really have any meaning anymore. Define me by my actions.
CrossBones
Louder than words
a lot of women want to be discrete about theirs. the easiest thing for them to do is to rename what theyre doing, or tell you half of the story, instead of just making up an outright lie.
but some just dont have the lying down pat. this news story, about a teen pageant winner who did a porn movie and had to step down from her title is a good example of that. the ill thing is this brother, she went and told on herself in the beginning of the porn interview that she was in pageants
she conveniently left out the state she was from, but is that really going to be so difficult to determine once her stupid ass hits the net? half of the truth can still catch up with someone if they arent on their game. crazy part is this, if she just went ahead and became an escort, she could have done all of that, several times, and not been caught. the only thing that would help tell us what shes about is in her actions, and if the words and descriptions of her past are pretty much vague and all politically correct.
(edit) here is her interview segment from youtube - no porn
[ame]http://youtu.be/T7ryxZBo46g[/ame]
Just venting out of my ass so don't mind me:
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I know its only been a couple months and things are smooth sailing like a motha.
The crazy thing is that, because of my previous (traumatizing) experiences, i'm expecting some kind of travesty to erupt during the timeline of our romance.
Is it fair to do this to myself? Am i too guarded and being way cautious when i should be enjoying the ride?
When a woman seems too perfect... it's almost always too good to be true. Maybe not now - but when the moment happens when she does the anticipated, i don't know if i'll be ready for it, as prepared and knowledgeable as i is.
Kinda sad the game is in the state that it is. Almost 3 months and i still don't give her 100 (i refrain from a lot, and i think that mystique is why she's still intrigued by the kid)... but i'm essentially doing what i told myself i'd never do, a shell of my former sell; i.e. saying that i'd "never play the game". But here i am, a lover's console and i'm maneuvering it with a control... fully engaged and awaiting for the proverbial enemy to strike without warning.
All the dreams that society, media (movies, television, music) sell you doesn't help. But as a bonafide member of the "gems thread", i should know what to anticipate and protect myself from any anguish, pain and heartache (and the kind that hurts the most... the lingering effects of severed love affair).
She was raised with good morals, has a great head on her shoulders, studied law and working at a paralegal firm and continuing her education and taking care of her family when she's home - all while finding time every weekend to see me.
The funny thing is that; i don't know what i have to offer the babe. No social status, not the most handsome guy on the plate, job is a joke and can barely be self sufficient... all i've got is my outlook on society and philosophy on living. She says that she enjoys the company and doesn't mind just spending time, no need to go out and do fun stuff. As much as i'd like to believe her, i know that if i don't take her out/entertain her... somebody else will.
I like to think that i'm funny. I'm witty/creative on the punch and can hold a conversation. But why do i have so many reservations and fears? What's holding me back from doing what i really want to do/feel?
Being in constant fear isn't the way to live and i know that - but... there's just something restraining me from the order to which i'd like to persevere into and develop as a person. That way, i'd be able to share myself with a prospect and learn how to love. Shiiit, i'm a taurean, as stubborn as a prick in the skin and as dim as the
My goal is to one day open up and be who i want to be and not feel like i'm compromising so much or fear that i won't succeed and always playing it safe. I've got to take chances, whether its with my career dreams or with a significant other.
I'd rather know for certain and let it be than guess, lie dormant and never know what coulda, shoulda, woulda.
A dreamer with aspirations but no application is as good as an empty application. Might as well be an aspiring dreamer with a empty imagination.
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________________________
I know its only been a couple months and things are smooth sailing like a motha.
The crazy thing is that, because of my previous (traumatizing) experiences, i'm expecting some kind of travesty to erupt during the timeline of our romance.
Is it fair to do this to myself? Am i too guarded and being way cautious when i should be enjoying the ride?
When a woman seems too perfect... it's almost always too good to be true. Maybe not now - but when the moment happens when she does the anticipated, i don't know if i'll be ready for it, as prepared and knowledgeable as i is.
Kinda sad the game is in the state that it is. Almost 3 months and i still don't give her 100 (i refrain from a lot, and i think that mystique is why she's still intrigued by the kid)... but i'm essentially doing what i told myself i'd never do, a shell of my former sell; i.e. saying that i'd "never play the game". But here i am, a lover's console and i'm maneuvering it with a control... fully engaged and awaiting for the proverbial enemy to strike without warning.
All the dreams that society, media (movies, television, music) sell you doesn't help. But as a bonafide member of the "gems thread", i should know what to anticipate and protect myself from any anguish, pain and heartache (and the kind that hurts the most... the lingering effects of severed love affair).
She was raised with good morals, has a great head on her shoulders, studied law and working at a paralegal firm and continuing her education and taking care of her family when she's home - all while finding time every weekend to see me.
The funny thing is that; i don't know what i have to offer the babe. No social status, not the most handsome guy on the plate, job is a joke and can barely be self sufficient... all i've got is my outlook on society and philosophy on living. She says that she enjoys the company and doesn't mind just spending time, no need to go out and do fun stuff. As much as i'd like to believe her, i know that if i don't take her out/entertain her... somebody else will.
I like to think that i'm funny. I'm witty/creative on the punch and can hold a conversation. But why do i have so many reservations and fears? What's holding me back from doing what i really want to do/feel?
Being in constant fear isn't the way to live and i know that - but... there's just something restraining me from the order to which i'd like to persevere into and develop as a person. That way, i'd be able to share myself with a prospect and learn how to love. Shiiit, i'm a taurean, as stubborn as a prick in the skin and as dim as the
My goal is to one day open up and be who i want to be and not feel like i'm compromising so much or fear that i won't succeed and always playing it safe. I've got to take chances, whether its with my career dreams or with a significant other.
I'd rather know for certain and let it be than guess, lie dormant and never know what coulda, shoulda, woulda.
A dreamer with aspirations but no application is as good as an empty application. Might as well be an aspiring dreamer with a empty imagination.
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a lot of women want to be discrete about theirs. the easiest thing for them to do is to rename what theyre doing, or tell you half of the story, instead of just making up an outright lie.
but some just dont have the lying down pat. this news story, about a teen pageant winner who did a porn movie and had to step down from her title is a good example of that. the ill thing is this brother, she went and told on herself in the beginning of the porn interview that she was in teen pageants
she conveniently left out the state she was from, but is that really going to be so difficult to determine once her stupid ass hits the net? half of the truth can still catch up with someone if they arent on their game. crazy part is this, if she just went ahead and became an escort, she could have done all of that, several times, and not been caught. the only thing that would help tell us what shes about is in her actions, and if the words and descriptions of her past are pretty much vague and all politically correct.
what's funny is i actually had a woman on my facebook proclaiming how evil women are. Joint was kind of funny to me. I think men would do much better with women if they put them in the proper context and stopped seeing them as these wonderful angels who you need to do anything to obtain. That's why I really don't like watching or listening to rnb because that simped out, worship a woman mentality starts getting in your mind. When you start making decisions with women based off a FANTASY, you will get terrible results. it's like trying to start some real life fights based off some techniques you learned from watching rocky..
A piece of knowledge I wanted to share with the family here is NEVER and I mean NEVER judge a woman by a first or even a second impression. You have to constantly watch and observe. Men fall so easy for 'ho stories'... They believe this even after they see her act in a manner unbefitting of a lady, but she gets to talking and makes some rationalization and they believe it because they WANT to believe it. Another piece of knowledge cats need to have in their arsenal is to put her on the line. Don't be one of those dudes afraid to bring your woman around your boys or around anyone for that matter. You need to see where her heart is at before seriously making any commitments. A lot of cats think hiding their woman will keep her from cheating, but all that will happen is you will be exposed to her cheating with a dude you don't know about. Bring her around your boys and see how she reacts. See if she is laughing and being flirty around them, etc. See if she's playing it out of pocket and focusing on them and asking about them more than you. If so, time to give her the eject.
Just venting out of my ass so don't mind me:
________________________
I know its only been a couple months and things are smooth sailing like a motha.
The crazy thing is that, because of my previous (traumatizing) experiences, i'm expecting some kind of travesty to erupt during the timeline of our romance.
Is it fair to do this to myself? Am i too guarded and being way cautious when i should be enjoying the ride?
When a woman seems too perfect... it's almost always too good to be true. Maybe not now - but when the moment happens when she does the anticipated, i don't know if i'll be ready for it, as prepared and knowledgeable as i is.
Kinda sad the game is in the state that it is. Almost 3 months and i still don't give her 100 (i refrain from a lot, and i think that mystique is why she's still intrigued by the kid)... but i'm essentially doing what i told myself i'd never do, a shell of my former sell; i.e. saying that i'd "never play the game". But here i am, a lover's console and i'm maneuvering it with a control... fully engaged and awaiting for the proverbial enemy to strike without warning.
All the dreams that society, media (movies, television, music) sell you doesn't help. But as a bonafide member of the "gems thread", i should know what to anticipate and protect myself from any anguish, pain and heartache (and the kind that hurts the most... the lingering effects of severed love affair).
She was raised with good morals, has a great head on her shoulders, studied law and working at a paralegal firm and continuing her education and taking care of her family when she's home - all while finding time every weekend to see me.
The funny thing is that; i don't know what i have to offer the babe. No social status, not the most handsome guy on the plate, job is a joke and can barely be self sufficient... all i've got is my outlook on society and philosophy on living. She says that she enjoys the company and doesn't mind just spending time, no need to go out and do fun stuff. As much as i'd like to believe her, i know that if i don't take her out/entertain her... somebody else will.
I like to think that i'm funny. I'm witty/creative on the punch and can hold a conversation. But why do i have so many reservations and fears? What's holding me back from doing what i really want to do/feel?
Being in constant fear isn't the way to live and i know that - but... there's just something restraining me from the order to which i'd like to persevere into and develop as a person. That way, i'd be able to share myself with a prospect and learn how to love. Shiiit, i'm a taurean, as stubborn as a prick in the skin and as dim as the
My goal is to one day open up and be who i want to be and not feel like i'm compromising so much or fear that i won't succeed and always playing it safe. I've got to take chances, whether its with my career dreams or with a significant other.
I'd rather know for certain and let it be than guess, lie dormant and never know what coulda, shoulda, woulda.
A dreamer with aspirations but no application is as good as an empty application. Might as well be an aspiring dreamer with a empty imagination.
The Moody Blues - Your Wildest Dreams - YouTube
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NEVER give a woman 100%. You're doing the right thing. I'm not saying to imagine a scenario where she is cheating on you, but always be prepared for that. Past that, enjoy what you got with her.
Stop thinking it's money, jewels or these external things that really catch a woman. It's always about expressing yourself to the fullest. Rings, jewels and all of that may catch a woman's attention for a short while, but it all comes down to how you express yourself and how she feels about your personality. You don't have to 'offer her' anything but you.
Also, with women, you have to think about it like you're a puzzle that she's attempting to put together. What happens to a puzzle once it gets put together? That's right, it stops being focused on, it gets put away, and then it's on to the next puzzle. So you always have to be a puzzle with a few of the pieces missing-- in other words have aspects about you she can't and won't ever be able to figure out. You staying reserved with yourself helps keep that 'ooh he's so mysterious' vibe going that women love so well.