Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Erica Mena Admits To Having An Affair With DJ Envy (DETAILS) | Global Grind

"Love & Hip Hop" Star Confirms DJ Envy's Cheating Claims: "He Was Leading A Double Life For Many Years" [Audio] | SOHH.COM

While Envy is attempting to salvage his broken marriage, Erica has been dating her manager Rich Dollaz. His thoughts on this? "He's known about this for awhile because I told him. He isn't phased by this." (VIBE Vixen)

A pic of him sending Mena a photo of him masturbating was also released by her...........

Can anyone find the remorse in any way by her? I am still trying to find it. Here she is still playing the victim role and acting like a nun who did not take a part in anyway. Her "manager" ...."isn't phased by this".

Watch that same manager get burned too. These broads are disgusting and lack class. Her tweet response when releasing that photo of him jerking to her was "Who is the bird now!!!"

Now we all know that makes absolutely no sense. How can a man be a bird? Obviously she is the only bird in this situation, but you can tell this is another woman who abides by the whole "Its a double standard and isn't fair' modus operation and doesn't show accountability.

Love and Hip hop is a guilty pleasure of mine, however fellas can learn a lot from how the Rich Dollaz and Erica Mena relationship is playing out on the show.

Everyone from Rich Dollaz mum to his business partners are telling him to ditch this girl because her non talented asss is calling shots, telling him to invest money in recording songs, shoot videos for her non talented asss without signing a music contract, which is unprofessional in the music industry.

Im learning a lot from this situation.:lawd: Sometimes you gotta throw your feelings in the bush no matter how much you feel in love with the woman
 

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I was gonna add to that analogy and say that even though we may break up (i may slice her contract...she may leave too)...thats not to say I cannot enjoy the wins at least while she is here...perhaps a championship :manny:. If she goes on to a next team...shyt happens


It's just the way the game is (both pro sports and relationships nowadays). Back then players didnt have soo much pull. A star could very well stay in a smaller or less glamourous market just to build around one another and win a championship. They were thankful just to have a team. But now you have diva's like Dwight Howard .


It's either you give up and sell/disband the franchise...or you take it and just rebuild like the Cavs are right now.
 

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A lot of you say young girls are not to be trusted but it depends. Some of them grow up with the idea that it should be that long term one lover shyt on a fairy tale tip. Obviously some wander but nonetheless...who would you rather have?

* A young chick that looks up to you and can be molded
* Or a 25 yr old that has tons of emotional baggage and doesn't trust men and is used to have a new dikk every couple months etc etc

Both have pros and cons.
 
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just being nice is simping now? :skip:


the way yall nikkas logic works just being friends with a bytch is simping too huh?



every male/female interaction isn't on some relationship shyt breh

In my experience, yes. Women will use male "Friends" for their needs then throw them in the dirt when the bigger better deal comes along.
 

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In my experience, yes. Women will use male "Friends" for their needs then throw them in the dirt when the bigger better deal comes along.

if you can't differentiate between someone who's just using you and a genuine homie then idk what to say that's on you but i wouldn't go so far as to say that NO bytch can just be cool without doing some grimey shyt cuz i've got some female friends i've known for 6+ years and it's exactly the same kind of relationship i have wit mah nikkas so :manny:




it guess it has to do with what kind of energy you give off when they first meet you i guess :ld:
 

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ISwear I just wrote the longest post in this thread but then...I said fukk it...

In short, I hooked a broad by keeping it alpha, thought she was worthy of me looking beyond her past indiscretions (after months of being apprehensive to her relationship advances), fell for the hoe by allowing my "thought to be banished inner simp to seep out", got cheated on, and finally got a dose of my own medicine.

I'll say this brethren...A brother been gettin' his shyt off on these broads for a looooooonnnnng time (unbeknownst to them) and I finally got to see what it feels like to take that L from a female. Can't front, the shyt stung like a bytch (didn't eat for a couple of days out of mere shock and anger with myself for slippin'). I let my guards soften up with the wrong one and got semi :deadmanny:

But you know what, I took the experience as me being shown "me" in so many words. Life has a way of reflecting (karma) what you put out through the most unlikely of sources and if your willing to accept it and act accordingly going forward, you'll be a better person for it. In hindsight, and the information obtained up to the female admitting to it, I had ALL the evidence in the world to charge her to the game BUT, I felt like I needed to stick around juuuuussssst long enough to have this placed on me.

That said, I've been fukkin other broads since me and the broad exchanged numbers so who was I to REALLY feel fukked up about it ya know :youngsabo:

Pardon the following exchanges:

The hoe:
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One of the jumps :whew: (word to Day Day....#pause ):

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Ego is a muthafukka, b and I'm checking it as the days go BUT, my game is even more frigid because of this situation. Not that I'm a he-man woman hater, but now I feel as though I'm "squared up with the universe" if you will, PLUS I know my worth and value, therefore not a nan notta nother woman will get any title from me without them proving on a consistent level that they are worthy to be my mate. Damn sure gon take some hellafied showing and proving to even get me to consider anything LONG term...Especially as my stock continues to rise...
I'm HLS, I like WOMEN, but they LOVE me...Word to the late great, Patrice O'neil :smugfavre:
 
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