Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[HabitualLineSteppa]

ISwear I just wrote the longest post in this thread but then...I said fukk it...

In short, I hooked a broad by keeping it alpha, thought she was worthy of me looking beyond her past indiscretions (after months of being apprehensive to her relationship advances), fell for the hoe by allowing my "thought to be banished inner simp to seep out", got cheated on, and finally got a dose of my own medicine.

I'll say this brethren...A brother been gettin' his shyt off on these broads for a looooooonnnnng time (unbeknownst to them) and I finally got to see what it feels like to take that L from a female. Can't front, the shyt stung like a bytch (didn't eat for a couple of days out of mere shock and anger with myself for slippin'). I let my guards soften up with the wrong one and got semi

But you know what, I took the experience as me being shown "me" in so many words. Life has a way of reflecting (karma) what you put out through the most unlikely of sources and if your willing to accept it and act accordingly going forward, you'll be a better person for it. In hindsight, and the information obtained up to the female admitting to it, I had ALL the evidence in the world to charge her to the game BUT, I felt like I needed to stick around juuuuussssst long enough to have this placed on me.

That said, I've been fukkin other broads since me and the broad exchanged numbers so who was I to REALLY feel fukked up about it ya know

Pardon the following exchanges:

The hoe:

One of the jumps (word to Day Day....#pause ):

Ego is a muthafukka, b and I'm checking it as the days go BUT, my game is even more frigid because of this situation. Not that I'm a he-man woman hater, but now I feel as though I'm "squared up with the universe" if you will, PLUS I know my worth and value, therefore not a nan notta nother woman will get any title from me without them proving on a consistent level that they are worthy to be my mate. Damn sure gon take some hellafied showing and proving to even get me to consider anything LONG term...Especially as my stock continues to rise...
I'm HLS, I like WOMEN, but they LOVE me...Word to the late great, Patrice O'neil

 

[MikelArteta]

if you can't differentiate between someone who's just using you and a genuine homie then idk what to say that's on you but i wouldn't go so far as to say that NO bytch can just be cool without doing some grimey shyt cuz i've got some female friends i've known for 6+ years and it's exactly the same kind of relationship i have wit mah nikkas so




it guess it has to do with what kind of energy you give off when they first meet you i guess

male and females cannot be genuine friends, one party will always have attraction, hell i have a female friend i've known since iw as 7, and she finally came onto me last year how shes had a crush on me for yeasr, i have no attraction to her and view her as my sister.

 

[MikelArteta]

A lot of you say young girls are not to be trusted but it depends. Some of them grow up with the idea that it should be that long term one lover shyt on a fairy tale tip. Obviously some wander but nonetheless...who would you rather have?

* A young chick that looks up to you and can be molded
* Or a 25 yr old that has tons of emotional baggage and doesn't trust men and is used to have a new dikk every couple months etc etc

Both have pros and cons.

molding a chick is just like working in a clay factory once your done molding the sculpture it moves on to other hands, i was like you before breh let me get a young chick whose innocent and mold her into a something good.

the thing is with the 25 year old at least you know it aint gonna last and you prob wont develop feelings for, but these young broads you'll mold spend all that time on, only to get played like a violin in the end

 

[MikelArteta]

ISwear I just wrote the longest post in this thread but then...I said fukk it...

In short, I hooked a broad by keeping it alpha, thought she was worthy of me looking beyond her past indiscretions (after months of being apprehensive to her relationship advances), fell for the hoe by allowing my "thought to be banished inner simp to seep out", got cheated on, and finally got a dose of my own medicine.

I'll say this brethren...A brother been gettin' his shyt off on these broads for a looooooonnnnng time (unbeknownst to them) and I finally got to see what it feels like to take that L from a female. Can't front, the shyt stung like a bytch (didn't eat for a couple of days out of mere shock and anger with myself for slippin'). I let my guards soften up with the wrong one and got semi

But you know what, I took the experience as me being shown "me" in so many words. Life has a way of reflecting (karma) what you put out through the most unlikely of sources and if your willing to accept it and act accordingly going forward, you'll be a better person for it. In hindsight, and the information obtained up to the female admitting to it, I had ALL the evidence in the world to charge her to the game BUT, I felt like I needed to stick around juuuuussssst long enough to have this placed on me.

That said, I've been fukkin other broads since me and the broad exchanged numbers so who was I to REALLY feel fukked up about it ya know

Pardon the following exchanges:

The hoe:

One of the jumps (word to Day Day....#pause ):

Ego is a muthafukka, b and I'm checking it as the days go BUT, my game is even more frigid because of this situation. Not that I'm a he-man woman hater, but now I feel as though I'm "squared up with the universe" if you will, PLUS I know my worth and value, therefore not a nan notta nother woman will get any title from me without them proving on a consistent level that they are worthy to be my mate. Damn sure gon take some hellafied showing and proving to even get me to consider anything LONG term...Especially as my stock continues to rise...
I'm HLS, I like WOMEN, but they LOVE me...Word to the late great, Patrice O'neil

i love when women send you that if were meant to be together ish, its amazing the less you say to a chick and the worse you treat her, she will be like a puppy eating out of your hand, i remember when i was on my man whore streak treating women like dirt and they couldnt stay away that emotional thrill and ride


btw the worse thing any man can do is fall for a ho its like falling in quicksand

 

[T-K-G]

male and females cannot be genuine friends, one party will always have attraction, hell i have a female friend i've known since iw as 7, and she finally came onto me last year how shes had a crush on me for yeasr, i have no attraction to her and view her as my sister.

there are times when both parties feel this way, idk why you nikkas can't grasp this concept

 

[kevm3]

ISwear I just wrote the longest post in this thread but then...I said fukk it...

In short, I hooked a broad by keeping it alpha, thought she was worthy of me looking beyond her past indiscretions (after months of being apprehensive to her relationship advances), fell for the hoe by allowing my "thought to be banished inner simp to seep out", got cheated on, and finally got a dose of my own medicine.

I'll say this brethren...A brother been gettin' his shyt off on these broads for a looooooonnnnng time (unbeknownst to them) and I finally got to see what it feels like to take that L from a female. Can't front, the shyt stung like a bytch (didn't eat for a couple of days out of mere shock and anger with myself for slippin'). I let my guards soften up with the wrong one and got semi

But you know what, I took the experience as me being shown "me" in so many words. Life has a way of reflecting (karma) what you put out through the most unlikely of sources and if your willing to accept it and act accordingly going forward, you'll be a better person for it. In hindsight, and the information obtained up to the female admitting to it, I had ALL the evidence in the world to charge her to the game BUT, I felt like I needed to stick around juuuuussssst long enough to have this placed on me.

That said, I've been fukkin other broads since me and the broad exchanged numbers so who was I to REALLY feel fukked up about it ya know

Pardon the following exchanges:

The hoe:

One of the jumps (word to Day Day....#pause ):

Ego is a muthafukka, b and I'm checking it as the days go BUT, my game is even more frigid because of this situation. Not that I'm a he-man woman hater, but now I feel as though I'm "squared up with the universe" if you will, PLUS I know my worth and value, therefore not a nan notta nother woman will get any title from me without them proving on a consistent level that they are worthy to be my mate. Damn sure gon take some hellafied showing and proving to even get me to consider anything LONG term...Especially as my stock continues to rise...
I'm HLS, I like WOMEN, but they LOVE me...Word to the late great, Patrice O'neil

The Bible was correct in that you reap what you sew. If you're going to do anything, always do it with class, dignity, respect. This is essentially the root of morals and principles. Like Jesus said, treat others how you want to be treated. "Playing" with women is fun until you fall and you get that stuff turned right back on you. Me personally, I say ALWAYS take consideration in whether your actions are foul or respectable, because sooner or later, all that you do will come back on you like a boomerang.

It's a great lesson you learned early though. God bless.

 

[kevm3]

I was gonna add to that analogy and say that even though we may break up (i may slice her contract...she may leave too)...thats not to say I cannot enjoy the wins at least while she is here...perhaps a championship . If she goes on to a next team...shyt happens


It's just the way the game is (both pro sports and relationships nowadays). Back then players didnt have soo much pull. A star could very well stay in a smaller or less glamourous market just to build around one another and win a championship. They were thankful just to have a team. But now you have diva's like Dwight Howard .


It's either you give up and sell/disband the franchise...or you take it and just rebuild like the Cavs are right now.

You're doing the right thing. You are SUPPOSED to mold a woman and teach her something while she is with you. If she takes that knowledge to the next man, cool. But what you've just gained was knowledge and experience and how to handle the situation with the next woman that comes through the door.

There's nothing simpish about teaching a woman something and bettering her. In fact, teaching and molding is a critical part of leadership. Still, it has to be with a price. A man always has to maintain a woman respects him and submits to his authority... those lessons of improvement don't come for free.

 

[philmonroe]

male and females cannot be genuine friends, one party will always have attraction, hell i have a female friend i've known since iw as 7, and she finally came onto me last year how shes had a crush on me for yeasr, i have no attraction to her and view her as my sister.

I think this is rare when you've known em that long. All the chicks that I've grew up with like that I wouldn't mess with and vice versa. Its usually when you meet women "friends" now that you can't be "friends" with outside of a few exceptions.

 

[T-K-G]

You're doing the right thing. You are SUPPOSED to mold a woman and teach her something while she is with you. If she takes that knowledge to the next man, cool. But what you've just gained was knowledge and experience and how to handle the situation with the next woman that comes through the door.

There's nothing simpish about teaching a woman something and bettering her. In fact, teaching and molding is a critical part of leadership. Still, it has to be with a price. A man always has to maintain a woman respects him and submits to his authority... those lessons of improvement don't come for free.

exactly man some nikkas in this thread be too extreme, any positive actions towards a female outside of sex is "simpin"


while some of this shyt in here really works, there's alot of shyt that only sounds nice in theory but doesn't translate to real life situations

 

[MAKAVELI25]

That's low level simping, friend.

Message board extremists are always hilarious

 

[semtex]

chicks who have no goals to accomplish anything besides find a MAN who has accomplished something and suck him dry (not in the good way)<<<<

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Message board extremists are always hilarious

How old are most of you dudes disagreeing with this?

 

[MAKAVELI25]

How old are most of you dudes disagreeing with this?

Don't try to make this an age thing, breh. I've smashed a lot of females but I've only been in a few true relationships; It's in a man's nature to lust for females we find attractive but only get in to relationships with women we genuinely like. Not all relationships are gonna end with lifetime commitment but how can you GENUINELY like someone and not be trying to make them better/build them up?

 

[MikelArteta]

exactly man some nikkas in this thread be too extreme, any positive actions towards a female outside of sex is "simpin"


while some of this shyt in here really works, there's alot of shyt that only sounds nice in theory but doesn't translate to real life situations

everyone has different views

 

[T-K-G]

How old are most of you dudes disagreeing with this?

breh im not a old nikka that's the thing though im only 20


i think older bytches are the ones who are the ones who you really can't be friends with cuz by that age most people already got their friend circles solidified so everyone else is just a potential relationship (or potential simp)


when you young you still acquiring friends and networkin n shyt so it's not always about a bytch tryna use you for somethin some of em are just cool peoples.... i can't defensive or tryna game every bytch come some of em genuinely just wanna be cool wit me